{"id":824693,"date":"2025-09-05T17:59:38","date_gmt":"2025-09-05T13:59:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=824693"},"modified":"2025-09-05T17:59:38","modified_gmt":"2025-09-05T13:59:38","slug":"g%c9%99ncl%c9%99r-evl%c9%99nm%c9%99m%c9%99k-ucun-bunu-b%c9%99han%c9%99-edir-amma-psixoloq-gerc%c9%99kl%c9%99ri-aciqladi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=824693","title":{"rendered":"G\u0259ncl\u0259r evl\u0259nm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bunu b\u0259han\u0259 edir, amma&#8230; \u2013 Psixoloq ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259ri A\u00c7IQLADI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Az\u0259rbaycanda evlilik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atm\u0131\u015f g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 tez-tez veril\u0259n \u201cNiy\u0259 evl\u0259nmirs\u0259n?\u201d sual\u0131 ad\u0259t\u0259n eyni cavablarla qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r: \u201cYax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan yoxdur\u201d, \u201cYax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z yoxdur\u201d. Lakin bu cavablar h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti \u0259ks etdirir, yoxsa sad\u0259c\u0259 sosial b\u0259han\u0259dir? G\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u201cyax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f axtar\u0131\u015f\u0131\u201d n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 real s\u0259b\u0259bdir v\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r idealist d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq Samir\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rova m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni \u201cYeni Sabah\u201da bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259rh edib:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cValideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z v\u0259 ya yax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si, yeni n\u0259sli \u00f6z zaman\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259sind\u0259n yaran\u0131r. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f n\u0259sil \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox faiz insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u201c yax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z \u201c \u0259r\u0259 g\u0259lib qaynana v\u0259 qaynataya xidm\u0259t ed\u0259n, ad\u0259t\u0259n t\u0259hsilsiz, i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259yi t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259y\u0259n, \u00f6z fikri olmayan, u\u015faqlar\u0131n, \u0259rin, ev sakinl\u0259rinin xidm\u0259tind\u0259 duran v\u0259 \u0259lind\u0259n h\u0259r i\u015f g\u0259l\u0259n obraz idi. \u201c Yax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan \u201c i\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259n, \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259n, maa\u015f\u0131 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 ver\u0259n, valideyn s\u0259hv olsa bel\u0259 yaln\u0131z onlara t\u0259r\u0259fke\u015flik ed\u0259n, yeti\u015fkin ya\u015fda olsa da, b\u00f6y\u00fcks\u00fcz m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tsiz m\u00fcst\u0259qil q\u0259rar q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 c\u0259sar\u0259ti olmayan ki\u015fi obraz\u0131 idi. \u00dcmumilikd\u0259 ad\u0131na b\u00f6y\u00fck- ki\u00e7ik yeri bil\u0259n deyilirdi. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 bu valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rinin realla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi idi. D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259si fikirl\u0259rin d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259si dem\u0259kdir. Fikir d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259 qaydalar da d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcsahibimiz qeyd edib ki, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r ail\u0259 qurmaq vacib m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131,indi is\u0259 f\u0259rdi inki\u015faf,karyera,s\u0259rb\u0259stlik \u00f6n plana ke\u00e7ir:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cG\u0259ncl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u201c yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 pis partnyor \u201c anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 is\u0259 art\u0131q ideal h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 axtard\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn problem yaran\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc inki\u015faf el\u0259tdirdikc\u0259 beynind\u0259 ideal bir obraz yaran\u0131r v\u0259 bu obraz reall\u0131qla uy\u011fun g\u0259lm\u0259dikd\u0259 naraz\u0131l\u0131q yaran\u0131r.Dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131na y\u00fcks\u0259k g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 layiq g\u0259lin yaxud ni\u015fanl\u0131 uy\u011fun g\u00f6r\u0259 bilm\u0259diyind\u0259n se\u00e7iml\u0259ri darald\u0131r. Dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259b qorxulardan yarana bil\u0259r. C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar, x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259r kimi hadis\u0259l\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcb m\u0259yusluq hissin\u0259 qapanmaq. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259, q\u0259rar verm\u0259k, se\u00e7im etm\u0259k s\u0259hv etm\u0259k qorxusu psixoloji qorxulara ba\u011fl\u0131 olan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259ndir. \u018fslind\u0259 do\u011fru partnyor se\u00e7imi insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc daha yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131maq,m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 n\u0259 ist\u0259diyini d\u0259qiq bilm\u0259sidir. Valideynl\u0259r is\u0259 idealist yana\u015fmadan \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259lidir. H\u0259r z\u0259man\u0259d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 pisl\u0259r m\u00f6vcuddur. \u0130nsanlar bir- birinin g\u00fczg\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr. H\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015f\u0259xs ya d\u0259rs olur, ya da dost. \u0130nsan var min yax\u015f\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259n g\u00f6z\u00fc bir pisi g\u00f6r\u00fcr. \u0130nsan da var min pisin i\u00e7ind\u0259n bir yax\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Y\u0259ni m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u0259trafda deyil, insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259dir\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Az\u0259rbaycanda evlilik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atm\u0131\u015f g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 tez-tez veril\u0259n \u201cNiy\u0259 evl\u0259nmirs\u0259n?\u201d sual\u0131 ad\u0259t\u0259n eyni cavablarla qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r: \u201cYax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan yoxdur\u201d, \u201cYax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z yoxdur\u201d. Lakin bu cavablar h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti \u0259ks etdirir, yoxsa sad\u0259c\u0259 sosial b\u0259han\u0259dir? G\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u201cyax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f axtar\u0131\u015f\u0131\u201d n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 real s\u0259b\u0259bdir v\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r idealist d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259dir? Psixoloq Samir\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rova m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni \u201cYeni Sabah\u201da bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259rh edib: \u201cValideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z v\u0259 ya yax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si, yeni n\u0259sli \u00f6z zaman\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259sind\u0259n yaran\u0131r. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f n\u0259sil \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox faiz insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u201c yax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z \u201c \u0259r\u0259 g\u0259lib qaynana v\u0259 qaynataya xidm\u0259t ed\u0259n, ad\u0259t\u0259n&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":824694,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65.jpg",750,422,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65.jpg",750,422,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65.jpg",750,422,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65-649x365.jpg",649,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65.jpg",750,422,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65.jpg",750,422,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/799cbae35c59b721d8515cc757593c65.jpg",750,422,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=26\" rel=\"category\">Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Az\u0259rbaycanda evlilik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atm\u0131\u015f g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 tez-tez veril\u0259n \u201cNiy\u0259 evl\u0259nmirs\u0259n?\u201d sual\u0131 ad\u0259t\u0259n eyni cavablarla qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r: \u201cYax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan yoxdur\u201d, \u201cYax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z yoxdur\u201d. Lakin bu cavablar h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti \u0259ks etdirir, yoxsa sad\u0259c\u0259 sosial b\u0259han\u0259dir? G\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u201cyax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f axtar\u0131\u015f\u0131\u201d n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 real s\u0259b\u0259bdir v\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r idealist d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259dir? Psixoloq Samir\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rova m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni \u201cYeni Sabah\u201da bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259rh edib: \u201cValideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/824693"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=824693"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/824693\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":824696,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/824693\/revisions\/824696"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/824694"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=824693"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=824693"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=824693"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}