H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259lik, \u015fad v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q bir ail\u0259 qurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fc\u00e7 \u0259sas \u015f\u0259rt\u0259 ehtiyac vard\u0131r. 1- M\u00fcnasib (uy\u011fun) h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259k 2- Davam edici ara\u015fd\u0131rma v\u0259 bilik \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k 3- Z\u0259ruri hallarda m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t almaq Bu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7ind\u0259n \u0259n m\u00fch\u00fcm\u00fc birinci, y\u0259ni uy\u011fun v\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7\u0259 bilm\u0259kdir. A\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 d\u00fcr\u00fcst h\u0259yat yolunun davam etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 iki sonrak\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259r d\u0259 insan\u0131n daimi xo\u015fb\u0259xt h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcr rola malikdir.
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\n1- Birinci \u015f\u0259rtin meyarlar\u0131 iki hiss\u0259d\u0259n ibar\u0259tdirl\u0259r.<\/b><\/p>\n
Birinci hiss\u0259y\u0259 “uy\u011funluq v\u0259 eynilik meyarlar\u0131\u201d ad\u0131 verilmi\u015fdir ki, buraya zahiri cismi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t, ya\u015f, t\u0259hsil s\u0259viyy\u0259si, maddi v\u0259 iqtisadi v\u0259ziyy\u0259t \u015famil edilmi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n
\u0130kinci hiss\u0259 batini v\u0259 gizli t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir ki, salamatl\u0131q v\u0259 n\u00f6qsans\u0131zl\u0131q adlan\u0131r. Bu hiss\u0259 cismi v\u0259 ruhi sa\u011flaml\u0131qdan, salamat v\u0259 sabit i\u015fd\u0259n, salamat v\u0259 normal ail\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259n, camaatla \u0259xlaqi v\u0259 \u0259d\u0259bi r\u0259ftar t\u0259rzind\u0259n … ibar\u0259tdir.<\/p>\n
Birinci hiss\u0259 il\u0259 ikinci hiss\u0259nin rab\u0259t\u0259si sanki k\u0259nd evl\u0259rind\u0259ki ev il\u0259 h\u0259y\u0259tin rabit\u0259si kimidir. G\u0259r\u0259k d\u0259qiqlikl\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn meyarlar v\u0259 onlar\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259si yollar\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131z, birinci hiss\u0259nin meyarlar\u0131 tam ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131qdan sonra \u00e7\u00f6l h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259n evin i\u00e7in\u0259, onda da m\u0259qs\u0259dli h\u0259d\u0259f\u0259 doru yaln\u0131z ir\u0259liy\u0259, y\u0259ni m\u00fc\u0259mmalar\u0131n siz\u0259 ayd\u0131n v\u0259 m\u0259lum olmas\u0131na do\u011fru h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259siniz.<\/p>\n
G\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259 rastla\u015fark\u0259n s\u0259thi v\u0259 hissl\u0259rd\u0259n do\u011fan rastla\u015fma n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin zahiri cazib\u0259sinin t\u0259siri alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. M\u0259ss\u0259l\u0259n, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin \u00fcz\u00fc, boyu, geyimi, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fc, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 sairin t\u0259siri alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 olan halda onlar uy\u011funluq v\u0259 m\u00fcvafiqliq meyarlar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259d\u0259n, h\u0259m\u00e7inin d\u0259rin v\u0259 batini meyarlar\u0131 tan\u0131madan onunla el\u0259nm\u0259k arzusuna d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Amma onunla tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q zaman\u0131 davam etdikc\u0259 t\u0259dricl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, onlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda maddi-istisadi v\u0259 ya m\u0259d\u0259ni, yaxud da ail\u0259 bax\u0131m\u0131ndan… uy\u011funluq yoxdur.<\/p>\n
H\u0259qiq\u0259td\u0259 bel\u0259 insan o \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir ki, bir n\u0259f\u0259r ticar\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zin\u0259 daxil olur, orada cazib\u0259li v\u0259 xarici hans\u0131sa mal\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259r\u0259k b\u0259y\u0259nir, almaq ist\u0259diyini bildirir, sat\u0131c\u0131 h\u0259min mal\u0131 b\u00fck\u0259r\u0259k ona verdikd\u0259 v\u0259 pulunu ist\u0259dikd\u0259 bu adam sanki yuxudan ay\u0131l\u0131r. Onun qiym\u0259tinin \u00e7ox baha oldu\u011funu v\u0259 bunluq olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcb sat\u0131c\u0131dan \u00fczr ist\u0259yir…<\/p>\n
Buna \u0259sas\u0259n g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz ki, se\u00e7im il\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259k bir-birin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 deyildir. H\u0259yatda \u00e7ox \u015fey insan\u0131n xo\u015funa g\u0259lir, amma h\u0259r xo\u015fag\u0259l\u0259ni insan h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n ayr\u0131lmaz hiss\u0259si olaraq g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 raz\u0131 deyil.<\/p>\n
Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 a\u015fiq olmam\u0131\u015fdan \u0259vv\u0259l h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259rt\u0259r\u0259fli olaraq ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n, siz\u0259 n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 uy\u011fun v\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq olub olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilin.<\/p>\n
M\u0259s\u0259l var, “\u018fvv\u0259l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn sonra dan\u0131\u015f.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n
