{"id":85466,"date":"2019-10-14T07:57:36","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T04:57:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=85466"},"modified":"2019-10-14T07:57:36","modified_gmt":"2019-10-14T04:57:36","slug":"k%c9%99ndd%c9%99n-g%c9%99l%c9%99n-t%c9%99l%c9%99b%c9%99-s%c9%99h%c9%99r-h%c9%99yatina-nec%c9%99-adaptasiya-olmalidir-g%c9%99ncl%c9%99r%c9%99-m%c9%99sl%c9%99h%c9%99t","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=85466","title":{"rendered":"K\u0259ndd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 \u015f\u0259h\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131na nec\u0259 adaptasiya olmal\u0131d\u0131r? – G\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t"},"content":{"rendered":"

Qo\u015fqar M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mov: “G\u00f6nd\u0259ril\u0259n x\u0259rcliyi bir ay m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 idar\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bacar\u0131qlar, v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r formala\u015fd\u0131racaq”<\/em><\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0kaspi.az<\/a>-a istinad\u0259n yaz\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir.<\/p>\n

T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 qazanan g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bir qismi h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259n uzaqda – ad\u0259t\u0259n, kiray\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015famal\u0131 olurlar. Bu da o dem\u0259kdir ki, h\u0259min t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r \u015f\u0259h\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fmaq, x\u0259rcl\u0259rini idar\u0259 etm\u0259k v\u0259 s. kimi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bir yol ke\u00e7mi\u015f olurlar. B\u0259s universitet\u0259 yeni q\u0259bul olmu\u015f, ba\u015fqa \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7m\u00fc\u015f t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r bu c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n n\u0259l\u0259ri diqq\u0259td\u0259 saxlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar?<\/p>\n

T\u0259hsil m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisi Qo\u015fqar M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mov deyir ki, ilk olaraq t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r ali m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131na psixoloji olaraq haz\u0131rla\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar: “\u00d6z\u00fc il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 “M\u0259n kim\u0259m”, “N\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n xo\u015fum g\u0259lir”, “Xarakterim nec\u0259dir” kimi suallara cavab tapmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tapm\u0131\u015f, xarakterinin \u015f\u0259klini \u00e7\u0259kmi\u015f insanlar d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fckl\u0259ri m\u00fchitd\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini qoruya, \u00f6z \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini ortaya qoya bilirl\u0259r. Bu m\u0259nada probleml\u0259ri olan insanlar d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fckl\u0259ri m\u00fchitd\u0259 \u00e7oxlu d\u0259yi\u015fikliy\u0259 m\u0259ruz qal\u0131rlar. Bu d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 insan\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na z\u0259r\u0259r yetirir”.<\/p>\n

Q.M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mov \u015f\u0259h\u0259r m\u00fchiti v\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fmaqla ba\u011fl\u0131 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li oldu\u011fu bir ne\u00e7\u0259 n\u00fcans\u0131 sadalad\u0131: “Rayon yerl\u0259rind\u0259, k\u0259ndl\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259rin orda m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n geyim formas\u0131 var idis\u0259, \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259, d\u0259yi\u015fiklik etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.\u00a0 Universitet t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259sinin geyim t\u0259rzin\u0259 bax\u0131b, \u00f6zl\u0259rini ona g\u00f6r\u0259 t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. “Palaza b\u00fcr\u00fcn, eln\u0259n s\u00fcr\u00fcn” kimi yana\u015fmaqlar\u0131n\u0131, xo\u015funa g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n \u015feyl\u0259ri d\u0259b\u0259 uymaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn etm\u0259yi demir\u0259m. M\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r geyim, moda c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n \u015f\u0259h\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n ab-havas\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

