{"id":835186,"date":"2025-11-24T21:47:49","date_gmt":"2025-11-24T17:47:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=835186"},"modified":"2025-11-24T21:47:49","modified_gmt":"2025-11-24T17:47:49","slug":"kuc%c9%99-usaqlarinin-taleyini-d%c9%99yis%c9%99n-ev-bu-siginacagi-acmaga-s%c9%99id-t%c9%99kan-oldu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=835186","title":{"rendered":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n taleyini d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n ev: “Bu s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7ma\u011fa S\u0259id t\u0259kan oldu”"},"content":{"rendered":"

U\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259ri h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn r\u0259ngli xatir\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 dolu isti ev, qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f bax\u0131\u015flar, t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz bir d\u00fcnyad\u0131r. Amma ham\u0131 bu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 sahib ola bilmir. Minl\u0259rl\u0259 azya\u015fl\u0131 bigan\u0259lik, diqq\u0259tsizlik v\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, ail\u0259 sevgisind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olur v\u0259 bel\u0259 bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259t t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, h\u0259min u\u015faqlarda d\u0259rin izl\u0259r burax\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 bir \u0259lin uzanmas\u0131, bir qap\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n taleyini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 kifay\u0259t edir.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Az\u0259rbaycan U\u015faq Birliyi U\u015faq S\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 da ill\u0259rdir m\u0259hz bu talel\u0259ri d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn var. Bu m\u0259kan sad\u0259c\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq deyil, sevgi, m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t, qorunma v\u0259 yeni ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131clar evin\u0259 \u00e7evrilmi\u015f bir m\u0259rk\u0259zdir. Burada h\u0259r bir u\u015faq f\u0259rdi h\u0259yat hekay\u0259si, f\u0259rdi a\u011fr\u0131 v\u0259 f\u0259rdi \u00fcmid da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. Bu b\u00f6y\u00fck missiyan\u0131n arxas\u0131nda dayanan is\u0259 uzun ill\u0259rdir u\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u00fcdafi\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda qaranl\u0131q n\u00f6qt\u0259l\u0259ri i\u015f\u0131\u011fa \u00e7evir\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycan U\u015faq Birliyi U\u015faq S\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n r\u0259hb\u0259ri K\u0259mal\u0259 A\u011fazad\u0259dir. Onun yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu m\u00fchit bir \u00e7ox balacan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda ilk d\u0259f\u0259 \u201cev\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fadan yer olub.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sfera.az<\/strong>-\u0131n \u0259m\u0259kda\u015f\u0131 m\u0259hz h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdiyi \u00e7\u0259tin m\u0259qamlar, a\u011fr\u0131-ac\u0131l\u0131 h\u0259yat hekay\u0259l\u0259rinin \u00fcmid yeri olan bu evd\u0259 nec\u0259 firavan ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa \u00fcz tutdu.<\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahib\u0259d\u0259 K\u0259mal\u0259 A\u011fazad\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131n nec\u0259 yarand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, ill\u0259rdir qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 onlar\u0131 bu yola ba\u011flayan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b.<\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahib\u0259ni t\u0259qdim edirik:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u2013 Siz bu sah\u0259d\u0259 ilk t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259n birisiniz. Xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131, s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa ilk m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n hekay\u0259si nec\u0259 ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fd\u0131 v\u0259 onun h\u0259yat\u0131 sonradan hans\u0131 istiqam\u0259t\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– S\u0259id ad\u0131nda bir o\u011flan var idi. H\u0259min vaxtlar bizd\u0259 indiki s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq yox idi, \u201cG\u00fcn\u0259rzi\u201d adl\u0131 m\u0259rk\u0259z f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rirdi. S\u00f6hb\u0259t 2006\u20132008-ci ill\u0259rd\u0259n gedir. H\u0259min vaxt \u201cG\u00fcn\u0259rzi\u201d m\u0259rk\u0259zi f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rirdi. Bu da hans\u0131sa layih\u0259 deyil, bizim \u00f6z t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs\u00fcm\u00fcz, \u00f6z ofisimiz idi. K\u00fc\u00e7\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259bul edirdik. Onlar\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259dl\u0259ri il\u0259 maraqlan\u0131r, \u0259n az\u0131ndan paltarlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yer yarad\u0131rd\u0131q. \u0130stifad\u0259 edilmi\u015f geyiml\u0259r q\u0259bul edir, onlar\u0131n kirli paltarlar\u0131n\u0131 at\u0131rd\u0131q. H\u0259min vaxtlar bizd\u0259 hamam yox idi, amma \u0259limizd\u0259n g\u0259ldiyi q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259l-ayaqlar\u0131n\u0131, sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 yuma\u011fa \u015f\u0259rait yarad\u0131rd\u0131q. K\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ist\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z \u00e7oxunda qotur x\u0259st\u0259liyi olurdu, toksik madd\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox istifad\u0259 edirdil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

S\u0259id \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n harada oldu\u011funu he\u00e7 vaxt bilmirdi. Deyirdi ki, o \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc d\u0259rk ed\u0259nd\u0259n k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259dir. Bu is\u0259 o dem\u0259k idi ki, 3\u20134 ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u0259ri k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131b. Onu axtaran da yox idi, n\u0259 ail\u0259si, n\u0259 qohumu, n\u0259 d\u0259 kims\u0259si. O, daha \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259hat\u0259sind\u0259 olurdu. M\u0259n onu tan\u0131yanda art\u0131q 12\u201313 ya\u015f\u0131 var idi v\u0259 toksik madd\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 idi.<\/p>\n