2- Birinci m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259ni ke\u00e7dikd\u0259n, y\u0259ni siz\u0259 uy\u011fun v\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq olan bir \u015f\u0259xsi se\u00e7dikd\u0259n sonra sizin evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259 hans\u0131 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q olma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn davam edici bilikl\u0259r\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131n\u0131z var.<\/p>\n
Y\u0259ni siz v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fcnt\u0259z\u0259m olaraq bir-birinizl\u0259 olan rabit\u0259nizi ara\u015fd\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ki, f\u0259rdi bacar\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131n, m\u00fc\u015ft\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n cizgil\u0259rini \u00e7\u0259kin…<\/p>\n
Bunlar\u0131n \u0259n m\u00fch\u00fcm\u00fc is\u0259 budur ki, aran\u0131zda olan c\u00fczi f\u0259rql\u0259ri yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa do\u011fru h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t edin. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131n ki, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolunuzda h\u0259r hans\u0131 ail\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 sizinl\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n planlar\u0131 eynidirmi?! H\u0259yatdak\u0131 h\u0259d\u0259fl\u0259riniz \u00fcst \u00fcst\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrm\u00fc?! Nec\u0259 ya\u015famaq bar\u0259d\u0259 sizin arzular\u0131n\u0131z ox\u015fard\u0131rm\u0131?!<\/p>\n
Bu kimi suallara cavab tapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z ki, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q ola bil\u0259c\u0259yini \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259siniz.<\/p>\n
3- \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259 siz ist\u0259r evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l ist\u0259r m\u00fc\u015ft\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z zaman\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131xacaq z\u0259ruri h\u0259yat m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, hans\u0131sa probleml\u0259 \u00fczb\u0259\u00fcz qalma ehtimal\u0131 yaranark\u0259n, ail\u0259d\u0259 ixtilaf t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259si olark\u0259n… t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259li, g\u00f6z\u0259l q\u0259lbli, bilici \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015f\u0259siniz.<\/p>\n
\u018fg\u0259r bu \u00fc\u00e7 \u015f\u0259rt\u0259 layiqli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 riay\u0259t ed\u0259 bils\u0259niz \u00fcmid ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz ki, siz xo\u015fb\u0259xt v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q, \u00f6z\u00fcd\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259lik v\u0259 s\u00fcr\u0259kli bir ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259lik, \u015fad v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q bir ail\u0259 qurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fc\u00e7 \u0259sas \u015f\u0259rt\u0259 ehtiyac vard\u0131r. 1- M\u00fcnasib (uy\u011fun) h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259k 2- Davam edici ara\u015fd\u0131rma v\u0259 bilik \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k 3- Z\u0259ruri hallarda m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t almaq Bu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7ind\u0259n \u0259n m\u00fch\u00fcm\u00fc birinci, y\u0259ni uy\u011fun v\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7\u0259 bilm\u0259kdir. A\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 d\u00fcr\u00fcst h\u0259yat yolunun davam etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 iki sonrak\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259r d\u0259 insan\u0131n daimi xo\u015fb\u0259xt h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcr rola malikdir. 1- Birinci \u015f\u0259rtin meyarlar\u0131 iki hiss\u0259d\u0259n ibar\u0259tdirl\u0259r. Birinci hiss\u0259y\u0259 “uy\u011funluq v\u0259 eynilik meyarlar\u0131\u201d ad\u0131 verilmi\u015fdir ki, buraya zahiri cismi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t, ya\u015f, t\u0259hsil s\u0259viyy\u0259si,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":82643,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659.jpg",519,309,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659.jpg",519,309,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659.jpg",519,309,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659-300x179.jpg",300,179,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659.jpg",519,309,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659.jpg",519,309,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659.jpg",519,309,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1569865082_1569401829_17-5-528x659.jpg",519,309,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259lik, \u015fad v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q bir ail\u0259 qurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fc\u00e7 \u0259sas \u015f\u0259rt\u0259 ehtiyac vard\u0131r. 1- M\u00fcnasib (uy\u011fun) h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259k 2- Davam edici ara\u015fd\u0131rma v\u0259 bilik \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k 3- Z\u0259ruri hallarda m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t almaq Bu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7ind\u0259n \u0259n m\u00fch\u00fcm\u00fc birinci, y\u0259ni uy\u011fun v\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7\u0259 bilm\u0259kdir. A\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 d\u00fcr\u00fcst h\u0259yat yolunun davam etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82642"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=82642"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82642\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/82643"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=82642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=82642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=82642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}