{"id":803478,"date":"2025-04-30T12:00:14","date_gmt":"2025-04-30T08:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=803478"},"modified":"2025-04-30T12:00:14","modified_gmt":"2025-04-30T08:00:14","slug":"qizlari-evd%c9%99n-qacmaga-vadar-ed%c9%99n-s%c9%99b%c9%99b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=803478","title":{"rendered":"Q\u0131zlar\u0131 evd\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa vadar ed\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Psixoloq deyir ki, 14 ya\u015f yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259n t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr v\u0259&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Son ill\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycanda u\u015faqlar\u0131n v\u0259 g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n evd\u0259n qa\u00e7mas\u0131 hallar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn narahatl\u0131q do\u011furan problem\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 2024-2025-ci ill\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259tbuatda v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda yay\u0131mlanan x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rin \u00e7oxlu\u011fu problemin miqyas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 aktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bir daha ortaya qoyur. \u018fn \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t\u00e7\u0259k\u0259n m\u0259qamlardan biri d\u0259 bu hallar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 evi t\u0259rk etm\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq V\u0259fa R\u0259\u015fidova deyib ki, haz\u0131rda ail\u0259daxili v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 SOS dey\u0259c\u0259k durum yaran\u0131b:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cU\u015faqlar ail\u0259l\u0259rin basq\u0131s\u0131, t\u0259hqiri il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r. \u0130ll\u0259rdir biz bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q, amma faydas\u0131 yoxdur. \u015eidd\u0259tl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n bir u\u015faq xo\u015fb\u0259xt ola bilm\u0259z. Seanslarda da m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edirik, etdikl\u0259ri h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rini z\u0259man\u0259 il\u0259, pulsuzluqla \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. B\u0259zil\u0259ri \u015fidd\u0259tin n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li oldu\u011funu anlaya bilmir, onlar \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 nec\u0259 davranma\u011f\u0131 haradan bil\u0259c\u0259k. B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r\u0259 irad bildiril\u0259nd\u0259 bel\u0259 cavab verirl\u0259r, &#8220;atayam, anayam, \u00f6z\u00fcm bil\u0259r\u0259m u\u015fa\u011f\u0131mla nec\u0259 r\u0259ftar ed\u0259r\u0259m&#8221;. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n u\u015faqlar, yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi, sevgini k\u0259narda axtar\u0131rlar&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.musavat.com\/news\/thumbnails\/a034796edb78262c9a00726fa0ea8c21.jpg\" width=\"641\" height=\"427\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u0259fa R\u0259\u015fidova<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Psixoloq \u201cqeyd edilir ki, bu kimi hadis\u0259l\u0259r daha \u00e7ox bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259lir\u201d sual\u0131na bel\u0259 cavab verib:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cT\u0259k bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bu c\u00fcr probleml\u0259r ba\u015f vermir. O q\u0259d\u0259r b\u00fct\u00f6v ail\u0259l\u0259r var ki, ill\u0259rdir bir yerd\u0259dirl\u0259r, amma \u015fidd\u0259t oldu\u011funa g\u00f6r\u0259 onlar\u0131n da \u00f6vladlar\u0131 evd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131rlar. Biz \u00e7ox bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 rastla\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u0131q. \u018fksin\u0259, \u015fidd\u0259t olan, evd\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn dava ed\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra u\u015faqlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt hiss edirl\u0259r.\u00a0 M\u0259hz o dava-dala\u015f i\u00e7ind\u0259 uzun ill\u0259r ya\u015fayan u\u015faqlar bir g\u00fcn ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb qa\u00e7\u0131rlar. Bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n evd\u0259n qa\u00e7mas\u0131 da normald\u0131r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 bu fikrim kimins\u0259 xo\u015funa g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r bir insan f\u0259lak\u0259t\u0259, xaosa d\u00f6z\u0259r? Bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n evd\u0259n qa\u00e7mas\u0131 \u0259slind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 etirazlar\u0131n\u0131n bir t\u0259zah\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. O u\u015faqlar\u0131 bir \u00e7ox hallarda tap\u0131rlar, evl\u0259rin\u0259 qaytar\u0131rlar, el\u0259 bilirsiniz n\u0259 is\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir? \u018fslind\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fmir, h\u0259yatlar\u0131na qald\u0131qlar\u0131 yerd\u0259n davam edirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u0259fa R\u0259\u015fidova qeyd edir ki, evd\u0259n qa\u00e7maq ist\u0259yi daha \u00e7ox yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 ba\u015f qald\u0131r\u0131r:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cYeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 hormonlar d\u0259yi\u015fir, avtoritar xarakter ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Biz bunu seanslarda da g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, bir pasiyentim anas\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259pikl\u0259yirdi. Valideynl\u0259 he\u00e7 m\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131q apara bilmirdim, o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tin adam idi ki. El\u0259 anlay\u0131rlar ki, valideyndirs\u0259, s\u00f6y\u0259, d\u00f6y\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bir insan s\u0259nd\u0259n uzaqla\u015f\u0131rsa, dem\u0259k, o yerd\u0259 nizam-intizam yoxdur, orada xaos var.