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“B\u0259z\u0259n ail\u0259nin b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fc icaz\u0259 verir ki, onun \u00f6vlad\u0131na v\u0259 g\u0259lini haqq\u0131nda h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir yanl\u0131\u015f m\u0259lumat yay\u0131ls\u0131n. Qaynana g\u0259linini sevmirs\u0259, o\u011flunun ail\u0259sinin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na q\u0259rar verir. H\u0259r zaman da bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr: “O\u011flum gedib bundan da yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alacaq.” \u018fn b\u00f6y\u00fck s\u0259hvimiz bax el\u0259 m\u0259hz budur.<\/p>\n
Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, insanlar bo\u015fanaraq m\u0259suliyy\u0259td\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. “S\u0259rb\u0259st, rahat” h\u0259yat ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. El\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r var ki, bo\u015fand\u0131qdan bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra onlar\u0131 bar\u0131\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram. Lakin bu zaman xan\u0131m bel\u0259 bir fikir s\u0259sl\u0259ndirir: “M\u0259n yenid\u0259n ki\u015fi paltar\u0131 \u00fct\u00fcl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259mir\u0259m. Yenid\u0259n ona qulluq edib yem\u0259k haz\u0131rlamaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m”.<\/p>\n
Bax\u0131n, insanlar art\u0131q \u00e7ox ki\u00e7ik m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri problem edirl\u0259r. Halbuki bizim \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00fcsullar\u0131m\u0131zdan biri sevdikl\u0259rimiz\u0259 s\u00fcfr\u0259 a\u00e7maq, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yem\u0259k haz\u0131rlamaqd\u0131r. Bu yolla ail\u0259mizi birl\u0259\u015fdirirdik.<\/p>\n
Bu g\u00fcn biz inki\u015faf etmi\u015f \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biriyik. Lakin bu q\u0259d\u0259r inki\u015faf\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 insanlar bir-birinin b\u0259hsin\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l ail\u0259l\u0259rini da\u011f\u0131d\u0131rlar. Amma unutmamal\u0131y\u0131q ki, h\u0259yat sona \u00e7atd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda he\u00e7 bir pe\u015f\u0259 insana t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. \u0130nsana qalan onun ail\u0259sidir. Bu bax\u0131mdan s\u0259hvl\u0259r etm\u0259s\u0259k, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 c\u00fczi d\u0259 olsa ala bil\u0259rik.<\/p>\n
H\u0259ft\u0259 sonlar\u0131 ata v\u0259 balalar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f an\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 “Niy\u0259 atam ola-ola ondan ayr\u0131 olmal\u0131yam?” sual\u0131n\u0131 oxuyanda insan m\u0259yus olur.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 malik insanlara da rast g\u0259lirik. Bel\u0259 hallarda ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n xeyrin\u0259 olur. \u00dcmumilikd\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fckd\u0259 is\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bo\u015fanmalar bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ba\u015f vermir.<\/p>\n
B\u0259zi h\u0259mkarlar\u0131m pasiyentl\u0259rin\u0259 “Get, bo\u015fan” deyirl\u0259r. Lakin bu yana\u015fma il\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fmaq olmaz. Onlar da\u011f\u0131td\u0131qlar\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rin u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n b\u0259ddualar\u0131 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fa bil\u0259rl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015finin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n i\u015fl\u0259r m\u0259lum idi. Ancaq indi h\u0259m qad\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fi i\u015fl\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259d\u0259 balans\u0131 qorumaq bir az \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259si 2024-c\u00fc ild\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b. Statistikaya g\u00f6r\u0259, bo\u015fanan \u00e7\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin say\u0131 1814 n\u0259f\u0259r olub. Bu, \u00f6t\u0259n ill\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 1000 n\u0259f\u0259r \u00e7oxdur. M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0BiG.AZ-a a\u00e7\u0131qlama ver\u0259n psixoloq Ayt\u0259n \u018fl\u0259kb\u0259rova bildirib ki, biz harada s\u0259hv edirik ki, bu g\u00fcn ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131b? \u018fslind\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq etdiyimiz bir s\u0259hv var. Bu s\u0259hvin n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259n da\u011f\u0131lma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r: “B\u0259z\u0259n ail\u0259nin b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fc…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":797270,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457.png",649,437,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457.png",649,437,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457.png",649,437,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457-500x280.png",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457-542x365.png",542,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457.png",640,431,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457.png",649,437,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457.png",649,437,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457-240x172.png",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/791_71743680457.png",649,437,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015finin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n i\u015fl\u0259r m\u0259lum idi. Ancaq indi h\u0259m qad\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fi i\u015fl\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259d\u0259 balans\u0131 qorumaq bir az \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259si 2024-c\u00fc ild\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b. Statistikaya g\u00f6r\u0259, bo\u015fanan \u00e7\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin say\u0131 1814 n\u0259f\u0259r olub. Bu, \u00f6t\u0259n ill\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 1000 n\u0259f\u0259r \u00e7oxdur. M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0BiG.AZ-a a\u00e7\u0131qlama…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/797269"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=797269"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/797269\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":797271,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/797269\/revisions\/797271"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/797270"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=797269"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=797269"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=797269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}