{"id":83559,"date":"2019-10-04T11:43:10","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T08:43:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=83559"},"modified":"2019-10-04T11:43:10","modified_gmt":"2019-10-04T08:43:10","slug":"erk%c9%99n-nikahin-d%c9%99hs%c9%99tli-f%c9%99sadlari-14-yasinda-%c9%99r%c9%99-veril%c9%99n-qizin-real-hekay%c9%99si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=83559","title":{"rendered":"Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli f\u0259sadlar\u0131 \u2013 14 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 veril\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n real hekay\u0259si&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><b>14 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 veril\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n real hekay\u0259si&#8230;<\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ail\u0259 il\u0259 t\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n rastla\u015fd\u0131m. Bak\u0131 gec\u0259qondular\u0131ndan birind\u0259 ya\u015fayan x\u0259st\u0259 h\u0259mk\u0259ndlim\u0259 ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 getmi\u015fdim. Y\u00fcng\u00fclvari bazarl\u0131q \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yax\u0131nl\u0131qdak\u0131 ki\u00e7ik ma\u011fazaya gir\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259d\u0259n sars\u0131ld\u0131m. Kassa arxas\u0131nda orta ya\u015flarda, h\u00fcnd\u00fcrboylu, sa\u00e7-saqqal basm\u0131\u015f bir ki\u015fi 8-9 ya\u015flarda o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 taxta x\u0259tke\u015fin tinil\u0259 ara verm\u0259d\u0259n vurur, u\u015faq g\u00f6zl\u0259ri h\u0259d\u0259q\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015f halda s\u0259s \u00e7\u0131xarmadan i\u00e7ind\u0259 h\u0131\u00e7q\u0131r\u0131r, ki\u015fiyl\u0259 eyni ya\u015flarda olan, ma\u011fazan\u0131n ortas\u0131nda donub qalan, \u0259li s\u00fcp\u00fcrg\u0259li qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n sel kimi ya\u015f ax\u0131rd\u0131. Bu q\u0259rib\u0259 s\u0259ssizliyin i\u00e7ind\u0259ki qorxunc m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ni o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7a\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131 ki, n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yimi bilm\u0259dim. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 ki\u015finin vahim\u0259li bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan ehtiyatland\u0131m. Yard\u0131m \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qap\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131xanda ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259y\u0259 dayay\u0131b i\u00e7\u0259ri baxan g\u0259nc qad\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Bir an d\u00f6n\u00fcb m\u0259n\u0259 sar\u0131 baxd\u0131. Qorxudanm\u0131,q\u0259z\u0259bd\u0259nmi alacalanm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6zl\u0259rin d\u0259riliyind\u0259ki ifad\u0259ni anlamaq o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tindiki&#8230; G\u00f6zl\u0259r \u00fcsyan edir, g\u00f6zl\u0259r q\u0259z\u0259b p\u00fcsk\u00fcr\u00fcr, eyni anda sanki m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t dil\u0259yirdi&#8230; Ki\u015fi\u00a0 o u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 niy\u0259 el\u0259 c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131r, ya\u015fl\u0131 qad\u0131n niy\u0259 lal-dinm\u0259z g\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131 t\u00f6k\u00fcr, o u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n, o g\u0259nc qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcnah\u0131 n\u0259dir?.. \u018ftrafda birc\u0259 n\u0259f\u0259r g\u00f6z\u0259 d\u0259ymirdi. Yenid\u0259n ma\u011fazaya girm\u0259kd\u0259n ba\u015fqa \u00e7ar\u0259 qalmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. He\u00e7 n\u0259 olmam\u0131\u015f kimi y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259sl\u0259 salam verib, a\u011fl\u0131ma g\u0259l\u0259n bir m\u0259hsulun ad\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fdum. Ki\u015fi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 dirs\u0259yil\u0259 k\u0259nara it\u0259l\u0259yib:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0&#8211; Qurban olasan m\u00fc\u015ft\u0259riy\u0259, el\u0259 bilm\u0259 ki, can\u0131n qurtard\u0131, ax\u015fam iki g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bir de\u015fikd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xaracam,- deyib, zorla g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131, &#8211; K\u00f6p\u0259yo\u011flu d\u0259d\u0259si ya\u015fl\u0131 vaxt\u0131mda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u0259rini at\u0131b \u00fcst\u00fcm\u0259, guya Urisetd\u0259 yel \u0259sib, havay\u0131 qoz yer\u0259 t\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcb, bu bivec d\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131b