{"id":786700,"date":"2025-02-08T21:08:21","date_gmt":"2025-02-08T17:08:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=786700"},"modified":"2025-02-08T21:08:21","modified_gmt":"2025-02-08T17:08:21","slug":"usaqlari-mavi-balinadan-nec%c9%99-qoruyaq-valideynl%c9%99r%c9%99-x%c9%99b%c9%99rdarliq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=786700","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faqlar\u0131 “Mavi Balina”dan nec\u0259 qoruyaq? \u2013 Valideynl\u0259r\u0259 X\u018fB\u018fRDARLIQ"},"content":{"rendered":"

D\u00fcnyan\u0131n bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259sind\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131xan, \u00e7ox sayda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olan “Mavi Balina” oyununun yeni qurbanlar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 iddialar yay\u0131l\u0131b.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n oyunun m\u00fcxt\u0259lif vaxtlarda Az\u0259rbaycanda da qurbanlar\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011fu iddia edilib.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, iyunun 19-da \u015e\u0259ki rayonunun Oxut k\u0259nd sakini, 2005-ci il t\u0259v\u0259ll\u00fcdl\u00fc Elg\u00fcn K\u0259mran o\u011flu M\u0259mm\u0259dli \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evin h\u0259y\u0259tyan\u0131 sah\u0259sind\u0259 a\u011facdan asaraq intihar edib. B\u0259zi iddialara g\u00f6r\u0259, o, “Mavi Balina” oynay\u0131b v\u0259 oyunun t\u0259siri alt\u0131nda h\u0259yat\u0131na son qoyub.<\/p>\n

2017-ci il oktyabr\u0131n 15-d\u0259 \u015eamax\u0131n\u0131n Xilmilli k\u0259ndind\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 g\u0259nc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc as\u0131b. G\u0259ncin “Mavi Balina” oynad\u0131qdan sonra intihar etdiyi iddia olunurdu.<\/p>\n

H\u0259min ilin dekabr\u0131n 4-d\u0259 A\u011fda\u015f rayonu Nehr\u0259x\u0259lilli k\u0259nd sakini, 7-ci sinif \u015fagirdi \u0130smay\u0131l Ad\u0131g\u00f6z\u0259lov ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evin h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259 yerl\u0259\u015f\u0259n t\u00f6vl\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc asaraq intihar edib. \u0130ntihar\u0131n ad\u0131\u00e7\u0259kil\u0259n oyun s\u0259b\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n ba\u015f verdiyi bildirilib.<\/p>\n

2018-ci il iyunun 25-d\u0259 Tovuz rayonunun \u018flim\u0259rdanl\u0131 k\u0259nd sakini, 2004-c\u00fc il t\u0259v\u0259ll\u00fcdl\u00fc Heyd\u0259r Mahmud o\u011flu Yusifovun da meyiti ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evin h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259 as\u0131lm\u0131\u015f v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 a\u015fkar edilib. Atas\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n “Mavi Balina” oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n intihar etdiyini deyib.<\/p>\n

2019-cu il fevral\u0131n 9-da K\u00fcrd\u0259xan\u0131 q\u0259s\u0259b\u0259sind\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 \u018fli Quluzad\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc asaraq intihar edib. Yeniyetm\u0259nin valideynl\u0259ri onun internetd\u0259 “Mavi Balina” adl\u0131 oyun oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildiribl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bu yax\u0131nlarda Yard\u0131ml\u0131da intihar ed\u0259n \u018fl\u0259kb\u0259r \u015e\u00fck\u00fcrl\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u0259 “Mavi Balina” adl\u0131 oyunun t\u0259siri alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc bildirilir.<\/p>\n

\u0130ddia olunur ki, 9-15 ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar bu oyunun qurban\u0131 olurlar. F\u0259rqli tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlardan sonra 50-ci m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 intihar \u0259mri verilir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, bu tip t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li oyunlar oynayan u\u015faqlar\u0131n psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti nec\u0259 olur v\u0259 valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 nec\u0259 r\u0259ftar etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r?<\/p>\n

