Son zamanlar bir tendensiya m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunmaqdad\u0131r. B\u0259zi ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n xeyli g\u0259nc q\u0131zlara el\u00e7i d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Ya da \u0259ksin\u0259, hans\u0131sa g\u0259nc q\u0131z az qala atas\u0131 ya\u015fda ki\u015fiy\u0259 vurulur, sonra da ona \u0259r\u0259 gedir. N\u0259 ba\u015f verir?<\/p>\n
Art\u0131q sanki g\u0259nc qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ya\u015fda \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurmalar\u0131 bir \u0259n\u0259n\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Bunu sevgi adland\u0131raq, yoxsa \u015f\u0259xsi maraqlar? Bir reall\u0131q var, o da art\u0131q bel\u0259 hallar\u0131n insanlara adi g\u0259lm\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259 faktlar \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin qeyd\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 nikahlar\u0131n r\u0259smi statistikas\u0131nda da \u0259ks olunur.<\/p>\n
\u201cM\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 iki aspektd\u0259n bax\u0131ram. Maddi maraqlar \u00fczr\u0259 qurulmay\u0131bsa, bunu normal qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131ram, ancaq ortada sevgid\u0259n ba\u015fqa h\u0259r \u015fey varsa, \u00e7ox iyr\u0259nc bax\u0131ram. \u018fg\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r \u0259sas rol oynay\u0131rsa, orada bir ah\u0259nglik yaran\u0131r. Ancaq maddi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r \u00f6n plandad\u0131rsa, o zaman g\u0259rginlik qa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n
Bunu sosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu Modern.az-a m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n s\u00f6yl\u0259yib:<\/p>\n
\u201cBirm\u0259nal\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 dey\u0259 bilm\u0259rik ki, g\u0259nc qad\u0131nlar ancaq pula g\u00f6r\u0259 bu add\u0131m\u0131 at\u0131rlar. \u018fsas odur ki, stereotipl\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fib. Bir vaxtlar Az\u0259rbaycanda q\u0131zlar z\u0259nci, \u0259r\u0259b g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 qorxurdular. \u0130ndi is\u0259 tamam \u0259ksin\u0259dir. \u018fr\u0259bl\u0259r\u0259, z\u0259ncil\u0259r\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259nl\u0259r d\u0259 var. Niy\u0259? \u00c7\u00fcnki, pullar\u0131 \u00e7oxdur. Amma bunu h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 \u015famil etm\u0259k olmaz. Tarix g\u00f6st\u0259rib ki, g\u0259nc xan\u0131mlar ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259, yaxud \u0259ksin\u0259, ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r g\u0259nc xan\u0131mlara vurula bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Bu, t\u0259bii hald\u0131r. Misal olaraq, Rafiq H\u00fcseynovu g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki, \u00f6z t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259sin\u0259 a\u015fiq olmu\u015fdu v\u0259 aralar\u0131nda ciddi ya\u015f f\u0259rqi vard\u0131. Vaqif S\u0259m\u0259do\u011flu v\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131 N\u00fc\u015fab\u0259 xan\u0131m aras\u0131nda da ya\u015f f\u0259rqi \u00e7ox idi.\u00a0 Hac\u0131baba Ba\u011f\u0131rovla xan\u0131m\u0131 aras\u0131nda da h\u0259m\u00e7inin, \u00e7\u00fcnki sevgi ya\u015fa baxm\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu deyir ki, g\u0259nc q\u0131zlara \u00f6z h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 sevimli g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcr:<\/p>\n
\u201cG\u0259nc xan\u0131mlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na diqq\u0259t yetir\u0259k. Onlar el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri daha geni\u015fdir, lakin tay-tu\u015flar\u0131 h\u0259m kas\u0131b, h\u0259m d\u0259 dar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 g\u0259nc xan\u0131mlar \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n qat-qat b\u00f6y\u00fck ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 meyl edirl\u0259r ki, onlar\u0131n iqtisadi v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, indi bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131 sevgi hissi il\u0259 yox, \u015f\u0259xsi maraq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r. \u018fsas m\u0259qs\u0259d probleml\u0259rini h\u0259ll etm\u0259kdir. Bu, ondan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir ki, indiki insanlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259ri d\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fib. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, g\u0259nc q\u0131z imkanl\u0131, ya\u015fl\u0131 biri il\u0259 ail\u0259 qurursa, onu sev\u0259r\u0259k ail\u0259 qurmur. \u00d6z karyeras\u0131n\u0131 qurur, o, ki\u015fini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 bir k\u00f6m\u0259k\u00e7i kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Bilir ki, n\u0259 ist\u0259s\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259k\u201d.<\/p>\n
Az\u0259rbaycan Yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131lar Birliyinin \u00fczv\u00fc, prezident t\u0259qa\u00fcd\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc T\u00fcrkan Turan is\u0259 sevgini fiziki deyil, ruhi bir olay adland\u0131r\u0131r:<\/p>\n
