\u00c7ox vaxt valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 zaman\u0131 onu ba\u015fa salmaq, onunla s\u00f6hb\u0259t etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa fiziki g\u00fcc t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259yi se\u00e7ir.<\/p>\n
T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 d\u0259 bu “t\u0259rbiy\u0259” \u00fcsulu h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 var. Bu zaman valideynl\u0259r bir \u015feyi unudurlar ki, u\u015faq nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, ail\u0259d\u0259n g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, onlar\u0131n h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rini t\u0259krarlay\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r valideyn h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir ist\u0259yin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda u\u015fa\u011fa fiziki g\u00fcc t\u0259tbiq edirs\u0259, u\u015faq da g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bunu ba\u015fqalar\u0131na ed\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> bildirir ki, ARB TV-nin “G\u00fcn\u0259 Do\u011fru” proqram\u0131nda m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 maraql\u0131 s\u00fcjet haz\u0131rlan\u0131b.<\/p>\n Sakin: “U\u015fa\u011fa ancaq izah etm\u0259kl\u0259, ba\u015fa salmaqla, inand\u0131rmaqla t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu – Sosioloq: “Evd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t yeni n\u0259slin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam hissini z\u0259d\u0259l\u0259yir. Xalqlar\u0131n, sanki, bir yar\u0131\u015f meydan\u0131nda oldu\u011fu vaxtda biz \u00f6z yeni n\u0259slimizin g\u00f6z\u00fc qorxaq b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259sin\u0259 imkan verm\u0259m\u0259liyik”<\/p>\n K\u00f6n\u00fcl C\u0259f\u0259rova – Psixoloq: “G\u0259lin q\u0259bul ed\u0259k ki, \u015fidd\u0259t, qorxu u\u015fa\u011fa he\u00e7 bir t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00fcsulu deyil. Bu g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 onun sosial adaptasiyas\u0131na, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurmas\u0131na, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi t\u0259sdiq\u0259l\u0259m\u0259sin\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 bir f\u0259rd olaraq yeti\u015fdirm\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259sir ed\u0259n amill\u0259rdir”.<\/p>\n Ekspertl\u0259r bildirir ki, ilkin q\u0259na\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bir \u00e7ox valideyn bunun do\u011fru c\u0259zaland\u0131rma \u00fcsulu oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. “Eh, hans\u0131m\u0131z u\u015faq vaxt\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259mi\u015fik ki”, “M\u0259ni valideynl\u0259rim zaman\u0131nda d\u00f6ym\u0259s\u0259ydil\u0259r, avaran\u0131n biri olacaqd\u0131m” dey\u0259n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r insan var \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131zda. Onlar \u00f6z al\u0259ml\u0259rind\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259kl\u0259 d\u00fcz yola g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r.<\/p>\n \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu – Sosioloq: “Burada birba\u015fa valideynl\u0259ri d\u0259 g\u00fcnahland\u0131rmaq olmaz. Valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259sin\u0259 \u00e7ox ehtiyac var. Y\u0259ni dey\u0259nd\u0259 ki, ey valideyn, \u015fidd\u0259t etm\u0259, bunu daha da layiqli b\u00f6y\u00fct, o valideynl\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr bel\u0259 yoxdur ki, onu nec\u0259 edirl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n K\u00f6n\u00fcl C\u0259f\u0259rova – Psixoloq: “Biz h\u0259r bir insan\u0131 bir yolla f\u0259th ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik, o da dan\u0131\u015fmaq v\u0259 sevgi yolu il\u0259. Bax\u0131n, bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u0259zizl\u0259yib, sev\u0259rk\u0259n ondan \u00e7ox rahat \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bir oyunca\u011f\u0131 almaq daha rahat olur, n\u0259inki onu d\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259k, vuraraq oyuncaqdan ay\u0131rmaq v\u0259 d\u0259rs oxuma\u011fa m\u0259cbur etm\u0259k”.<\/p>\n “K\u00f6t\u0259k c\u0259nn\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmad\u0131r”, “U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131ndan qapaz\u0131n\u0131 \u0259skik etm\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n”, “Q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259y\u0259n dizini d\u00f6y\u0259r” bu kimi fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011f ed\u0259n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz var. M\u0259hz bunun say\u0259sind\u0259dir ki, zaman\u0131nda fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6r\u0259nl\u0259r d\u0259 bir qayda olaraq \u00f6z u\u015faqlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 bu c\u0259za \u00fcsulundan istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Unutmayaq ki, dediyimiz h\u0259r s\u00f6z, etdiyimiz h\u0259r h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131na t\u0259sir edir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onlarla dost olma\u011fa, onlar\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsaq, problemi daha asan h\u0259ll ed\u0259rik v\u0259 onlarda da \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 kin oyatmar\u0131q.<\/p>\n