G\u0259nc c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00f6zl\u0259ri quracaqlar\u0131na \u0259min olurlar. Lakin zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 reall\u0131q onlar\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015fir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na f\u0259al \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259si v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirir. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259slin verdiyi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r ilk bax\u0131\u015fda z\u0259r\u0259rsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Lakin bu t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rin arxas\u0131nda b\u0259z\u0259n art\u0131q b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f \u00f6vladlar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259ti yenid\u0259n \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yi dayan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Lent.az xarici mediaya istinad\u0259n\u00a0x\u0259b\u0259r<\/a>\u00a0verir ki, psixoloqlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, valideynl\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00f6z h\u0259yat t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n verirl\u0259r. Ancaq d\u00fcnya s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir v\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259lki ill\u0259rin ail\u0259 modell\u0259ri bug\u00fcnk\u00fc reall\u0131qlara h\u0259r zaman uy\u011fun g\u0259lmir.<\/p>\n G\u0259nc ail\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n qaydalar\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131qda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 g\u0259rginlik art\u0131r. T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r \u00f6z h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n sahibi kimi deyil, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259n insanlar kimi hiss etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n Valideynl\u0259rini incitm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kin\u0259n insanlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t daha a\u011f\u0131r olur. Onlar yox dem\u0259kd\u0259n qorxur v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini risk alt\u0131na qoyurlar.<\/p>\n Ekspertl\u0259r qeyd edir ki, m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt qay\u011f\u0131 kimi t\u0259qdim olunur. Lakin bu qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131n arxas\u0131nda t\u0259sir imkan\u0131n\u0131 itirm\u0259k qorxusu gizl\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. Sosioloqlar is\u0259 bildirirl\u0259r ki, b\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n evliliyini \u00f6z rollar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 kimi q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r. Onlara el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, art\u0131q ikinci plana \u00e7\u0259kilirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 hallarda m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r t\u0259dric\u0259n t\u0259zyiq al\u0259tin\u0259 \u00e7evrilir v\u0259 g\u0259nc c\u00fctl\u00fck iki t\u0259r\u0259f aras\u0131nda qal\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u018fg\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r qa\u00e7\u0131lmaz olur. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r uzun davam ed\u0259rs\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 etimad\u0131 b\u0259rpa etm\u0259k bir o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir.<\/p>\n Psixoterapevtl\u0259r hesab edirl\u0259r ki, ail\u0259 qurduqdan sonra ilk aylardan etibar\u0259n m\u00fcst\u0259qil q\u0259rarlar verm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k vacibdir. Bu, k\u0259nar fikirl\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r.<\/p>\n B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r \u0259slind\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r verdikl\u0259rinin f\u0259rqind\u0259 olmurlar. Onlar k\u00f6m\u0259k etdikl\u0259rini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r, lakin bu, ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 g\u0259rginliyi daha da art\u0131r\u0131r. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 bizim vaxt\u0131m\u0131zda bel\u0259 idi kimi m\u00fcqayis\u0259l\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bu c\u00fcr ifad\u0259l\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259 naraz\u0131l\u0131q yarad\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam\u0131 z\u0259ifl\u0259dir.<\/p>\n M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r g\u0259nc c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 valideyn m\u00fcdaxil\u0259sini a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Bu, anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q v\u0259 gizli inciklikl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alma\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k edir.<\/p>\n Unutmaq olmaz ki, evlilik iki yetkin insan\u0131n ittifaq\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 quracaqlar\u0131na yaln\u0131z onlar q\u0259rar verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r bir komanda kimi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etdikd\u0259, k\u0259nardan g\u0259l\u0259n t\u0259zyiq t\u0259sirini itirir. Bel\u0259 hallarda t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-birini d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259m\u0259yi v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259rini qoruma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n Lakin t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rinin fikrini \u0259sas g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259rs\u0259, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7atlar yaranma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bu zaman ail\u0259d\u0259 sanki \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc bir t\u0259r\u0259f m\u00f6vcud olur.<\/p>\n Psixoloqlar vur\u011fulay\u0131rlar ki, valideynl\u0259r\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259k m\u00fcst\u0259qillikd\u0259n imtina etm\u0259k dem\u0259k deyil. Yetkin yana\u015fma m\u0259hz bu iki anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ay\u0131ra bilm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsi s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259rini d\u00fczg\u00fcn qura bil\u0259n g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r daha m\u00f6hk\u0259m v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inaml\u0131 olur. Bu halda is\u0259 k\u0259nardan g\u0259l\u0259n he\u00e7 bir m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t onlar\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini sars\u0131da bilmir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" G\u0259nc c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00f6zl\u0259ri quracaqlar\u0131na \u0259min olurlar. Lakin zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 reall\u0131q onlar\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015fir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na f\u0259al \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259si v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirir. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259slin verdiyi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r ilk bax\u0131\u015fda z\u0259r\u0259rsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Lakin bu t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rin arxas\u0131nda b\u0259z\u0259n art\u0131q b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f \u00f6vladlar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259ti yenid\u0259n \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yi dayan\u0131r. Lent.az xarici mediaya istinad\u0259n\u00a0x\u0259b\u0259r\u00a0verir ki, psixoloqlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, valideynl\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00f6z h\u0259yat t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n verirl\u0259r. Ancaq d\u00fcnya s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir v\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259lki ill\u0259rin ail\u0259 modell\u0259ri bug\u00fcnk\u00fc reall\u0131qlara h\u0259r zaman uy\u011fun g\u0259lmir. 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Lakin zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 reall\u0131q onlar\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015fir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na f\u0259al \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259si v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirir. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259slin verdiyi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r ilk bax\u0131\u015fda z\u0259r\u0259rsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Lakin bu t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rin arxas\u0131nda b\u0259z\u0259n art\u0131q b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f \u00f6vladlar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259ti yenid\u0259n \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yi dayan\u0131r.…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/843237"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=843237"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/843237\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":843240,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/843237\/revisions\/843240"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/843238"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=843237"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=843237"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=843237"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}