{"id":83637,"date":"2019-10-04T14:49:51","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T11:49:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=83637"},"modified":"2019-10-04T14:49:51","modified_gmt":"2019-10-04T11:49:51","slug":"nadinc-usaqlar-daha-xosb%c9%99xtdir-arasdirma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=83637","title":{"rendered":"Nadinc u\u015faqlar daha xo\u015fb\u0259xtdir &#8211; ARA\u015eDIRMA"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><b>Bir \u00e7ox valideyn u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmas\u0131n\u0131n vacibliyi fikrin\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259nib. Lakin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloq ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259lum olub ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n daxili azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259yatlar\u0131na m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir edir.<\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>U\u015faqlar n\u0259zar\u0259tinizd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman onlara hirsl\u0259nm\u0259k do\u011fru deyil.S\u0259birli olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki siz f\u0259rqind\u0259 olmasan\u0131z bel\u0259, bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r onlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 inki\u015faf\u0131na v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259k. U\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u0259c\u0259l olmas\u0131 he\u00e7 d\u0259 pis deyil. \u00d6zl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinmirl\u0259r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1570187363_o-niy-s-z-baxm-r.-valideynl-rin-7-tipik-s-hvi.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>H\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti v\u0259 d\u00fcnya il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 \u0259laq\u0259si var. Valideynl\u0259r daim u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri kimi t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsalar, u\u015faqlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259k\u0259c\u0259k, \u0259sl arzu v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini t\u0259yin ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Hisl\u0259rind\u0259n davaml\u0131 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bilirl\u0259r\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n<div>D\u0259c\u0259l u\u015faqlar ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 qurark\u0259n d\u0259 emosiyalar\u0131ndan\u00a0 istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t zaman\u0131 s\u0259s-k\u00fcyl\u00fc olma\u011f\u0131 sevirl\u0259r v\u0259 bir d\u0259qiq\u0259 bel\u0259 sakit qala bilmirl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131 susma\u011fa m\u0259cbur ets\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 bir c\u0259hd g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r, u\u015faq d\u00fcnyan\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmaq imkan\u0131ndan m\u0259hrum olur. D\u0259c\u0259l v\u0259 s\u00f6z\u0259baxmayan u\u015faqlar h\u0259r \u015feyl\u0259 maraqlanma\u011fa v\u0259 \u0259traf m\u00fchit\u0259 daha \u00e7ox meyllidirl\u0259r, \u00e7\u00fcnki \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259kl\u0259ri daha g\u00fccl\u00fc olur.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1570187315_15700943270.83208000.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Hissl\u0259rini bildirm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinmirl\u0259r<\/b><\/div>\n<div>U\u015faqlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti \u00e7ox aktiv v\u0259 bir q\u0259d\u0259r yaramaz olur. Bu onlar\u0131n t\u0259bi\u0259tinin bir hiss\u0259sidir. Onlar duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 ifad\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259n maksimum d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kinmirl\u0259r. Onlar\u0131n\u00a0 s\u0259s-k\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259n qorxmaq laz\u0131m deyil. Bir u\u015faq y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259sl\u0259 v\u0259 d\u0259lisov davran\u0131rsa, bu, onlar\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xt olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 inamlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Duy\u011fusal m\u0259nada daha yetkindirl\u0259r\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n<div>Yaramaz u\u015faqlar\u00a0 emosional olaraq daha yetkindirl\u0259r. Bu tip u\u015faqlar duy\u011fular\u0131n h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli bir hiss\u0259si oldu\u011funu anlay\u0131rlar v\u0259 dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131n da duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 anlama\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259yi bacar\u0131rlar.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1570187432_15700944480.04995100.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><b>\u018ftraf m\u00fchitd\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131rlar\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n<div>Nadinc u\u015faqlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini t\u0259sdiq ed\u0259c\u0259k kimis\u0259 axtarm\u0131r.\u018fksin\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259yin yax\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu bilirl\u0259r v\u0259 bildikl\u0259ri yoldan getm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kinmirl\u0259r. Bilirl\u0259r ki, u\u011fursuz olsalar da, bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n sonu deyil. Onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri he\u00e7 bir \u015fey yoxdur. D\u0259c\u0259l u\u015faqlar\u0131n nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259k d\u0259rdi olmur v\u0259 onlar t\u0259nqid olunmaqdan utanm\u0131rlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n \u00f6n\u0259mli \u015fey yen\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z fikirl\u0259ridir.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>\u00d6zg\u00fcv\u0259nl\u0259ri tamd\u0131r\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n<div>Yaramaz u\u015faqlar, duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 \u015fi\u015firtm\u0259yi sevmirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki valideynl\u0259rinin onlar\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 pis olsa da sev\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rini bilirl\u0259r. Bu u\u015faqlarla m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.. U\u015faqlara kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r emosional d\u0259st\u0259k verib, onlar\u0131 s\u0131x\u0131\u015fd\u0131rmadan da onlara nec\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 davranma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1570187310_15700942760.29412800.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Problem h\u0259ll etm\u0259 bacar\u0131qlar\u0131\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n<div>\u0130ta\u0259tkar u\u015faqlar h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q uyumlu olmaqdan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Yaramaz u\u015faqlar is\u0259 daha kort\u0259bii v\u0259 probleml\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn f\u0259rqli yana\u015fmalar\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259yi\u00a0 sevirl\u0259r. H\u0259m d\u0259 bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar stress\u0259 daha davaml\u0131d\u0131rlar v\u0259 yaranm\u0131\u015f v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n t\u0259k d\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xa bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir \u00e7ox valideyn u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmas\u0131n\u0131n vacibliyi fikrin\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259nib. Lakin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloq ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259lum olub ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n daxili azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259yatlar\u0131na m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir edir. U\u015faqlar n\u0259zar\u0259tinizd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman onlara hirsl\u0259nm\u0259k do\u011fru deyil.S\u0259birli olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki siz f\u0259rqind\u0259 olmasan\u0131z bel\u0259, bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r onlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 inki\u015faf\u0131na v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259k. U\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u0259c\u0259l olmas\u0131 he\u00e7 d\u0259 pis deyil. \u00d6zl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinmirl\u0259r. H\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti v\u0259 d\u00fcnya il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 \u0259laq\u0259si var. Valideynl\u0259r daim u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri kimi t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsalar, u\u015faqlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259k\u0259c\u0259k, \u0259sl arzu v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":83638,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100.jpg",800,500,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100.jpg",800,500,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100.jpg",800,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100-300x188.jpg",300,188,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100.jpg",640,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100.jpg",800,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100.jpg",800,500,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1570187318_15700941120.40863100.jpg",800,500,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Bir \u00e7ox valideyn u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmas\u0131n\u0131n vacibliyi fikrin\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259nib. Lakin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloq ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259lum olub ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n daxili azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259yatlar\u0131na m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir edir. U\u015faqlar n\u0259zar\u0259tinizd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman onlara hirsl\u0259nm\u0259k do\u011fru deyil.S\u0259birli olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki siz f\u0259rqind\u0259 olmasan\u0131z bel\u0259, bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r onlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 inki\u015faf\u0131na v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259k. U\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u0259c\u0259l olmas\u0131 he\u00e7 d\u0259&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83637"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=83637"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83637\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/83638"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=83637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=83637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=83637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}