g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259k. Ki\u015fi qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131n onu dinl\u0259yib-dinl\u0259m\u0259diyinin f\u0259rqin\u0259 varmadan do\u011fray\u0131b-t\u00f6k\u00fcrd\u00fc. U\u015faq \u00e7oxdan aradan \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Qad\u0131n da g\u00f6z\u0259 d\u0259ymirdi. N\u0259 bir \u015fey alacaq h\u0259v\u0259sim, n\u0259 d\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259km\u0259k g\u00fcc\u00fcm qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131&#8230; Hadis\u0259nin tam t\u0259f\u0259rr\u00fcat\u0131n\u0131 bir q\u0259d\u0259r sonra \u0259li s\u00fcp\u00fcrg\u0259li qad\u0131ndan \u00f6yr\u0259ndim. \u00c7ar\u0259sizlik ya\u015fl\u0131 anan\u0131 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259sd\u0259n m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t dil\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur el\u0259yirdi.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&#8230; Ail\u0259 evin yegan\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 M\u0259l\u0259yi (adlar \u015f\u0259rtidir) 14 ya\u015f\u0131ndayk\u0259n\u00a0 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n ay\u0131r\u0131b Rusiyada ticar\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olan h\u0259mk\u0259ndlisin\u0259 zorla \u0259r\u0259 verir. Bir m\u00fcd\u0259t sonra Fazil M\u0259l\u0259yi ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda qoyub Rusiyaya d\u00f6n\u00fcr. \u0130ki o\u011flu d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ara-s\u0131ra k\u0259nd\u0259 g\u0259lir, h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259d\u0259, 18 ya\u015f\u0131n tamam olanda r\u0259smi nikaha gir\u0259rik, sonra s\u0259ni d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 da \u00f6z\u00fcml\u0259 aparacam deyib, M\u0259l\u0259yi yalan\u00e7\u0131 v\u0259dl\u0259rl\u0259 aldad\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il\u00a0 onlara x\u0131rda-para x\u0259rclik g\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259nd\u0259n sonra aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259ndd\u0259n k\u0259sir. H\u0259r iki ail\u0259nin t\u0259kidi il\u0259 bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra onlar\u0131 yan\u0131na apar\u0131r. M\u0259l\u0259k Fazilin Rusiyada ba\u015fqa ail\u0259si v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259n sonra yenid\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycana qay\u0131d\u0131r. G\u0259nc ana \u0259ri hesab el\u0259diyi adam\u0131n kiray\u0259 tutdu\u011fu daxmada ke\u00e7irdiyi \u0259zabl\u0131 h\u0259yatdan, Fazilin ona verdiyi z\u00fclml\u0259rd\u0259n s\u00f6z a\u00e7d\u0131qca \u0259li-aya\u011f\u0131 titr\u0259yir, sanki dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qca h\u0259min a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 yenid\u0259n ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131. G\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 evd\u0259 t\u0259k, k\u00f6m\u0259ksiz qalan qad\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb bir qohumunun k\u00f6m\u0259yi il\u0259 ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fcr&#8230; burada da ba\u015fqa ac\u0131lar, ba\u015fqa probleml\u0259r ba\u015flan\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>K\u0259ndd\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259qa\u00fcdl\u0259 ail\u0259ni doland\u0131ra bilm\u0259y\u0259n Yusif ki\u015fi Bak\u0131ya g\u0259lir, bir tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6m\u0259yi il\u0259 ma\u011fazada f\u0259hl\u0259 kimi i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259lir. El\u0259 ma\u011fazan\u0131n qon\u015fulu\u011funda ki\u00e7ik bir evi kiray\u0259l\u0259yib q\u0131z\u0131 il\u0259 n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259rini yan\u0131na g\u0259tirir. Be\u015f n\u0259f\u0259rlik ail\u0259 ki\u00e7ik bir ota\u011fa s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r. S\u00fcr\u0259yya arvad ma\u011fazada s\u00fcp\u00fcrg\u0259\u00e7iliy\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Maddi s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131dan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n ya\u015fl\u0131 ata h\u0259r ax\u015fam i\u015fd\u0259n ev\u0259 d\u00f6n\u0259nd\u0259 ac\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 arvad\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r, &#8220;yax\u015f\u0131 ana olsayd\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131n\u00a0 \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 qalmazd\u0131\u201d deyib, yediyi bir par\u00e7a \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yi z\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 d\u00f6nd\u0259rir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar onsuz da ill\u0259r uzunu psixoloji sars\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015fayan