{"id":842612,"date":"2026-03-02T22:11:00","date_gmt":"2026-03-02T18:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=842612"},"modified":"2026-03-02T22:11:00","modified_gmt":"2026-03-02T18:11:00","slug":"ail%c9%99l%c9%99r-xosb%c9%99xt-bloggerl%c9%99rin-paylasimlarina-baxib-bosanirlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=842612","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259l\u0259r &#8220;xo\u015fb\u0259xt&#8221; bloggerl\u0259rin payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131na bax\u0131b, bo\u015fan\u0131rlar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki t\u0259kc\u0259 m\u0259nfi xarakterli deyil, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 &#8220;m\u00fcsb\u0259t&#8221; g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fl\u00fc payla\u015f\u0131mlar b\u0259zi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 &#8211; valideyn-\u00f6vlad, \u0259r-arvad, t\u0259sir edir. Psixoloqlar\u0131n qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 qoydu\u011fu t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259r, &#8220;xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259 modeli&#8221; ya\u015fayan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin r\u0259ngar\u0259ng payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131, reall\u0131qdan uzaq h\u0259yatlar bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra onlar\u0131 izl\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259ri depressiyaya sal\u0131r, daxili \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015f yarad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"hekimler hekim sayti\" href=\"https:\/\/doktorinfo.az\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">H\u0259kim<\/a>-psixoterapevt Elmir \u018fkb\u0259r Lent.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n birinci s\u0259b\u0259bi &#8220;psixoloq&#8221; ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda neqativ mesajlar \u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rdir:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Az\u0259rbaycanda t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 ail\u0259 modelin\u0259, g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259, yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 u\u015faqlara m\u0259nfi t\u0259siri var. D\u0259l\u0259duzlar, \u0259xlaqs\u0131zlar Rusiyada, Ukraynada, T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259, G\u00fcrc\u00fcstanda bir ka\u011f\u0131z alaraq adlar\u0131n\u0131 &#8220;psixoloq&#8221;, &#8220;psixoterapevt&#8221; qoyub sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 neqativ mesajlar \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n birinci s\u0259b\u0259bi d\u0259 m\u0259hz budur. H\u0259min &#8220;psixoloq&#8221;lar\u0131n dedikl\u0259rini dinl\u0259y\u0259n g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar, o\u011flanlar valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n, bir-birl\u0259rind\u0259n he\u00e7 bir \u0259sas\u0131 olmadan el\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b edirl\u0259r ki, onlar olmad\u0131qda ya bo\u015fan\u0131rlar, ya da evd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 t\u0259k bu &#8220;psixoloq&#8221;larla da yekunla\u015fm\u0131r. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki &#8220;xo\u015fb\u0259xt&#8221; c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259ri, buketl\u0259ri, h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259ri reklam ed\u0259r\u0259k &#8220;d\u00fczg\u00fcn ail\u0259&#8221;l\u0259rin bel\u0259 oldu\u011funu a\u015f\u0131lay\u0131rlar. Bunu g\u00f6r\u0259n z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015f insanlar is\u0259 h\u0259yatdan bezirl\u0259r. El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, onlar xo\u015fb\u0259xt deyill\u0259r, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik yaln\u0131zca h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259dir. Sosial verili\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xan insanlara fikir vers\u0259niz onlar da, &#8220;biz xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq ist\u0259yirik&#8221;, dey\u0259r\u0259k \u00e7ox destruktiv se\u00e7iml\u0259r edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0131rnaqaras\u0131 \u0259r-arvadlar xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259 modell\u0259rini serial formas\u0131nda \u00e7\u0259kib payla\u015f\u0131rlar. \u00c7ox zaman bu payla\u015f\u0131mlarda Az\u0259rbaycan mentaliletin\u0259, namusuna v\u0259 qeyr\u0259tin\u0259 s\u0131\u011fmayan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r yer al\u0131r. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin bu c\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fckl\u00fckd\u0259 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin is\u0259 daxill\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259bii olaraq \u00fcsyan yaran\u0131r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri buna g\u00f6r\u0259 bo\u015fan\u0131r, b\u0259zil\u0259ri k\u0259ndd\u0259n \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259hz xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si il\u0259 g\u0259lir. Amma onlar\u0131n he\u00e7 biri bilmir ki, instaqram\u0131n, feysbukun arxas\u0131nda bir \u00e7ox hallarda tamamil\u0259 saxtakar, qurulma m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r durur. B\u0259z\u0259n bunlar\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r, h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 b\u0259lli olur. Xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259 olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcbut el\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u0259r-arvadlar\u0131n zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 sava\u015flar\u0131, x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259ri, oyunlar\u0131 m\u0259hz sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 if\u015fa olunur. H\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u00fc g\u0259lir ki, ax\u0131 bunlar xo\u015fb\u0259xt idil\u0259r, ax\u0131 bir-birl\u0259rini h\u0259diyy\u0259y\u0259 bo\u011furdular, indi nec\u0259 bel\u0259 oldu? Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259l\u0259rini m\u0259hv ed\u0259n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri bu c\u00fcr saxtakarl\u0131qlar v\u0259 maskal\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rdir&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki t\u0259kc\u0259 m\u0259nfi xarakterli deyil, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 &#8220;m\u00fcsb\u0259t&#8221; g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fl\u00fc payla\u015f\u0131mlar b\u0259zi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 &#8211; valideyn-\u00f6vlad, \u0259r-arvad, t\u0259sir edir. Psixoloqlar\u0131n qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 qoydu\u011fu t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259r, &#8220;xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259 modeli&#8221; ya\u015fayan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin r\u0259ngar\u0259ng payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131, reall\u0131qdan uzaq h\u0259yatlar bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra onlar\u0131 izl\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259ri depressiyaya sal\u0131r, daxili \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015f yarad\u0131r. H\u0259kim-psixoterapevt Elmir \u018fkb\u0259r Lent.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n birinci s\u0259b\u0259bi &#8220;psixoloq&#8221; ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda neqativ mesajlar \u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rdir: &#8220;Az\u0259rbaycanda t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 ail\u0259 modelin\u0259, g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259, yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 u\u015faqlara m\u0259nfi t\u0259siri var. D\u0259l\u0259duzlar, \u0259xlaqs\u0131zlar Rusiyada, Ukraynada, T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259, G\u00fcrc\u00fcstanda bir ka\u011f\u0131z alaraq&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":842613,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790.png",649,443,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790.png",649,443,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790.png",649,443,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790-500x280.png",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790-535x365.png",535,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790.png",640,437,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790.png",649,443,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790.png",649,443,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790-240x172.png",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/183_41772454790.png",649,443,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki t\u0259kc\u0259 m\u0259nfi xarakterli deyil, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 &#8220;m\u00fcsb\u0259t&#8221; g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fl\u00fc payla\u015f\u0131mlar b\u0259zi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 &#8211; valideyn-\u00f6vlad, \u0259r-arvad, t\u0259sir edir. 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