S\u0259id o q\u0259d\u0259r r\u0259hmli, o q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0259lbi t\u0259miz u\u015faq idi ki\u2026 H\u0259r zaman deyirdi:\u00a0\u201c\u018fg\u0259r m\u0259nim pulum olsa, bilirs\u0259n n\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259m? B\u00f6y\u00fck bir ev a\u00e7aram. O evd\u0259 balaca u\u015faqlar ya\u015fas\u0131n. Evin o q\u0259d\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fck olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn balaca u\u015faqlar ora s\u0131\u011fs\u0131n. Eybi yoxdur, yataq olmas\u0131n, amma isti bir ota\u011f\u0131 olsun\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Biz n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsaq da, onu toksik madd\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131ra bilmirdik. Yegan\u0259 variant k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259n tam t\u0259crid olunmas\u0131 v\u0259 narkoloji dispanser\u0259 yerl\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259si idi. Amma t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar narkoloji dispanser\u0259 q\u0259bul olunmurdu. Onunla \u00e7ox ciddi psixoloji v\u0259 psixiatrik m\u00fcalic\u0259 apar\u0131lmal\u0131 idi. Amma bizim \u00f6z b\u00fcdc\u0259mizl\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yimiz maksimum yard\u0131m sad\u0259c\u0259 onun geyiml\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k v\u0259 yuyundurmaq idi. Ax\u015fam olanda biz u\u015faqlara \u201cgedin\u201d deyirdik. Hara getsinl\u0259r? T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, yen\u0259 k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259r\u0259\u2026 Onlar s\u00fcr\u00fc hal\u0131nda, toplu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 g\u0259zirdil\u0259r daim. H\u0259min vaxt bizim 18 m\u0259nt\u0259q\u0259miz var idi v\u0259 onlar\u0131n hans\u0131 \u0259razil\u0259rd\u0259 topla\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 bilirdik, h\u0259min yerl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259nt\u0259q\u0259 a\u00e7m\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. Bir g\u00fcn “G\u0259nclik” metrosu v\u0259 “\u0130nqilab” k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259si (\u0130ndiki Akademik H\u0259s\u0259n \u018fliyev k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259si – red.) t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 olan m\u0259nt\u0259q\u0259mizd\u0259 idim. U\u015faqlar qa\u00e7a-qa\u00e7a g\u0259lib x\u0259b\u0259r verdil\u0259r ki, S\u0259idi ma\u015f\u0131n vurub. Biz \u00e7atanda art\u0131q r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 getmi\u015fdi, \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcl\u0259r. T\u0259dqiqat gedirdi. M\u0259n onun \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fcm simas\u0131nda q\u0259rib\u0259 bir t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm var idi. El\u0259 bil xo\u015fb\u0259xt \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu h\u0259yatdan, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131ndan, s\u0259fillikd\u0259n qurtulmu\u015fdu.<\/p>\n

M\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7maqda t\u0259kan S\u0259id oldu. Onun yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qalan arzusunu realla\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131m: b\u00f6y\u00fck bir ev, balaca u\u015faqlar\u2026 Biz bu ev\u0259 18 ild\u0259n sonra nail ola bildik. 2006-c\u0131 ild\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n bu hadis\u0259, 2007-ci ild\u0259 evin tikilm\u0259sin\u0259 start verdi. Bir otaqla ba\u015flayan layih\u0259d\u0259 ilk d\u0259f\u0259 3 u\u015faq vard\u0131, gec\u0259l\u0259r burada qal\u0131rd\u0131q, u\u015faqlara bax\u0131rd\u0131q. \u0130ki i\u015f\u00e7i v\u0259 m\u0259n, hekay\u0259 bel\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, indiki u\u015faqlarla o d\u00f6vr\u00fcn u\u015faqlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda f\u0259rq varm\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, indiki u\u015faqlarla o d\u00f6vr\u00fcn u\u015faqlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda f\u0259rq \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. \u0130st\u0259r \u015f\u0259rait bax\u0131m\u0131ndan, ist\u0259r davran\u0131\u015f bax\u0131m\u0131ndan. H\u0259min d\u00f6vrd\u0259 u\u015faqlar toksik madd\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox as\u0131l\u0131 idil\u0259r. \u0130ndiki u\u015faqlar is\u0259 h\u0259min toksik madd\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olub sonradan narkotik vasit\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259n o n\u0259slin t\u00f6r\u0259m\u0259l\u0259ridir.<\/p>\n

F\u0259rq ondad\u0131r ki, bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259raiti, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131, diqq\u0259t v\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t sistemi f\u0259rqlidir. Onlar\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259n y\u0131\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131, m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 c\u0259lb olunmas\u0131, qeyri-h\u00f6kum\u0259t t\u0259\u015fkilatlar\u0131n\u0131n f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti, d\u00f6vl\u0259tin d\u0259st\u0259k mexanizml\u0259ri, u\u015faqlar\u0131 m\u00fcdafi\u0259 sah\u0259sind\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u0259n i\u015fl\u0259r b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar \u0259vv\u0259lki ill\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r yarad\u0131b. V\u0259 bundan sonra da daha \u00e7ox i\u015fin g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259si n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur.<\/p>\n

\u2013 S\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqda b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131qda onlar\u0131 n\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r, h\u0259yatlar\u0131na nec\u0259 davam edirl\u0259r? U\u015faqlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hans\u0131sa d\u0259st\u0259k proqramlar\u0131 m\u00f6vcuddurmu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u018fslind\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k proqramlar\u0131 dediyimiz DOST Agentliyinin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259ri \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 karyera m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259ri var. Bacar\u0131qlar\u0131n inki\u015faf etdirilm\u0259si, pe\u015f\u0259 bacar\u0131qlar\u0131na yiy\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259si kimi imkanlar d\u00f6vl\u0259tin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif proqramlar\u0131nda m\u00f6vcuddur. H\u0259tta SOCAR-\u0131n bel\u0259 proqramlar\u0131 var. 18 ya\u015fdan sonra valideyn himay\u0259sind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olmu\u015f, h\u0259ssas ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n olan u\u015faqlar v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259-g\u0259ncl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn imtiyazl\u0131 t\u0259hsil v\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 proqramlar\u0131 t\u0259klif olunur.<\/p>\n