M\u0259l\u0259yi h\u0259yatdan soyudur, g\u0259nc qad\u0131n h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00e7ox onun h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259hv el\u0259y\u0259n atas\u0131na nifr\u0259t el\u0259yir. \u0130ki m\u0259kt\u0259bya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faq is\u0259 ata-ana sevgisind\u0259n m\u0259hrum, s\u0259fil h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r. H\u0259l\u0259 n\u0259 anan\u0131n kimliyini t\u0259sdiql\u0259y\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259di, n\u0259 d\u0259 ikinci, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc sinifd\u0259 oxuyas\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u00a0 do\u011fum \u015f\u0259had\u0259tnam\u0259si var. R\u0259smi nikahdan is\u0259 s\u00f6z ged\u0259 bilm\u0259z. U\u015faqlar\u0131n n\u0259 vaxt m\u0259kt\u0259b qap\u0131s\u0131 a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131 b\u0259lli deyil.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u018fn t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259lisi is\u0259 u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131, yeniyetm\u0259liyi, g\u0259ncliyi, b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131 \u0259lind\u0259n al\u0131nan zavall\u0131 bir qad\u0131n intihar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yollar axtar\u0131r. Yusif ki\u015finin is\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si budur:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0&#8211; \u00c7ox adam bel\u0259di, kas\u0131b\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131, birt\u0259h\u0259r d\u00f6zm\u0259liyik. Yax\u015f\u0131 arvad evind\u0259n, yuvas\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xmaz. M\u0259nim q\u0131z\u0131m bo\u015fan\u0131b g\u0259lib ata evind\u0259 otura bilm\u0259z. \u00d6ls\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259rinin yan\u0131nda \u00f6l\u0259c\u0259k.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>R.Quliyeva<\/b><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div align=\"center\"><img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1570175665_1335_1_programlar_hibe_cocuk_gelinler_3_01.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><b>\u00a0 Q\u0259rib\u0259 m\u0259ntiqdir, r\u0259smi nikah\u0131 bel\u0259 olmayan qad\u0131n kimd\u0259n, nec\u0259 bo\u015fanacaq?\u00a0 Ata ad\u0131n\u0131, soyad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259sdiql\u0259y\u0259n he\u00e7 bir s\u0259n\u0259di olmayan, atan\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc, s\u0259sini bel\u0259 xat\u0131rlamayan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u0259ki ata kimdir? Bu, u\u015faqlar\u0131n, o zavall\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcnah\u0131 n\u0259dir? Niy\u0259 biz \u00f6z \u0259limizl\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 odun-alovun i\u00e7in\u0259 at\u0131r\u0131q?<\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixoloji f\u0259sadlar bar\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n\u00a0 f\u0259sadlar\u0131<\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Erk\u0259n nikah \u2013 ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259rk etm\u0259mi\u015f, psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n ail\u0259 quracaq q\u0259d\u0259r formala\u015fmam\u0131\u015f yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011flanan nikahd\u0131r. H\u0259r il y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 erk\u0259n nikaha imza at\u0131r, bu r\u0259q\u0259m ild\u0259n-il\u0259 \u00e7oxal\u0131r. Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u011flanan erk\u0259n nikahdan bir s\u0131ra m\u0259nb\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 &#8220;Yeniyetm\u0259 nikah\u0131\u201d kimi d\u0259 b\u0259hs edilir. Bu tip nikahlar \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z regionda valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259kidil\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, burada t\u0259kc\u0259 valideynin deyil, eyni zamanda qohumlar\u0131n, dostlar\u0131n, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, sosial \u00e7evr\u0259nin d\u0259 rolu b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar h\u0259r zaman m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin diqq\u0259tind\u0259 olub. Bu m\u00f6vzu \u0259traf\u0131nda\u00a0 uzun ill\u0259r \u0259rzind\u0259 bir s\u0131ra \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259dqiqatlar apar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yol a\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. T\u0259dqiqatlar\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n analiz edildiyi zaman m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n olunmu\u015fdur ki, erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yol a\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u0259zi f\u0259sadlar dilind\u0259n, dinind\u0259n v\u0259 irqind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, qurulan b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 eyni s\u0259ciyy\u0259 da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. F\u0259sadlar\u00a0 psixoloji, somatik v\u0259 sosioloji ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar il\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259ri c\u0259lb edir.