Bo\u015fanma – \u00f6t\u0259n d\u00f6vrl\u0259rin \u0259n utand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 hadis\u0259si, bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn is\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n su i\u00e7imi q\u0259d\u0259r asan i\u015fidir.<\/b><\/p>\n
N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259bli\u011fat apar\u0131lsa da, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcls\u0259 d\u0259, ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmur. Son zamanlar is\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 duran ba\u015fl\u0131ca amil c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q, bir-birl\u0259rini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259m\u0259k durur. El\u0259 bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alan Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00dczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259sievl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin nikah \u00f6nc\u0259si tibbi m\u00fcayin\u0259si il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, psixoloji uy\u011funlu\u011funun yoxlan\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 da t\u0259klif edir.<\/p>\n
41 illik evlilik… T\u0259m\u0259li qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015fla qurulan b\u00f6y\u00fck bir \u00f6m\u00fcr… Rafiq v\u0259 Sima \u0130manovlar ail\u0259l\u0259rinin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti il\u0259 evl\u0259nibl\u0259r. F\u0259rqli m\u00fchitin insan\u0131 olsalar da, bu m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt evlilikl\u0259rini qoruyub saxlaya bilibl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Sima xan\u0131m\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, evlilikl\u0259ri boyunca \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin d\u00f6n\u0259ml\u0259r d\u0259 ke\u00e7irm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 baxmayaraq, h\u0259r zaman ail\u0259sinin m\u00f6hk\u0259m t\u0259m\u0259l \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qoruyub saxlaya bilib.<\/p>\n
Rafiq \u0130manov is\u0259 deyir ki, sa\u011flam ail\u0259 ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259td\u0259n ba\u015flay\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r h\u00f6rm\u0259t varsa, o ail\u0259 uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olacaq.<\/p>\n
\u0130manovlar ail\u0259sinin bu xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik u\u011furuna t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 \u00e7ox da rast g\u0259linmir. \u018fksin\u0259, ill\u0259r \u00f6td\u00fckc\u0259 ail\u0259daxili anla\u015fmazl\u0131qlar s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Probleml\u0259ri minimuma endirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259si evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin nikah \u00f6nc\u0259si tibbi m\u00fcayin\u0259si il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, psixoloji uy\u011funluqlar\u0131n\u0131n yoxlan\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 da t\u0259klif edir.<\/p>\n
Komit\u0259nin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t\u00e7isi Aynur Veysova deyir ki, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r psixoloji uy\u011funluq testind\u0259n ke\u00e7s\u0259l\u0259r, evlilik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u00fczg\u00fcn se\u00e7imin edilm\u0259m\u0259si, h\u0259m\u00e7inin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 v\u0259 psixoloji f\u0259rqin yaranmas\u0131 kimi probleml\u0259r d\u0259 azalar. Bundan ba\u015fqa, “Ail\u0259 psixoloqu” \u0130nstitutunun yarad\u0131lmas\u0131na da ehtiyac var. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 haz\u0131rlanmaqda olan “Ail\u0259 strategiyas\u0131”nda t\u0259dbirl\u0259r n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulub.<\/p>\n
Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyind\u0259n bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259vv\u0259l bildirilib ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda nikah\u0131n pozulmas\u0131 \u0259r-arvad\u0131n bir-biri il\u0259 xasiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin tutmamas\u0131, x\u0259yan\u0259t, q\u0131sqancl\u0131q, maddi \u00e7\u0259tinlik, m\u0259nzilin olmamas\u0131, ail\u0259daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131q, ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin pozulmas\u0131, u\u015faqlar\u0131n olmamas\u0131, s\u0259rxo\u015fluq, narkomaniya, x\u0259st\u0259lik v\u0259 dig\u0259r hallarla ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n