Biz\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 is\u0259 bizim m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259d\u0259 18 ya\u015f\u0131 tamam olmu\u015f sakinl\u0259rimiz\u0259 \u201cget\u201d demirik. Bunun bir ne\u00e7\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bi var. Birinci s\u0259b\u0259b odur ki, onlar t\u0259hsil al\u0131rlar. Biz he\u00e7 vaxt u\u015faqlar\u0131 t\u0259hsild\u0259n k\u0259narda qoymuruq. 9-cu sinfi bitirs\u0259l\u0259r bel\u0259, onlar\u0131 motivasiya edib izah edirik ki, he\u00e7 olmasa pe\u015f\u0259 t\u0259hsili il\u0259 davam etsinl\u0259r. Deyirik ki, oxumaq ist\u0259mirs\u0259ns\u0259, he\u00e7 olmasa \u0259linizd\u0259 bir pe\u015f\u0259niz olsun. \u00c7\u00fcnki burdan \u00e7\u0131xandan sonra n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ofisiant i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k olar? Ofisiant i\u015fi ikinci g\u0259lir kimi ola bil\u0259r. \u018fsas daha ciddi pe\u015f\u0259y\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259kdir. Ax\u0131 n\u0259 vaxta q\u0259d\u0259r bir g\u0259nc xadim\u0259 v\u0259 ya qab yuyan i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r? Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 biz onlar\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259y\u0259 y\u00f6nl\u0259ndiririk. Pe\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7iml\u0259ri d\u0259 \u00e7ox maraql\u0131d\u0131r – veb dizayn, dizaynerlik, modelyerlik, katib\u0259lik, m\u00fchasibatl\u0131q. Haz\u0131rda dizayn-qrafika ixtisas\u0131nda, a\u015fpazl\u0131qda v\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif sah\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 oxuyan u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z var. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, 17 ya\u015f\u0131nda q\u0259bul olunubsa, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q ki, onlar\u0131 d\u00f6vl\u0259t sifari\u015fli, y\u0259ni \u00f6d\u0259ni\u015fsiz, y\u00fcks\u0259k ixtisasl\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 y\u00f6nl\u0259ndir\u0259k. Bu proqramlar 3\u20134 illik olur. Biz hesablay\u0131r\u0131q ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n 17 ya\u015f\u0131 varsa, t\u0259hsili bitirdikd\u0259 21 ya\u015f\u0131 olacaq. Bu kim\u0259 \u015famil olunur? O u\u015faqlara ki, ail\u0259si onlar\u0131 q\u0259bul etmir. El\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 olur ki, ail\u0259si deyir: \u201c17 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz oxudaca\u011f\u0131q\u201d. H\u0259min u\u015faqlar ail\u0259si il\u0259 qalma\u011fa gedir. Amma el\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 var ki, yen\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ist\u0259mir v\u0259 biz h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131 saxlay\u0131r, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz oxuduruq.<\/p>\n

18 ya\u015f\u0131 tamam olan kimi onlar\u0131 s\u0131\u011f\u0131ncaqdan \u00e7\u0131xarm\u0131r\u0131q. Onlara \u015fans veririk ki, t\u0259hsill\u0259rini ba\u015fa vursunlar. Bu m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 biz m\u0259\u015f\u011fulluq m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259ri il\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q, sahibkarlarla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlay\u0131r\u0131q ki, u\u015faq buradan ged\u0259nd\u0259 art\u0131q i\u015f imkanlar\u0131 olsun v\u0259 biz rahat olaq. El\u0259 bir q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z var idi. S\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqda qal\u0131rd\u0131, oxuyurdu v\u0259 oxuya-oxuya i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259ldi. Sonra oxudu\u011fu q\u0131zlarla birg\u0259 kiray\u0259 ev tutdu. D\u0259rsd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b i\u015f\u0259 gedirdi, \u00e7ox aktiv q\u0131z idi. Animator kimi i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131, kiray\u0259sini \u00f6z\u00fc verirdi. Y\u0259ni bel\u0259 u\u011fur n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259rimiz d\u0259 \u00e7ox olub.<\/p>\n

\u018fn \u00e7ox gileyl\u0259ndiyim m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri is\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizin s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq u\u015faqlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 bigan\u0259 v\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 ayr\u0131-se\u00e7kilik dolu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tidir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zdan biri ni\u015fanlanm\u0131\u015fd\u0131, amma o\u011flan\u0131n ail\u0259si raz\u0131 olmad\u0131. S\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqda b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259si idi. Bu kimi hallar t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, tez-tez rast\u0131m\u0131za g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 \u018fn \u00e7ox hans\u0131 ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 u\u015faqlar internat h\u0259yat\u0131na al\u0131\u015fmaqda \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kir? Adaptasiya d\u00f6vr\u00fc nec\u0259 olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– K\u00f6rp\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 adaptasiya bax\u0131m\u0131ndan \u00e7ox ciddi probleml\u0259r olur. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 biz art\u0131q \u00e7ox k\u00f6rp\u0259 q\u0259bul etmirik. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r daha \u00e7ox g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fck, \u00e7\u00fcnki m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n layih\u0259l\u0259rimiz, maliyy\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259 qrantlar\u0131m\u0131z var idi. O zaman bu prosesi idar\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olurdu. Amma indi k\u00f6rp\u0259y\u0259 baxacaq maliyy\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yimiz yoxdur. Ki\u00e7ik qrant proqramlar\u0131 \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 is\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 imza atmaq olmur. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, maliyy\u0259siz layih\u0259l\u0259r m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr, amma k\u00f6rp\u0259 el\u0259 bir m\u0259suliyy\u0259tdir ki, o m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti tam \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. Siz \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcn\u00fcz: ne\u00e7\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259 var burada? \u00c7ox az.<\/p>\n

