Bu g\u00fcn ist\u0259r hans\u0131sa d\u00f6vl\u0259t sektorunda, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259l i\u015f sah\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 kiml\u0259rins\u0259 kiml\u0259r\u0259s\u0259 yaltaql\u0131q etdiyi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Yaltaql\u0131q adlanan x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t k\u0259nardan xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 yarad\u0131r. Son vaxtlar bu \u0259lam\u0259tin x\u00fcsusil\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r aras\u0131nda v\u00fcs\u0259t almas\u0131 is\u0259 lap \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc hald\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00d6z\u00fcnd\u0259n daha \u00fcst\u00fcn hesab etdiyi v\u0259 ya m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 yaltaqlanan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 tez-tez q\u0131naq obyekti olsalar da, onlar bu \u015fak\u0259rd\u0259n \u0259l \u00e7\u0259kmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Yaltaql\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 qada\u011fan olunmas\u0131 haqda h\u0259l\u0259 iki il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l Milli M\u0259clisd\u0259 t\u0259klif bel\u0259 ir\u0259li s\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcb. “Az\u0259rbaycan Respublikas\u0131 Milli M\u0259clisi deputat\u0131n\u0131n etik davran\u0131\u015f qaydalar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda\u201d qanun layih\u0259sinin m\u00fczakir\u0259si zaman\u0131 deputat Q\u00fcdr\u0259t H\u0259s\u0259nquliyev \u00d6zb\u0259kistanda yaltaql\u0131\u011f\u0131n qada\u011fa olundu\u011funu \u0259sas g\u0259tir\u0259r\u0259k, bu qanunun \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259tbiq edilm\u0259sini t\u0259klif etmi\u015fdi. T\u0259klif n\u0259tic\u0259siz qalsa da, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 geni\u015f m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olmu\u015fdu.<\/p>\n
Zamanla \u00f6z \u201caktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u201d itirm\u0259y\u0259n yaltaql\u0131q x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259ti n\u0259d\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r? M\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc al\u00e7altmaq kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndiril\u0259n yaltaql\u0131q ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 ya qad\u0131nlarda daha \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur?<\/p>\n
Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 \u0259trafl\u0131\u00a0psixoloq G\u00fcl\u0259r M\u0259mm\u0259dova Modern.az-a dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b.
\n\u201cYaltaql\u0131q zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259, insan\u0131n xarakterind\u0259n qaynaqlanan bir \u0259lam\u0259tdir. Bunu bir ne\u00e7\u0259 aspektd\u0259n yana\u015fmaq olar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin sevgisini qazanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn,\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n r\u00fctb\u0259 c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259k olan insan\u0131 \u0259z\u0259r\u0259k daha yuxar\u0131\u00a0 qalxmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn v\u0259 s. Yaltaql\u0131q ail\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. Valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131na t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u0259r\u0259 ba\u015f \u0259y, xarakterind\u0259n asl\u0131 olmayaraq onunla raz\u0131la\u015f. Bel\u0259 olan halda insan\u0131n m\u0259nlik konsepsiyas\u0131 itir, ist\u0259diyi s\u0259viyy\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r yola \u0259l ata bilir. B\u0259iz insanlar ist\u0259diyin\u0259 nail ola bilm\u0259dikd\u0259 yaltaql\u0131\u011fa \u0259l at\u0131r, bu yolla ir\u0259lil\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Burada da \u015f\u0259xsin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmas\u0131, haz\u0131rk\u0131 statusu, v\u0259zif\u0259ni itirm\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 ke\u00e7irdiyi narahatl\u0131q hissi \u0259sas rol oynay\u0131r. Bu c\u00fcr insanlar c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lanm\u0131r, q\u0131naq obyektin\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. Lakin b\u0259zi hallarda \u00a0c\u0259miyy\u0259t yaltaql\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u015fqa x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q sal\u0131r.\u00a0 M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, el\u0259 tip insanlar var ki, ba\u015f ver\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ox m\u00fclayim yana\u015f\u0131r, m\u00fchakim\u0259 y\u00fcr\u00fctm\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 olan halda b\u0259zi insanlar onlar\u0131 yaltaq kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq deyir ki, \u0259slind\u0259 h\u0259r birimiz m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz olmaqdan k\u0259nara \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r\u0131q:<\/p>\n
\u201cB\u0259z\u0259n ist\u0259kl\u0259rimiz\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz olmaqdan imtina ets\u0259k d\u0259, m\u0259nliyimizi al\u00e7atmamal\u0131, l\u0259yaq\u0259timiz\u0259 x\u0259l\u0259l g\u0259tirm\u0259m\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n
Yaltaql\u0131\u011f\u0131n daha \u00e7ox qad\u0131n v\u0259 ya ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edildiyini dem\u0259k do\u011fru olmazd\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu, insana m\u0259xsus x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tdir v\u0259 h\u0259r iki cinsd\u0259 eyni d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 oluna bil\u0259r. Bu x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259ti daha \u00e7ox ya\u015f qrupu il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar b\u00f6lm\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn olard\u0131. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ki\u00e7ik ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlarda bu, tez-tez m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. \u0130st\u0259diyi oyunca\u011f\u0131 almaq m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 u\u015faq valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 u \u00fcsuldan istifad\u0259 edir. Qad\u0131n qrupunda da yaltaql\u0131q \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bel\u0259 ki, qrupdan bir qad\u0131n\u0131n dig\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 nisb\u0259td\u0259 daha imkanl\u0131, \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259tli olmas\u0131 dig\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n da onu lider olaraq g\u00f6rm\u0259sin\u0259, ona do\u011fru getm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur\u201d.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcl\u0259r M\u0259mm\u0259dovan\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131nlar \u015firindilli olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlarda yaltaql\u0131q daha effektiv g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr:<\/p>\n
\u201cQad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259td\u0259 daha \u00e7ox xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 etdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yaltaql\u0131\u011f\u0131n onlarda daha u\u011furlu al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259nl\u0259r var. Lakin bu ist\u0259r ki\u015fi, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nda bacar\u0131qdan ir\u0259li g\u0259l\u0259n bir x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tdir. Bel\u0259 ki, manipulyasiya vasit\u0259sil\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yox, gizli olaraq m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n add\u0131mlarla qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n \u00f6z ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini ala bilirl\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, yaltaql\u0131q b\u0259zi insanlara z\u00f6vq verir. Bel\u0259 ki, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin ona m\u00fclayim davranmas\u0131, \u00f6ym\u0259si h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t aura yarad\u0131r. El\u0259 insanlar da var ki onlara qar\u015f\u0131 yaltaql\u0131q olundu\u011funu bilir, lakin biruz\u0259 vermir\u201d.\u00a0Moderator.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bu g\u00fcn ist\u0259r hans\u0131sa d\u00f6vl\u0259t sektorunda, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259l i\u015f sah\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 kiml\u0259rins\u0259 kiml\u0259r\u0259s\u0259 yaltaql\u0131q etdiyi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Yaltaql\u0131q adlanan x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t k\u0259nardan xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 yarad\u0131r. Son vaxtlar bu \u0259lam\u0259tin x\u00fcsusil\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r aras\u0131nda v\u00fcs\u0259t almas\u0131 is\u0259 lap \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc hald\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcnd\u0259n daha \u00fcst\u00fcn hesab etdiyi v\u0259 ya m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 yaltaqlanan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 tez-tez q\u0131naq obyekti olsalar da, onlar bu \u015fak\u0259rd\u0259n \u0259l \u00e7\u0259kmirl\u0259r. 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