Oxu.Az m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 psixoloq Elmir \u018fkb\u0259rin fikirl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nib.<\/p>\n

\n
\"\"<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

 <\/p>\n

O qeyd edib ki, \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rin x\u00fcsusi xidm\u0259t orqanlar\u0131 bu oyunlar il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcrs\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n zaman periodlarda yenid\u0259n g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259lir:<\/p>\n

“Bu oyunlardan \u0259n \u00e7ox s\u0259s-k\u00fcy yaradan\u0131 “The blue whale” (Mavi Balina – red.) olub. Bir d\u00f6n\u0259m h\u0259min oyunun ciddi m\u0259nfi n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri olmu\u015fdu. Amma bu o dem\u0259k deyil ki, intihara s\u00f6vq etm\u0259y\u0259n oyunlar daha az z\u0259r\u0259rlidir. H\u0259r \u015fey u\u015faqlar\u0131n telefon, komp\u00fcter \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n oyun as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Sonra h\u0259min v\u0259rdi\u015f pullu oyunlara, qumara \u00e7evrilir. Bu m\u00f6vzuya g\u00f6r\u0259 evl\u0259r da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r, ail\u0259l\u0259r m\u00fcflisl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bizim \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck problemimiz h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri insanlar\u0131n e\u015fitm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259m\u0259sidir. B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 qumun i\u00e7ind\u0259 gizl\u0259tm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259z hesab edirl\u0259r. Bu c\u00fcr intihar hadis\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259suliyy\u0259t valideynl\u0259rin \u00e7iynind\u0259dir. Fikir verir\u0259m, 90 faiz hallarda m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r daha yax\u015f\u0131 m\u00f6vqe tuturlar, n\u0259inki valideynl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ziyal\u0131 t\u0259b\u0259q\u0259y\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 qeyri-adekvat m\u00fcnasib\u0259t h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr. Valideynl\u0259r israr edirl\u0259r ki, s\u0259hvl\u0259rini he\u00e7 kim dil\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259sin”.<\/p>\n

Ekspert vur\u011fulay\u0131b ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn bu hadis\u0259l\u0259rin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131na olan diqq\u0259ti dayan\u0131r:<\/p>\n

“Valideynl\u0259r q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259mirl\u0259r ki, zaman d\u0259yi\u015fib. Dan\u0131\u015fanda deyirl\u0259r ki, bizim vaxt\u0131m\u0131zda bel\u0259 deyildi. El\u0259 deyildi, \u00e7\u00fcnki h\u0259min d\u00f6vr ba\u015fqa idi, indi h\u0259r \u015fey d\u0259yi\u015fib. M\u0259n demir\u0259m ki, mobil telefon, komp\u00fcter, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 pisdir. Lakin t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri var.<\/p>\n

U\u015faqlar art\u0131q asosialla\u015f\u0131b, onlar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri virtual d\u00fcnyada qurma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu da psixoloji probleml\u0259r\u0259, reall\u0131qla \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rin k\u0259silm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Real d\u00fcnyadan ayr\u0131laraq virtual al\u0259m\u0259 qapan\u0131rlar, orada t\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n psixoloji durumuna h\u0259ssas, diqq\u0259tli yana\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Onlar b\u0259z\u0259n anlam\u0131rlar ki, u\u015faqda ba\u015f ver\u0259n adi d\u0259yi\u015fiklik g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 formala\u015facaq a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259liyin ilkin \u0259lam\u0259tidir. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259kim psixoterapevt m\u00fcayin\u0259si m\u00fctl\u0259qdir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, \u0259trafdak\u0131lar da valideyn\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, \u0259\u015fi, bo\u015f \u015feydir, ke\u00e7id d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr, d\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k. Lakin sabah u\u015faqda \u015fizofreniya a\u015fkarlananda, qumara qur\u015fananda, i\u00e7ki alud\u0259\u00e7isi olanda \u0259ziyy\u0259ti valideyn \u00e7\u0259kir, k\u0259nardan “qorxma” dey\u0259nl\u0259r yox.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n problemin ortaya \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131nda dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259b cahillik v\u0259 qarag\u00fcruha meyillilikdir. Bax\u0131c\u0131lar, cadugarlar u\u015faq m\u00fcalic\u0259 etmirl\u0259r, bunu bird\u0259f\u0259lik \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259liyik”.<\/p>\n