T\u0259mizlik m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, k\u0259ndd\u0259, q\u0259s\u0259b\u0259d\u0259 qidan\u0131 q\u0259bul ed\u0259nd\u0259n sonra qal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, qab\u0131n\u0131 yer\u0259 atmaq el\u0259 d\u0259 problem hesab edilmir. \u015e\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 is\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. Yaxud g\u0259ncl\u0259r ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 olanda qald\u0131qlar\u0131 m\u0259kan\u0131n t\u0259mizliyin\u0259 valideynl\u0259r diqq\u0259t edirl\u0259r, onlar t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 vaxt\u0131 t\u0259k olduqlar\u0131ndan, art\u0131q bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7ox m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsiz olurlar.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar aras\u0131nda m\u0259saf\u0259nin \u00e7ox oldu\u011fu rayon, k\u0259nd, da\u011f yerl\u0259rind\u0259, ad\u0259t\u0259n, insanlar daha y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259sl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259, ictimai yerl\u0259rd\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n s\u0259s tonuna diqq\u0259t etm\u0259k d\u0259 \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. S\u0259s tonumuz ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131 narahat etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Rayon yerl\u0259rind\u0259n g\u0259lmi\u015f t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r bir az \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 qapal\u0131 ola bilirl\u0259r. Bu problemin h\u0259lli \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 onlar emosional z\u0259kalar\u0131n\u0131 inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. B\u0259z\u0259n emosional z\u0259kaya \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t vermirl\u0259r, amma intellektual z\u0259ka q\u0259d\u0259r, bu da \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. Emosional z\u0259kalar\u0131n\u0131 inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259rsl\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r, m\u00fct\u0259madi olaraq \u015f\u0259xsi inki\u015faflar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259min ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k hans\u0131sa m\u00fctali\u0259l\u0259ri olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n universitet h\u0259yat\u0131na ba\u015flayanda g\u0259ncl\u0259r, ata-anadan ayr\u0131 olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, tam s\u0259rb\u0259st olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar v\u0259 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015fark\u0259n g\u00f6st\u0259rdikl\u0259ri d\u0259rs oxuma performans\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rmirl\u0259r. Deyirl\u0259r ki, universitet\u0259 g\u0259lmi\u015fik ki, g\u0259z\u0259k, daha \u00e7ox asud\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7ir\u0259k. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 onlar\u0131n akademik inki\u015faf\u0131na pis t\u0259sir edir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n, bir qisim t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ox s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259siz ke\u00e7irir. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259lik 4-5 illik zaman interval\u0131d\u0131r, h\u0259yat\u0131n b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259n s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259li vaxt\u0131d\u0131r. Bu vaxt\u0131 s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259li istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259m d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc art\u0131ra, h\u0259m \u00f6z sah\u0259sini \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 qazana bil\u0259rl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis bildirdi ki, ail\u0259d\u0259n ayr\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6z b\u00fcdc\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259lidirl\u0259r: “\u0130qtisadi davran\u0131\u015f deyil\u0259n bir elm var. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r m\u0259hz \u00f6z iqtisadi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na da diqq\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Kiray\u0259 tutduqlar\u0131 evd\u0259 kommunal x\u0259rcl\u0259ri bilm\u0259k, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bir ay \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6nd\u0259ril\u0259n x\u0259rcliyi bu m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 idar\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, onlarda m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bacar\u0131qlar, v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r formala\u015fd\u0131racaq. H\u0259min m\u0259bl\u0259\u011fi 15-ci g\u00fcnd\u0259 qurtar\u0131rlarsa, kimd\u0259ns\u0259 borc ist\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131rlar. Bu is\u0259 onlarda h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 borca girm\u0259k v\u0259rdi\u015fi yaratm\u0131\u015f olur. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 olark\u0259n, h\u0259r hans\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259ni idar\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n, art\u0131q bu amil onlar\u0131n iqtisadi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259k. Bel\u0259 problem ya\u015famamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn q\u0259rarl\u0131, \u0259zmkar olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. X\u0259rcl\u0259rini qeyd etm\u0259kl\u0259, b\u00fcdc\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t d\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Pulu qazanmaqdan \u00e7ox, x\u0259rcl\u0259m\u0259k s\u0259n\u0259tini bilm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Dostlarla nec\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7irm\u0259l\u0259rini, geyim\u0259 d\u0259 pul x\u0259rcl\u0259m\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sini\u00a0 t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bir d\u0259, t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck problemi odur ki, evd\u0259 yem\u0259k haz\u0131rlama\u011fa t\u0259nb\u0259llik edirl\u0259r, \u00e7ox vaxt kafed\u0259 yeyirl\u0259r. Bu, h\u0259m sa\u011flaml\u0131qlar\u0131na ziyand\u0131r, h\u0259m d\u0259 cibl\u0259rin\u0259. M\u0259n T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259hsil ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 8 il subay oldum, h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bir \u00e7ox yem\u0259kl\u0259ri\u00a0 evd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm bi\u015firirdim”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Qo\u015fqar M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mov: “G\u00f6nd\u0259ril\u0259n x\u0259rcliyi bir ay m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 idar\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bacar\u0131qlar, v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r formala\u015fd\u0131racaq” ARANTV.AZ\u00a0\u00a0kaspi.az-a istinad\u0259n yaz\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 qazanan g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bir qismi h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259n uzaqda – ad\u0259t\u0259n, kiray\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015famal\u0131 olurlar. Bu da o dem\u0259kdir ki, h\u0259min t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r \u015f\u0259h\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fmaq, x\u0259rcl\u0259rini idar\u0259 etm\u0259k v\u0259 s. kimi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bir yol ke\u00e7mi\u015f olurlar. B\u0259s universitet\u0259 yeni q\u0259bul olmu\u015f, ba\u015fqa \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7m\u00fc\u015f t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r bu c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n n\u0259l\u0259ri diqq\u0259td\u0259 saxlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar? T\u0259hsil m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisi Qo\u015fqar M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mov deyir ki, ilk olaraq t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r ali m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131na psixoloji olaraq haz\u0131rla\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar: “\u00d6z\u00fc il\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":85467,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253.jpg",800,600,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253.jpg",800,600,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253.jpg",800,600,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253-300x225.jpg",300,225,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253.jpg",640,480,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253.jpg",800,600,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253.jpg",800,600,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/792253.jpg",800,600,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Qo\u015fqar M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mov: “G\u00f6nd\u0259ril\u0259n x\u0259rcliyi bir ay m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 idar\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bacar\u0131qlar, v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r formala\u015fd\u0131racaq” ARANTV.AZ\u00a0\u00a0kaspi.az-a istinad\u0259n yaz\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 qazanan g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bir qismi h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259n uzaqda – ad\u0259t\u0259n, kiray\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015famal\u0131 olurlar. Bu da o dem\u0259kdir ki, h\u0259min t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r \u015f\u0259h\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fmaq, x\u0259rcl\u0259rini idar\u0259 etm\u0259k v\u0259 s. kimi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85466"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=85466"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85466\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/85467"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=85466"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=85466"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=85466"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}