Biz\u0259 g\u0259tiril\u0259n u\u015faqlar aras\u0131nda 1 ya\u015f\u0131ndan burada b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nl\u0259r var ki, indi art\u0131q \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259dirl\u0259r. 3\u20138 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda olanlar daha tez adaptasiya olurlar. 8\u201313 ya\u015f aras\u0131 u\u015faqlarda is\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u00fcddd\u0259t \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r olur. \u00dcmumilikd\u0259 biz adaptasiya d\u00f6vr\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011fa 7 g\u00fcnd\u0259n 1 aya q\u0259d\u0259r zaman veririk. \u00c7\u00fcnki ola bil\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n sa\u011flaml\u0131q problemi var v\u0259 adaptasiya ola bilmir, biz b\u00fct\u00fcn bu m\u0259qamlar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n

Y\u0259qin ki, Naill K\u0259m\u0259rlinin \u00e7\u0259kdiyi, 7 u\u015faqla ba\u011fl\u0131 reportajdan x\u0259b\u0259riniz var. Ana onlar\u0131 at\u0131b gedib, ata is\u0259 baxa bilm\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn imtina edib. H\u0259min 7 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n 4 balacas\u0131 biz\u0259 verildi. Dig\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r atalar\u0131 il\u0259 qald\u0131. Bu 4 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n adaptasiyas\u0131 ilk g\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin oldu. Onlarda \u201cMauqli sindromu\u201d deyil\u0259n bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259t vard\u0131, sanki c\u0259ng\u0259llikd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 yata\u011f\u0131n n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilmirdil\u0259r, onlar\u0131 yataqda yatma\u011fa \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259k bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tindir. Eyni zamanda ciddi nevroloji probleml\u0259ri d\u0259 var.<\/p>\n

Bu u\u015faqlarla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn i\u015f\u00e7i hey\u0259timizd\u0259n \u0259lav\u0259 burada s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqda qalan b\u00f6y\u00fck q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da k\u00f6m\u0259k\u00e7i kimi y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirdik. \u0130lk g\u00fcn biz\u0259 g\u0259tiril\u0259nd\u0259 s\u0259h\u0259r saat 5-d\u0259 ancaq yuxuya getdil\u0259r. Y\u0259ni adaptasiya prosesi bu q\u0259d\u0259r a\u011f\u0131r olur. Bizim pe\u015f\u0259kar psixoloqumuz var. O, m\u00fct\u0259madi t\u0259liml\u0259rd\u0259 i\u015ftirak edir, \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir. U\u015faqlarla h\u0259m f\u0259rdi, h\u0259m d\u0259 qrup i\u015fi apar\u0131r. Psixoloq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc onlar\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 kimi g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k u\u015faqlar\u0131 uy\u011funla\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu bax\u0131mdan psixoloqun rolu adaptasiya d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