\u201cQar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdak\u0131 insandan h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u00fcmidini k\u0259sm\u0259si, bizim onu sevm\u0259yimiz\u0259 \u0259ng\u0259l t\u00f6r\u0259d\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Ziddiy\u0259tli insanlar\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck sevgil\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6rn\u0259k g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k olar. T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259 tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir h\u0259kim\u00a0 qad\u0131n var. X\u0259r\u00e7\u0259ngd\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. Dey\u0259rdim ki, \u00e7ox sayda \u0259m\u0259liyyatlar ke\u00e7irib, haz\u0131rda da a\u011fr\u0131larla m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apar\u0131r. Ancaq uzun ill\u0259rdir ki, yata\u011fa ba\u011fl\u0131 olan, sad\u0259c\u0259 g\u00f6z qapaqlar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131b-ba\u011flanan h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan imtina etmir. Bax \u0259sl sevgi budur. Amma pul namin\u0259 t\u0259kc\u0259 qoca v\u0259 g\u0259ncin deyil, h\u0259r ya\u015fda olan insanlar\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131qd\u0131r. Xahi\u015f edir\u0259m, ad\u0131na e\u015fq dey\u0259r\u0259k, bu ali hissi ki\u00e7iltm\u0259y\u0259k\u201d.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkan Turan c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 formala\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir fikir\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t bildirib:<\/p>\n
\u201cHesab edirl\u0259r ki, insan b\u0259lli bir ya\u015fa g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 h\u0259yatdan \u0259lini \u00fcz\u00fcb, t\u0259qa\u00fcd\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259lidir. \u00c7oxumuz bunu \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evirib, beynimizin ortas\u0131ndan as\u0131r\u0131q. Sonra da\u00a0 ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 o dar yerd\u0259n boylanaraq bax\u0131r\u0131q. M\u0259hz buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 rahatl\u0131qla kimis\u0259 ittiham edib, onu q\u0131nay\u0131r\u0131q. Q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259mirik ki, h\u0259r \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi olmur, b\u0259z\u0259n toxunaraq hiss etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ya\u015f\u0131n \u00f6n\u0259mi yoxdur, insan son n\u0259f\u0259sin\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r sev\u0259 bil\u0259r. He\u00e7 kim bu duy\u011fuya n\u0259 s\u0259rh\u0259d, n\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259 t\u0259yin ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Amma t\u0259bii ki, sevgi il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259si olmayan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r d\u0259 yox deyil. \u00dczeyir Hac\u0131b\u0259yovun \u201cO olmas\u0131n, bu olsun\u201dunda q\u0131z\u0131 M\u0259\u015f\u0259di \u0130bada n\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 verirl\u0259r? \u00c7\u00fcnki val-d\u00f6vl\u0259ti var idi. G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, bu\u00a0 fikir indi yox, lap \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259rd\u0259n var imi\u015f\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Son zamanlar bir tendensiya m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunmaqdad\u0131r. B\u0259zi ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n xeyli g\u0259nc q\u0131zlara el\u00e7i d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ya da \u0259ksin\u0259, hans\u0131sa g\u0259nc q\u0131z az qala atas\u0131 ya\u015fda ki\u015fiy\u0259 vurulur, sonra da ona \u0259r\u0259 gedir. N\u0259 ba\u015f verir? Art\u0131q sanki g\u0259nc qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ya\u015fda \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurmalar\u0131 bir \u0259n\u0259n\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Bunu sevgi adland\u0131raq, yoxsa \u015f\u0259xsi maraqlar? Bir reall\u0131q var, o da art\u0131q bel\u0259 hallar\u0131n insanlara adi g\u0259lm\u0259sidir. Bel\u0259 faktlar \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin qeyd\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 nikahlar\u0131n r\u0259smi statistikas\u0131nda da \u0259ks olunur. \u201cM\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 iki aspektd\u0259n bax\u0131ram. Maddi maraqlar \u00fczr\u0259 qurulmay\u0131bsa, bunu…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":79457,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah.jpg",720,403,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah.jpg",720,403,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah.jpg",720,403,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah-300x168.jpg",300,168,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah.jpg",640,358,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah.jpg",720,403,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah.jpg",720,403,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nigah.jpg",720,403,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Son zamanlar bir tendensiya m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunmaqdad\u0131r. B\u0259zi ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n xeyli g\u0259nc q\u0131zlara el\u00e7i d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ya da \u0259ksin\u0259, hans\u0131sa g\u0259nc q\u0131z az qala atas\u0131 ya\u015fda ki\u015fiy\u0259 vurulur, sonra da ona \u0259r\u0259 gedir. N\u0259 ba\u015f verir? Art\u0131q sanki g\u0259nc qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ya\u015fda \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurmalar\u0131 bir \u0259n\u0259n\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Bunu sevgi adland\u0131raq, yoxsa \u015f\u0259xsi maraqlar?…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79456"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=79456"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79456\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/79457"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=79456"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=79456"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=79456"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}