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0\u00a0 Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yol a\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar\u0131 psixoloji aspektd\u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259rk\u0259n, bir \u00e7ox hallar diqq\u0259td\u0259n yay\u0131nmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bunlardan \u0259n \u00e7ox t\u0259sad\u00fcf edil\u0259nl\u0259r obsessiv-kompulsiv pozuntu \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259ri, depressiya, t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f pozuntular\u0131 v\u0259 bunlarla bir s\u0131rada ba\u015f ver\u0259n panikataklard\u0131r. Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlarn\u0259inki ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z regionda, h\u0259m\u00e7inin, d\u00fcnya miqyas\u0131nda aktuald\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0\u00a0 Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259b oldu\u011fu obsessiv-kompulsiv pozuntunun meydana \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131na z\u0259min yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin cinsi akta h\u0259l\u0259 haz\u0131r olmamas\u0131 v\u0259 ya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bu akt\u0131n ba\u015f verm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haz\u0131r hiss etm\u0259m\u0259sidir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, nikahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 e\u015fitdiyi v\u0259 alud\u0259 oldu\u011fu bir s\u0131ra cinsi mifl\u0259r d\u0259 bu pozuntunun yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. S\u00f6z\u00fc ged\u0259n cinsi mifl\u0259r \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 u\u011fursuz cinsi akt ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f insanlar t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131 kimi t\u0259lqin edilir. Onu da qeyd etm\u0259k olar ki, obsessiv-kompulsiv pozuntu iyr\u0259nm\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259zah\u00fcr ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu ad\u0259t\u0259n,\u00a0 qad\u0131nlarda daha s\u0131x m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur.<br \/>\nB\u0259z\u0259n erk\u0259n nikah zaman\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-birl\u0259rini tan\u0131ma\u011fa kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r vaxt\u0131 olmur. Ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rini kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r tan\u0131ma\u011fa \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131rlar. Bu da \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 erk\u0259n nikaha gir\u0259nl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t azl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ail\u0259 daxili v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rin d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u0259nims\u0259nilm\u0259m\u0259si, yeni m\u00fchit\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fma bilm\u0259m\u0259k, konfliktli situasiyalar\u0131n yaranmas\u0131, \u015fidd\u0259t dolay\u0131 v\u0259 ya birba\u015fa y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f verbal aqressiya v\u0259 s. kimi neqativ hallara yol a\u00e7\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259 etibar\u0131 il\u0259, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri, b\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 h\u0259r ikisind\u0259 depressiv \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259r meydana \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0\u00a0 Erk\u0259n nikah zaman\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r, qeyd edildiyi kimi, bir-birl\u0259rini kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r tan\u0131mad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evlilik d\u00f6n\u0259mind\u0259 m\u00fc\u015ft\u0259r\u0259k probleml\u0259ri anlamaqda v\u0259 empatiya qurmaqda \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. B\u0259zi hallarda t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-birl\u0259rini evlilikd\u0259n sonra tan\u0131ma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Ail\u0259daxili probleml\u0259rin vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmamas\u0131, aqressiyan\u0131n daxild\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131b qalmas\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin toplanmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. B\u0259hsi