H\u0259min u\u015faqlardan 3-n\u00fc sanatoriyaya g\u00f6nd\u0259rdik, bir balaca q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 is\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 saxlad\u0131q. Onlar\u0131 ayr\u0131ca qruplara b\u00f6ld\u00fck ki, sosialla\u015fma prosesi getsin. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00fc\u00e7 u\u015faq birlikd\u0259 olanda proses al\u0131nm\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu u\u015faqlar seksual m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 h\u0259r \u015feyi bilirdil\u0259r. Azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n bel\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259lumatl\u0131 olmas\u0131 onu g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, ata-anan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin \u015fahidi olublar.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r bir ail\u0259d\u0259 \u0259xlaqi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r yoxdursa, u\u015faq bunu m\u00fctl\u0259q davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. B\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r bunu bir q\u0259d\u0259r gizl\u0259d\u0259 bilirl\u0259r, amma u\u015faq yox. Ail\u0259y\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar var ki, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6rs\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, yen\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 qal\u0131rlar. Amma m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259, m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, seksual davran\u0131\u015flara \u015fahid olunmas\u0131 q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7oxunu evd\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edir. Qa\u00e7an q\u0131zlar\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti atas\u0131z b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n q\u0131zlard\u0131r. \u00dcmumilikd\u0259 burada olan u\u015faqlar\u0131n dem\u0259k olar ki, he\u00e7 birinin atas\u0131 yoxdur. El\u0259 u\u015faqlar var ki, \u201cata\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bel\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 \u00c7ox rastla\u015f\u0131r\u0131q ki, \u00f6gey atalar u\u015faqlara t\u0259cav\u00fcz edirl\u0259r. B\u0259s do\u011fma atalar\u0131n bel\u0259 hallara yol verdiyi, bu kimi \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa g\u0259tiril\u0259n u\u015faqlar da olubmu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7ox olub. Bir qad\u0131n \u00f6z q\u0131zn\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb g\u0259lmi\u015fdi yan\u0131ma. H\u0259min xan\u0131m\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131 atas\u0131na o q\u0259d\u0259r ba\u011fl\u0131 idi ki, atas\u0131n\u0131n ona toxunu\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ata-q\u0131z m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti kimi q\u0259bul edirdi. H\u0259tta anas\u0131n\u0131 atas\u0131na q\u0131sqand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, anas\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u0259rl\u0259yirdi. Atal\u0131q faktorlar\u0131 daha b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. M\u0259tbuatda da getmi\u015fdi bu x\u0259b\u0259r. Atal\u0131\u011f\u0131 11 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131za t\u0259cav\u00fcz etmi\u015fdi. H\u0259tta do\u011fma ana il\u0259 \u0259lbir olub daha bet\u0259r \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r t\u00f6r\u0259tmi\u015fdil\u0259r. Bunu a\u00e7\u0131q dem\u0259k olduqca \u00e7\u0259tindir. Qarda\u015fla bac\u0131n\u0131 da cinsi m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 salm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar. Bu \u00e7ox a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131 hal idi. O u\u015faqlar bizim s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa g\u0259tiril\u0259nd\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n idil\u0259r. Q\u0131z deyirdi ki, h\u0259r\u015fey atal\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n oldu, o\u011flan is\u0259 anas\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcdafi\u0259 edirdi. M\u0259n m\u0259cbur qal\u0131b bu u\u015faqlar\u0131 u\u015faq evin\u0259 verdim.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 B\u0259z\u0259n bel\u0259 bir fikir dola\u015f\u0131r ki, indiki g\u0259ncl\u0259r daha d\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczd\u00fcr. Sizin d\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131zda g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa h\u0259r g\u00fcn 3-4 n\u0259f\u0259r 16-17 ya\u015fl\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir. D\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz, irad\u0259siz g\u0259nclik yeti\u015fir, yoxsa h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n ciddi probleml\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa g\u0259lm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Yox, m\u00fctl\u0259q orada bir bigan\u0259lik, u\u015fa\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 diqq\u0259tsizlik olur. U\u015faq diqq\u0259t \u0259skikliyind\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn kim\u0259s\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmaq ist\u0259yir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bizim videolara baxan u\u015faq orada xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u00f6r\u00fcr v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, bura g\u0259ls\u0259m xo\u015fb\u0259xt olaca\u011fam. Amma g\u0259ldikd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, o xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n nizam-intizam qaydalar\u0131 var: t\u0259hsil, m\u0259\u015f\u011f\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r, sa\u00e7 d\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc, geyim t\u0259rzi v\u0259 s. Sonra \u00f6z\u00fc-\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 anlay\u0131r ki, \u201cyox, m\u0259n evd\u0259 bel\u0259 etmirdim\u201d. Biz d\u0259 ona izah edirik ki, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, anan\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259diyin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn o da s\u0259n\u0259 laz\u0131mi diqq\u0259ti g\u00f6st\u0259rmirdi. El\u0259 o anda u\u015faqlar ail\u0259y\u0259 daha tez adaptasiya olma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Bildiyim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa yaln\u0131z 10 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r o\u011flanlar\u0131 q\u0259bul edirsiniz, b\u0259s siz\u0259 15-16 ya\u015fl\u0131 o\u011flanlar m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdikd\u0259 n\u0259 edirsiniz? Onlar\u0131n taleyi nec\u0259 olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Yanvar ay\u0131ndan \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 biz o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yik. Art\u0131q bu prosesi dayand\u0131rm\u0131\u015f\u0131q. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ayd\u0131r o\u011flan q\u0259bulu aparm\u0131r\u0131q. Haz\u0131rda yaln\u0131z bir o\u011flan\u0131m\u0131z var 14 ya\u015f\u0131nda. Onu d\u00f6vl\u0259t m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259sin\u0259 yerl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259c\u0259yik ki, art\u0131q d\u00f6vl\u0259tin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 kimi qeydiyyata d\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn v\u0259 q\u0259yyumluqda olsun. Onun anas\u0131 h\u0259bsd\u0259dir. D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 anas\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. Ana s\u00f6z vermi\u015fdi ki, h\u0259bsd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xanda g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 o\u011flunu g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259k. Amma h\u0259bsd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131qdan sonra narkotik\u0259 qur\u015fand\u0131, \u201cpat\u0131\u201d \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ona ver\u0259 bilm\u0259dim v\u0259 qad\u0131n yenid\u0259n h\u0259bs olundu. El\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faq d\u00f6vl\u0259t m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259sin\u0259 getm\u0259lidir. Bizd\u0259 t\u0259k qalan o\u011flan \u00d6m\u00fcrd\u00fcr. \u00d6m\u00fcr d\u0259 \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa veril\u0259c\u0259k. O m\u0259n\u0259 \u00e7ox ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Amma biz b\u00fct\u00fcn u\u015faqlar\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q. Onlar n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ail\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259ti, t\u0259cav\u00fcz v\u0259 travma ya\u015fasalar da, biz onlarda sa\u011flam \u201cata-ana\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q. A\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r\u0131q ki, s\u0259nin atan-anan olmal\u0131d\u0131r, \u00f6z evin, \u00f6z ota\u011f\u0131n olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259ni onlar\u0131n beynin\u0259 yeridirik v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar rahat \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ail\u0259y\u0259 adaptasiya olurlar. \u00d6m\u00fcr\u00fcn t\u0259k f\u0259rqi odur ki, dig\u0259r u\u015faqlar ail\u0259 yolu g\u00f6zl\u0259yirdil\u0259r, amma \u00d6m\u00fcr g\u00f6zl\u0259mir. \u00d6m\u00fcr sevgisini burada, \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flarla v\u0259 m\u0259niml\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 B\u0259s siz u\u015faqlardan ayr\u0131landa \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc nec\u0259 hiss edirsiniz? Ax\u0131 siz d\u0259 onlara \u00f6yr\u0259\u015firsiniz\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Adi bir balaca pi\u015fiyi evd\u0259 saxlayanda bel\u0259 ona \u00f6yr\u0259\u015firik, onu itir\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7ox pis oluruq. Biz d\u0259 eyni hissl\u0259ri bu u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q. Adi bir \u0259\u015fyam\u0131za bel\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015firik, yan\u0131m\u0131zda olmayanda narahat oluruq. Amma onlar\u2026 onlar m\u0259nim n\u0259f\u0259simin i\u00e7ind\u0259 oturan u\u015faqlard\u0131r.
\nM\u0259nim U\u011fur adl\u0131 bir o\u011flum var idi, 5 ayl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n onu m\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm. Onunla n\u0259f\u0259s-n\u0259f\u0259s\u0259 idik. O ged\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7ox pis olmu\u015fdum. U\u011fur v\u0259 \u00d6m\u00fcr \u00e7ox f\u0259rqli u\u015faqlard\u0131r. Dig\u0259r u\u015faqlar m\u0259ni n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259ri kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcb \u00e7ox ist\u0259yirl\u0259r, amma U\u011fur v\u0259 \u00d6m\u00fcr tamam f\u0259rqlidirl\u0259r. H\u0259r detal\u0131ma q\u0259d\u0259r fikir verirl\u0259r, \u00e7ox diqq\u0259tcildirl\u0259r. H\u0259r ikisi m\u0259nim \u0259\u015fyalar\u0131mla yat\u0131rd\u0131lar. \u0130ndi \u00d6m\u00fcr el\u0259 yat\u0131r, U\u011fur da bel\u0259 idi v\u0259 art\u0131q gedib. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tin olsa da, m\u0259n\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r g\u0259ls\u0259 d\u0259, onlar\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi m\u0259nim hissl\u0259rimd\u0259n daha vacibdir. M\u0259n eqoist yana\u015fa bilm\u0259r\u0259m.<\/p>\n