O \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, a\u011f\u0131r psixoloji x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r b\u0259zi vacib \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir:<\/p>\n

“U\u015faq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapan\u0131r, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259ti k\u0259sir, \u0259vv\u0259l z\u00f6vq ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyl\u0259rd\u0259n art\u0131q z\u00f6vq alm\u0131r, dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259ni k\u0259sir v\u0259 sair. Dig\u0259r \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259r is\u0259 odur ki, u\u015faq valideynl\u0259rin\u0259, yax\u0131nlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u0259sass\u0131z ittihamlar edir, ba\u015fqalar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 q\u0259rib\u0259 aqressiya v\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni d\u0259 qeyd edim, qar\u015f\u0131dan imtahanlar g\u0259lir. B\u00fct\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti il\u0259 maraqlan\u0131rlar? Xeyr. \u0130mtahandan k\u0259sil\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti savads\u0131zl\u0131qdan yox, t\u0259\u015fvi\u015fd\u0259n, h\u0259y\u0259candan k\u0259silirl\u0259r. Sonra u\u015faqlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131 alt-\u00fcst olur, depressiyaya girirl\u0259r, h\u0259yatdan \u0259ll\u0259rini \u00fcz\u00fcrl\u0259r, intihara c\u0259hd edirl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

D\u00fcnyan\u0131n bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259sind\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131xan, \u00e7ox sayda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olan “Mavi Balina” oyununun yeni qurbanlar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 iddialar yay\u0131l\u0131b. S\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n oyunun m\u00fcxt\u0259lif vaxtlarda Az\u0259rbaycanda da qurbanlar\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011fu iddia edilib. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, iyunun 19-da \u015e\u0259ki rayonunun Oxut k\u0259nd sakini, 2005-ci il t\u0259v\u0259ll\u00fcdl\u00fc Elg\u00fcn K\u0259mran o\u011flu M\u0259mm\u0259dli \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evin h\u0259y\u0259tyan\u0131 sah\u0259sind\u0259 a\u011facdan asaraq intihar edib. B\u0259zi iddialara g\u00f6r\u0259, o, “Mavi Balina” oynay\u0131b v\u0259 oyunun t\u0259siri alt\u0131nda h\u0259yat\u0131na son qoyub. 2017-ci il oktyabr\u0131n 15-d\u0259 \u015eamax\u0131n\u0131n Xilmilli k\u0259ndind\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 g\u0259nc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc as\u0131b. G\u0259ncin “Mavi Balina” oynad\u0131qdan sonra intihar etdiyi iddia…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":786701,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893.jpg",870,500,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893.jpg",870,500,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893.jpg",870,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893-635x365.jpg",635,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893-840x483.jpg",640,368,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893.jpg",870,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893.jpg",870,500,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/4dcb863cedca65ad2e6c38da835b9893.jpg",870,500,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"G\u00fcnd\u0259m<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"D\u00fcnyan\u0131n bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259sind\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131xan, \u00e7ox sayda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olan “Mavi Balina” oyununun yeni qurbanlar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 iddialar yay\u0131l\u0131b. S\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n oyunun m\u00fcxt\u0259lif vaxtlarda Az\u0259rbaycanda da qurbanlar\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011fu iddia edilib. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, iyunun 19-da \u015e\u0259ki rayonunun Oxut k\u0259nd sakini, 2005-ci il t\u0259v\u0259ll\u00fcdl\u00fc Elg\u00fcn K\u0259mran o\u011flu M\u0259mm\u0259dli \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evin h\u0259y\u0259tyan\u0131 sah\u0259sind\u0259 a\u011facdan asaraq intihar…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786700"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=786700"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786700\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":786702,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786700\/revisions\/786702"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/786701"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=786700"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=786700"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=786700"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}