ged\u0259n neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 evliliyin ilk d\u00f6n\u0259ml\u0259rind\u0259 daha az rast g\u0259linir. Zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r \u015f\u00fcur alt\u0131nda toplan\u0131r, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 panik ataklar olaraq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Panik ataklar\u0131 ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131cda ciddi problem kimi q\u0259bul edilmir, lakin bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra ataklararas\u0131 zaman q\u0131sal\u0131r. Bu problemi ya\u015fayan \u015f\u0259xs zamanla panik ataklar\u0131n g\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131na kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259nfi t\u0259sini m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edir. Bu da t\u0259bii olaraq sars\u0131nt\u0131 yarad\u0131r. Panik ataklar\u0131n \u0259siri olan \u015f\u0259xsin fikrini ail\u0259daxili probleml\u0259rin v\u0259 yaxud ail\u0259nin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k inki\u015faf\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259llin\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259ltm\u0259si \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n panik pozuntu olaraq d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirilir. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, bu kimi probleml\u0259 ya\u015fayan \u015f\u0259xs \u0259g\u0259r zaman\u0131nda m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis d\u0259st\u0259yi almazsa, ail\u0259nin v\u0259 \u00e7evr\u0259nin t\u0259kidil\u0259 daxili oldu\u011fu erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n f\u0259sadlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna q\u0259d\u0259r da\u015f\u0131mal\u0131 olur.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130st\u0259r psixoloji, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 sosioloji aspektd\u0259n erk\u0259n nikah\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirs\u0259k, m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259rik ki, ist\u0259nil\u0259n halda erk\u0259n nikah t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r f\u0259sadlara yol a\u00e7\u0131r. S\u00f6z\u00fc ged\u0259n f\u0259sadlar\u0131n formala\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259 sa\u011flam f\u0259rdl\u0259rin yeti\u015fm\u0259 ehtimal\u0131 olduqca a\u015fa\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259min ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 yeti\u015f\u0259n f\u0259rdl\u0259r\u00a0 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 v\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 sa\u011flam m\u0259n\u0259vi psixoloji m\u00fchit formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq, mikro v\u0259 makro qruplarda aktualla\u015fmaq, ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri zaman \u00e7ox asanl\u0131qla m\u0259hz erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n neqativ n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rinin qurban\u0131na \u00e7evril\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>V\u00fcsal Alquliyev, psixoloq.<br \/>\n&#8220;Loqos\u201d PN\u0130M\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>14 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 veril\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n real hekay\u0259si&#8230; Ail\u0259 il\u0259 t\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n rastla\u015fd\u0131m. Bak\u0131 gec\u0259qondular\u0131ndan birind\u0259 ya\u015fayan x\u0259st\u0259 h\u0259mk\u0259ndlim\u0259 ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 getmi\u015fdim. Y\u00fcng\u00fclvari bazarl\u0131q \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yax\u0131nl\u0131qdak\u0131 ki\u00e7ik ma\u011fazaya gir\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259d\u0259n sars\u0131ld\u0131m. Kassa arxas\u0131nda orta ya\u015flarda, h\u00fcnd\u00fcrboylu, sa\u00e7-saqqal basm\u0131\u015f bir ki\u015fi 8-9 ya\u015flarda o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 taxta x\u0259tke\u015fin tinil\u0259 ara verm\u0259d\u0259n vurur, u\u015faq g\u00f6zl\u0259ri h\u0259d\u0259q\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015f halda s\u0259s \u00e7\u0131xarmadan i\u00e7ind\u0259 h\u0131\u00e7q\u0131r\u0131r, ki\u015fiyl\u0259 eyni ya\u015flarda olan, ma\u011fazan\u0131n ortas\u0131nda donub qalan, \u0259li s\u00fcp\u00fcrg\u0259li qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n sel kimi ya\u015f ax\u0131rd\u0131. Bu q\u0259rib\u0259 s\u0259ssizliyin i\u00e7ind\u0259ki qorxunc m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ni o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7a\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131 ki, n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yimi bilm\u0259dim. 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