\u2013 G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131 bioloji \u00f6vlad\u0131 olsa da, yen\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa u\u015faq g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, kiml\u0259r \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa u\u015faq g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r? T\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259r v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ya\u015f h\u0259ddi varm\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– 60 ya\u015f\u0131ndan yuxar\u0131 bir \u015f\u0259xsin 3 ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faq g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k ist\u0259yi \u00e7ox absurddur. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa yaln\u0131z sa\u011flam u\u015faqlar g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr. Avropada is\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t f\u0259rqlidir, orada \u0259qli q\u00fcsurlu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r sa\u011flaml\u0131q probleml\u0259ri olan u\u015faqlar da himay\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr. Bunun s\u0259b\u0259bi odur ki, Avropa d\u00f6vl\u0259tl\u0259ri himay\u0259darlara maddi d\u0259st\u0259k g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Az\u0259rbaycanda is\u0259 bel\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k yoxdur, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259nl\u0259r yaln\u0131z sa\u011flam u\u015faqlar\u0131 se\u00e7irl\u0259r. \u018fn \u00e7ox da 3 ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faqlara \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verilir. \u018fm\u0259k v\u0259 \u018fhalinin Sosial M\u00fcdafi\u0259si Nazirliyi bu sah\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259dbir g\u00f6rs\u0259, q\u00fcsurlu u\u015faqlar\u0131n da ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 verilm\u0259 \u015fans\u0131 arta bil\u0259r. \u0130mkanl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r bu add\u0131m\u0131 atmaq ist\u0259y\u0259r, lakin bunun t\u0259\u015fviqi \u00e7ox azd\u0131r. Az\u0259rbaycanda \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 apar\u0131l\u0131r. \u00d6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsin (\u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin) u\u00e7ota al\u0131nmas\u0131, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259nafeyin\u0259 uy\u011funlu\u011fu haqq\u0131nda r\u0259y verilm\u0259si, \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 bar\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 q\u0259rar\u0131n\u0131n q\u0259bul edilm\u0259si. H\u0259m qad\u0131nlar, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa u\u015faq g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r, amma bir s\u0131ra hallarda bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil.<\/p>\n

Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n f\u0259aliyy\u0259t qabiliyy\u0259ti olmayan v\u0259 ya m\u0259hdud f\u0259aliyy\u0259t qabiliyy\u0259tli hesab edil\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r, m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n valideynlik h\u00fcquqlar\u0131ndan m\u0259hrum edilmi\u015f v\u0259 ya m\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r, qanunla \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 qoyulan v\u0259zif\u0259ni yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259diyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 q\u0259yyum v\u0259 ya himay\u0259\u00e7i v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n k\u0259narla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259qsirkar bilin\u0259r\u0259k bu h\u00fcququ l\u0259\u011fv edilmi\u015f \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r, s\u0259hh\u0259tin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 valideyn v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r, s\u00fclh, insanl\u0131q, ictimai t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259viyyat \u0259leyhin\u0259, h\u0259yat v\u0259 sa\u011flaml\u0131q, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 l\u0259yaq\u0259ti, cinsi toxunulmazl\u0131q v\u0259 cinsi azadl\u0131q \u0259leyhin\u0259, yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayanlara qar\u015f\u0131 q\u0259sd\u0259n t\u00f6r\u0259dil\u0259n a\u011f\u0131r v\u0259 ya x\u00fcsusil\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r cinay\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259hkum olunmu\u015f \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r, bar\u0259sind\u0259 cinay\u0259t t\u0259qibi \u00fczr\u0259 icraat apar\u0131lan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r v\u0259 s. u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bilm\u0259z. H\u0259m\u00e7inin aralar\u0131nda nikah olmayan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r birlikd\u0259 eyni u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 Siz\u0259 yard\u0131mlar olurmu? \u00a0Maliyy\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rini nec\u0259 h\u0259ll edirsiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– He\u00e7 bir maliyy\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yi yoxdur. Bu ilin may ay\u0131nda biz Sosial Xidm\u0259tl\u0259r Agentliyinin tenderind\u0259 qalib g\u0259ldik. \u018fld\u0259 edil\u0259n v\u0259saitl\u0259 yaln\u0131z s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131n \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n maa\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yik. Amma bu v\u0259sait az oldu\u011fundan maa\u015f\u0131 da az veririk. Bizd\u0259 on n\u0259f\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259yir. Onlar gec\u0259-g\u00fcnd\u00fcz 40\u201350 u\u015fa\u011fa bax\u0131r.<\/p>\n

10 n\u0259f\u0259r i\u015f\u00e7i dedikd\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutdu\u011fum budur: biri sosial i\u015f\u00e7i, dig\u0259ri pedaqoq, bir h\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas, 2 sosial m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259t\u00e7i, kordinator kimi m\u0259nim \u00f6z\u00fcm, bir tibb i\u015f\u00e7isi v\u0259 bir m\u00fchasib. B\u0259s m\u0259tb\u0259x? B\u0259s t\u0259rbiy\u0259\u00e7i, gec\u0259 n\u00f6vb\u0259si, t\u0259mizlik\u00e7i, t\u0259s\u0259rr\u00fcfat m\u00fcdiri?<\/p>\n

