{"id":839770,"date":"2026-02-09T14:07:45","date_gmt":"2026-02-09T10:07:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=839770"},"modified":"2026-02-09T14:07:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-09T10:07:45","slug":"d%c9%99y%c9%99rl%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=839770","title":{"rendered":"D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>B\u0259zi anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n m\u00fczakir\u0259si z\u0259ruridir. Xat\u0131rlamaq, xat\u0131rlatmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn. D\u0259y\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259zisi h\u0259r g\u00f6zd\u0259 f\u0259rqlidir. B\u0259z\u0259n status, v\u0259zif\u0259, titul bu t\u0259r\u0259zid\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r \u00e7\u0259kir, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t etika, heysiyy\u0259t, y\u00fcng\u00fcl qal\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6nc\u0259likl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259, sonra, \u0259traf\u0131na, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti il\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 formala\u015fa bilmir. \u018fg\u0259r bir c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259, insanlar aras\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259, bo\u015fluq varsa, xo\u015f olmayan situasiyalar yaran\u0131rsa, bunun \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri bilm\u0259m\u0259sidir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>F\u0259rdl\u0259rin h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdir, t\u0259bii ki. X\u00fcsusil\u0259, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0259fsuslar olsun, \u00e7ox yaln\u0131\u015f anlayanlar var. Azya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, h\u0259tta valideyn \u00f6vlad ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131q \u0259vv\u0259lki m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sliyini itirdiyinin \u015fahidi oluruq. M\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tlidir. N\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259r biri problemdirs\u0259, s\u0259b\u0259bi, s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u0259sl m\u0259nas\u0131nda t\u0259rbiyy\u0259nin olmamas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiyy\u0259si m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si, z\u0259ruridir,\u00a0\u0259l\u0259lx\u00fcsus, valideyn ad\u0131n\u0131 da\u015f\u0131yanlar\u0131n. B\u0259li, b\u0259li, t\u0259rbiyy\u0259 bilavasit\u0259, t\u0259rbiyy\u0259 ver\u0259nd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, u\u015faq g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 \u00f6rn\u0259k olacaq insanlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131n\u0131 arzu ed\u0259rdim. Mentalitet h\u0259r bir c\u0259miyy\u0259tin t\u0259m\u0259l d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini ehtiva edir. Bu anlay\u0131\u015f, b\u0259zil\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, sanki as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, anlay\u0131\u015flara d\u00fczg\u00fcn aspektd\u0259n yana\u015fmaq \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. Mahiyy\u0259t d\u0259rk olunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halda, izah \u00f6n\u0259msizl\u0259\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn, multikulturalizm d\u0259rsind\u0259, m\u00fc\u0259llim, \u201cDin n\u0259dir?\u201d sual\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcnvanlam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Cavab\u0131m, o g\u00fcn d\u0259, bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 vicdand\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda vicdan, dey\u0259r, \u201crahat yat!\u201d ya da \u201c m\u0259n s\u0131z\u0131ldad\u0131m, s\u0259n d\u0259 yuxusuz qal!\u201d. Din d\u0259, mentalitet d\u0259, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t d\u0259, vicdandan as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Yaln\u0131z t\u0259hsil almaq, bir v\u0259zif\u0259y\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259lm\u0259k, var-d\u00f6vl\u0259tl\u0259, \u201cya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131\u201d z\u0259nn ed\u0259nl\u0259r var. Sevinm\u0259yi, sevilm\u0259yi, bir ovuc duan\u0131, \u00fcr\u0259k dolusu \u00fcmidi, arzunu unutmaq, daha do\u011frusu, saymamaq d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t, f\u0259lak\u0259t deyilmi ?!<\/p>\n<p>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ya R\u0259b, bu n\u0259 d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t, n\u0259 f\u0259lak\u0259t?<\/p>\n<p>Ya R\u0259b, bu n\u0259 v\u0259h\u015f\u0259t, n\u0259 z\u0259lal\u0259t?<\/p>\n<p>Yoq kims\u0259d\u0259 insaf\u00fc m\u00fcr\u00fcvv\u0259t,<\/p>\n<p>\u0130blis\u0259mi uymu\u015f b\u0259\u015f\u0259riyy\u0259t!?<\/p>\n<p>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130blis n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 C\u00fcml\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 bais&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ya h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 xain olan insan n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 \u0130blis!..<\/p>\n<p><em>H\u00fcseyn Cavid \u201c\u0130blis\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nuray S\u0259xav\u0259t<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u0259zi anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n m\u00fczakir\u0259si z\u0259ruridir. Xat\u0131rlamaq, xat\u0131rlatmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn. D\u0259y\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259zisi h\u0259r g\u00f6zd\u0259 f\u0259rqlidir. B\u0259z\u0259n status, v\u0259zif\u0259, titul bu t\u0259r\u0259zid\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r \u00e7\u0259kir, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t etika, heysiyy\u0259t, y\u00fcng\u00fcl qal\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6nc\u0259likl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259, sonra, \u0259traf\u0131na, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti il\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 formala\u015fa bilmir. \u018fg\u0259r bir c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259, insanlar aras\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259, bo\u015fluq varsa, xo\u015f olmayan situasiyalar yaran\u0131rsa, bunun \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri bilm\u0259m\u0259sidir. F\u0259rdl\u0259rin h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdir, t\u0259bii ki. X\u00fcsusil\u0259, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0259fsuslar olsun, \u00e7ox yaln\u0131\u015f anlayanlar var. Azya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, h\u0259tta valideyn \u00f6vlad ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131q \u0259vv\u0259lki m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sliyini itirdiyinin \u015fahidi oluruq. M\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tlidir. N\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259rin&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":839771,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/b3f445b0177062335511206085510906706.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"B\u0259zi anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n m\u00fczakir\u0259si z\u0259ruridir. Xat\u0131rlamaq, xat\u0131rlatmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn. D\u0259y\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259zisi h\u0259r g\u00f6zd\u0259 f\u0259rqlidir. B\u0259z\u0259n status, v\u0259zif\u0259, titul bu t\u0259r\u0259zid\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r \u00e7\u0259kir, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t etika, heysiyy\u0259t, y\u00fcng\u00fcl qal\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6nc\u0259likl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259, sonra, \u0259traf\u0131na, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti il\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 formala\u015fa bilmir. \u018fg\u0259r bir c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259, insanlar aras\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259, bo\u015fluq varsa, xo\u015f olmayan situasiyalar yaran\u0131rsa, bunun \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/839770"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=839770"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/839770\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":839772,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/839770\/revisions\/839772"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/839771"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=839770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=839770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=839770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}