<\/p>\n<p>\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin evd\u0259n getm\u0259si olduqca t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li bir tendensiyad\u0131r. \u018fks\u0259r vaxtlarda da hans\u0131sa bir ya\u015fl\u0131 adam\u0131n xo\u015f s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259, v\u0259din\u0259 inanaraq evi t\u0259rk edirl\u0259r. Amma bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n q\u0131namaq olmur. \u00c7\u00fcnki onun ehtiyac\u0131, sad\u0259c\u0259, xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259r\u0259dir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Valideynl\u0259r \u0259sas\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n 14 ya\u015f\u0131nda diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar, t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li d\u00f6n\u0259m \u0259sas\u0259n 22, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 26 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r davam edir. \u018fn kritik ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fc 14-d\u0259n ba\u015flay\u0131r. Fikir vers\u0259niz, narkotik\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n 25-26 ya\u015flar\u0131nda qur\u015fan\u0131rlar&#8221;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq insanlar aras\u0131nda daha \u00e7ox deyil\u0259n \u201csovetin vaxt\u0131nda da valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131na ac\u0131qlanar, yeri g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 k\u00f6t\u0259kl\u0259y\u0259r, amma kimins\u0259 a\u011fl\u0131ndan intihar etm\u0259k, evd\u0259n qa\u00e7maq ke\u00e7m\u0259zdi\u201d sual\u0131na da cavab verib: \u201cEl\u0259 sovet d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7atlaqlar\u0131d\u0131r bu g\u00fcn \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirik. O q\u0259d\u0259r basq\u0131 i\u00e7ind\u0259 olmu\u015fuq, susmu\u015fuq ki, bir azadl\u0131q g\u00f6r\u0259n kimi \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc itirmi\u015fik. Art\u0131q o d\u00f6vr bitib, indi biz daha f\u0259rqli bir c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q. Bizim o vaxt bel\u0259 telefonlar\u0131m\u0131z, internet\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z yox idi. Biz doda\u011f\u0131n\u0131, b\u0259d\u0259ninin\u00a0 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif nahiy\u0259l\u0259rini \u015fi\u015fird\u0259n qad\u0131nlar g\u00f6rm\u00fcrd\u00fck. Biz onlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 ideal kimi tutmurduq. Bizim ideallar\u0131m\u0131z ab\u0131rl\u0131, s\u0259liq\u0259li geyin\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rimiz olub. Amma bu g\u00fcn obraz olaraq TikTok-da, \u0130nstagramda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc reklam ed\u0259nl\u0259rdir. Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r tam formala\u015fmay\u0131b dey\u0259 fikirl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r ki, bu bloger \u00e7ox &#8220;like&#8221; y\u0131\u011f\u0131bsa, ham\u0131 onun s\u0259hif\u0259sin\u0259 abun\u0259 olubsa, dem\u0259li, bunun kimi olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu zaman o yeniyetm\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn f\u0259rqi yoxdur o blogerin doda\u011f\u0131, yoxsa ombas\u0131 yek\u0259dir, onu ulduz sayacaq, ona b\u0259nz\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r el\u0259 etm\u0259lidir ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 bu c\u00fcr insanlar\u0131 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 ideal se\u00e7m\u0259sinl\u0259r. Kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259birli, mehriban, anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Psixoloq deyir ki, 14 ya\u015f yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259n t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr v\u0259&#8230; Son ill\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycanda u\u015faqlar\u0131n v\u0259 g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n evd\u0259n qa\u00e7mas\u0131 hallar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn narahatl\u0131q do\u011furan problem\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 2024-2025-ci ill\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259tbuatda v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda yay\u0131mlanan x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rin \u00e7oxlu\u011fu problemin miqyas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 aktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bir daha ortaya qoyur. \u018fn \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t\u00e7\u0259k\u0259n m\u0259qamlardan biri d\u0259 bu hallar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 evi t\u0259rk etm\u0259sidir. M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq V\u0259fa R\u0259\u015fidova deyib ki, haz\u0131rda ail\u0259daxili v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 SOS dey\u0259c\u0259k durum yaran\u0131b:\u00a0\u201cU\u015faqlar ail\u0259l\u0259rin basq\u0131s\u0131, t\u0259hqiri il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r. \u0130ll\u0259rdir biz bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":803479,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a.jpg",685,369,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a.jpg",685,369,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a.jpg",685,369,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a-660x356.jpg",660,356,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a.jpg",640,345,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a.jpg",685,369,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a.jpg",685,369,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/9c51a072a73102d0e2bba92a5d7e8d0a.jpg",685,369,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Psixoloq deyir ki, 14 ya\u015f yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259n t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr v\u0259&#8230; Son ill\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycanda u\u015faqlar\u0131n v\u0259 g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n evd\u0259n qa\u00e7mas\u0131 hallar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn narahatl\u0131q do\u011furan problem\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. 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