Pul yoxdur. Bu maa\u015fla h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yirl\u0259rs\u0259, dem\u0259k q\u0259hr\u0259mand\u0131rlar. Q\u0131sas\u0131, maddi yard\u0131m yoxdur. Sosial xidm\u0259t yaln\u0131z qrantlarla f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rir, amma bu davaml\u0131 dayan\u0131ql\u0131 sistem deyil. Biz gec\u0259-g\u00fcnd\u00fcz \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q, \u00e7\u00fcnki k\u00f6rp\u0259y\u0259 dey\u0259 bilm\u0259rik: \u201cBa\u011f\u0131\u015fla, indi gedir\u0259m ev\u0259, s\u0259n is\u0259 yatacaqsan\u201d.<\/p>\n

Gec\u0259-g\u00fcnd\u00fcz i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r var. M\u0259n h\u0259ft\u0259d\u0259 yaln\u0131z bir d\u0259f\u0259 ev\u0259 ged\u0259 bilir\u0259m. Bir i\u015f\u00e7imiz art-terapistdir v\u0259 o, u\u015faqlar\u0131n sa\u011falmas\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fck rol oynay\u0131r. U\u015faqlar inc\u0259s\u0259n\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olur, bu, onlar\u0131n psixoloji inki\u015faf\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. \u018fn \u0259sas\u0131 is\u0259 m\u0259tb\u0259xdir. M\u0259n gec\u0259 saat 2-y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r orada oyaq qalmal\u0131 oluram ki, s\u0259h\u0259r u\u015faqlara yem\u0259k verilsin. S\u0259h\u0259r is\u0259 m\u0259n iclaslarda v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 olmal\u0131yam.<\/p>\n

\u2013 \u0130ld\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faq g\u0259lir s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa? \u018fvv\u0259lki ill\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 artb ya azal\u0131b?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u0259n art\u0131q limit qoymu\u015fam, \u00e7\u00fcnki bax\u0131ram ki, bizim reabilitasiya prosesimiz iki n\u00f6vd\u00fcr: q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259tli v\u0259 uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259tli. H\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n reabilitasiyas\u0131 onun ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 travmadan, t\u0259hsilind\u0259n v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Bu faktorlar n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 birba\u015fa t\u0259sir edir. Bu il \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131m ki, yeni u\u015faqlar\u0131 daha az q\u0259bul edim. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259n k\u00f6hn\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131 t\u0259z\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n q\u0259buluna g\u00f6r\u0259 sanatoriyalara g\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259li olard\u0131m. Sanatoriya yeni bir m\u00fchitdir, \u00f6z qayda-qanunlar\u0131 var. Ola bilsin orada qayda yox, xaos v\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131ql\u0131q olsun. U\u015faqlar dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar ki, sanatoriyalarda b\u0259z\u0259n normal yem\u0259k verilmir, \u00e7imm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 su olmur v\u0259 s. Bu zaman m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f verir. Bel\u0259 halda m\u0259n \u00f6z travmal\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131 n\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 sanatoriyaya g\u00f6nd\u0259rib \u0259ziyy\u0259tini art\u0131r\u0131m? Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu il yeni u\u015faqlar\u0131n q\u0259bulunu azald\u0131q. Amma n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r az g\u00f6t\u00fcrs\u0259k d\u0259, reabilitasiyaya c\u0259lb olunan u\u015faqlar say\u0131 150-d\u0259n yuxar\u0131 olur. B\u0259li, ild\u0259n-il\u0259 faktlar art\u0131r v\u0259 biz i\u015fimizi daha da geni\u015fl\u0259ndiririk.<\/p>\n

\u2013 B\u0259s g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 sizin s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– G\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 m\u0259rk\u0259zimiz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259rin say\u0131 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r y\u00fcks\u0259kdir. Biz sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox izl\u0259yici k\u00fctl\u0259sin\u0259 malik QHT-l\u0259rd\u0259n biriyik, \u201cFacebook\u201d, \u201cThreads\u201d, \u201cTelegram\u201d, \u201cTikTok\u201d v\u0259 \u201cInstagram\u201d \u00fczr\u0259 \u00fcmumilikd\u0259 izl\u0259yici say\u0131 1 milyonu ke\u00e7ib. Bel\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck bir t\u0259\u015fkilata g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 \u0259n az\u0131 50 m\u00fcraci\u0259t g\u0259lir. \u0130ki qaynar x\u0259ttimiz var v\u0259 daima \u201cWhatsApp\u201d \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259 \u015fikay\u0259t v\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259r daxil olur. \u018fn \u00e7ox m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259r qad\u0131nlar v\u0259 u\u015faqlard\u0131r. Biz h\u0259r z\u0259ngi diqq\u0259tl\u0259 y\u00f6nl\u0259ndiririk v\u0259 aidiyy\u0259ti quruma g\u00f6nd\u0259ririk. \u201cWhatsApp\u201d \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n d\u00f6vl\u0259t qrupu il\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q edirik v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259ri h\u0259min qrupa g\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k xahi\u015f edirik ki, m\u00fcvafiq icra orqan\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 diqq\u0259t yetirsin. Amma b\u0259zi hallar var ki, biz sanki m\u00fcharib\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rm\u0131\u015f kimi \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015firik. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, sosial xidm\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirik ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n reabilitasiyas\u0131 v\u0259 m\u00fcalic\u0259 m\u00fcdd\u0259ti bitib, onu d\u00f6vl\u0259tin himay\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrs\u00fcnl\u0259r, amma m\u00fcraci\u0259timiz\u0259 baxm\u0131rlar. Halbuki mediada h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n taleyi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 sensasiya do\u011furan x\u0259b\u0259r payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131qda d\u0259rhal u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 himay\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Maraql\u0131d\u0131r ki, son vaxtlar \u00f6z qohumu t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 travmalar alm\u0131\u015f bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n taleyi bar\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 kim dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131r. U\u015faq haz\u0131rda sosial xidm\u0259tl\u0259rin m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259dir, amma onun bar\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259lumat verilm\u0259yib v\u0259 reabilitasiyas\u0131n\u0131n nec\u0259 getdiyi a\u00e7\u0131q deyil. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, d\u00f6vl\u0259t u\u015faq m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259l\u0259rinin f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti niy\u0259 \u015f\u0259ffaf deyil v\u0259 n\u0259d\u0259n qorxurlar? Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qca b\u0259zi insanlar q\u0131c\u0131qlan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Dig\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fck problem efirl\u0259rdir. M\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 efirl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fam v\u0259 orada demi\u015f\u0259m:\u00a0\u201cU\u015faqlar\u0131, ail\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259rini efirl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarmay\u0131n. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r yaln\u0131z d\u00f6vl\u0259t qurumlar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n h\u0259ll olunmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n orada oturan ekspertl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131 v\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259hqir edir, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131r. M\u0259n onlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fam v\u0259 soru\u015fmu\u015fam:\u00a0\u201cSiz kimsiniz ki, reytinq u\u011fruna insanlar\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r efir\u0259 problemli u\u015faq, qad\u0131n, ki\u015fi v\u0259 ya ail\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131l\u0131rsa, onlar\u0131 d\u0259rhal d\u00f6vl\u0259t qurumuna y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirm\u0259k, yard\u0131m g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Reytinq u\u011fruna u\u015faqlar\u0131n v\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini efirl\u0259rd\u0259 n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirm\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil.<\/p>\n

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\u2013 El\u0259 bir hal olubmu ki, h\u0259r hans\u0131sa s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa yerl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n, ondan imtina ed\u0259n valideynl\u0259r sonradan siz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 geri ist\u0259sin? Burada d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n n\u0259 olub ki, valideyn fikrind\u0259n d\u00f6n\u00fcb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqla \u0259laq\u0259 zaman\u0131 \u201cpem\u015fan\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q\u201d duy\u011fusu ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. Amma bu, \u00e7ox vaxt m\u00fcv\u0259qq\u0259tidir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, M\u0259l\u0259k adl\u0131 bir q\u0131z var idi. O, 3 ya\u015f\u0131nda anas\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n davaml\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc. Biz M\u0259l\u0259yi art\u0131q bir il\u0259 yax\u0131nd\u0131r reabilitasiya edirik, amma h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 qorxu v\u0259 travmalar qal\u0131r. Anas\u0131 h\u0259bsd\u0259dir. Biz onu g\u00fccl\u0259 b\u0259rpa etdik v\u0259 reabilitasiyas\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 davam edir. Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra anas\u0131 z\u0259ng edib a\u011flaya-a\u011flaya dedi ki, \u201cM\u0259n sizinl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m, sizin bilm\u0259dikl\u0259riniz var\u201d. Ax\u0131, m\u0259nim bilm\u0259diyim n\u0259 ola bil\u0259rdi? S\u0259b\u0259b h\u0259r n\u0259 olursa olsun, n\u0259tic\u0259 ortadad\u0131r: u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fck travma al\u0131b. Burnundak\u0131 \u00e7ap\u0131q h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 qal\u0131r v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 yaln\u0131z estetik \u0259m\u0259liyyatla d\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. Valideyn h\u00fcququndan m\u0259hrum edilib v\u0259 anas\u0131 h\u0259bsd\u0259dir. Ox\u015far bir hadis\u0259 d\u0259 olub: bir u\u015faq \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa verilib, anas\u0131 g\u0259lib \u201cU\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131 ist\u0259yir\u0259m\u201d deyib. Art\u0131q m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyildi, \u00e7\u00fcnki d\u00f6vl\u0259t m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 q\u0259rar\u0131 il\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ba\u015fqa ail\u0259y\u0259 vermi\u015fdi. M\u0259n ona prosedurlar\u0131 izah etdim, dedim m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t et. O, bunu e\u015fidib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b getdi v\u0259 bir daha g\u0259lm\u0259di.<\/p>\n

Y\u0259ni m\u0259n dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 inad, irad\u0259 v\u0259 \u0259zm olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r, al\u0131nmasa, dem\u0259k ki, proses bitdi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

U\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259ri h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn r\u0259ngli xatir\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 dolu isti ev, qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f bax\u0131\u015flar, t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz bir d\u00fcnyad\u0131r. Amma ham\u0131 bu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 sahib ola bilmir. Minl\u0259rl\u0259 azya\u015fl\u0131 bigan\u0259lik, diqq\u0259tsizlik v\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, ail\u0259 sevgisind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olur v\u0259 bel\u0259 bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259t t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, h\u0259min u\u015faqlarda d\u0259rin izl\u0259r burax\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 bir \u0259lin uzanmas\u0131, bir qap\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n taleyini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 kifay\u0259t edir.\u00a0 Az\u0259rbaycan U\u015faq Birliyi U\u015faq S\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 da ill\u0259rdir m\u0259hz bu talel\u0259ri d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn var. Bu m\u0259kan sad\u0259c\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq deyil, sevgi, m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t, qorunma v\u0259 yeni ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131clar evin\u0259 \u00e7evrilmi\u015f bir m\u0259rk\u0259zdir. Burada…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":835187,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f.jpg",870,500,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f.jpg",870,500,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f.jpg",870,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f-635x365.jpg",635,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f-840x483.jpg",640,368,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f.jpg",870,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f.jpg",870,500,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ffed3b20bb9d880d3692ba454a403f8f.jpg",870,500,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"U\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259ri h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn r\u0259ngli xatir\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 dolu isti ev, qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f bax\u0131\u015flar, t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz bir d\u00fcnyad\u0131r. Amma ham\u0131 bu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 sahib ola bilmir. Minl\u0259rl\u0259 azya\u015fl\u0131 bigan\u0259lik, diqq\u0259tsizlik v\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, ail\u0259 sevgisind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olur v\u0259 bel\u0259 bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259t t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, h\u0259min u\u015faqlarda d\u0259rin izl\u0259r burax\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 bir \u0259lin uzanmas\u0131, bir qap\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/835186"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=835186"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/835186\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":835189,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/835186\/revisions\/835189"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/835187"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=835186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=835186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=835186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}