{"id":854753,"date":"2026-06-08T16:47:23","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T12:47:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=854753"},"modified":"2026-06-08T16:47:23","modified_gmt":"2026-06-08T12:47:23","slug":"bosanmalar-%c9%99n-cox-bu-yasda-olur-n%c9%99-etm%c9%99li","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=854753","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanmalar \u0259n \u00e7ox BU YA\u015eDA olur \u2013 N\u018f etm\u0259li?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"text-content\" data-id=\"\" data-url=\"\">\n<p><strong>2025-ci ild\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda 20 v\u0259 daha \u00e7ox il evli olan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r aras\u0131nda 2681 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sind\u0259n bildirilib. Qurumun m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, son \u00fc\u00e7 ild\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox bo\u015fanma 10 ild\u0259n 19 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r davam ed\u0259n nikahlarda qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. 2025-ci ild\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 20.675 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b.<\/strong>\u00a0Bunlardan 7.354-\u00fc 10 ild\u0259n 19 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r, 5.795-i 5 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r, 4.845-i 5 ild\u0259n 9 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r v\u0259 2.681-i 20 ild\u0259n \u00e7ox davam ed\u0259n nikahlarda qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. 2024-c\u00fc ild\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u00fcmumi say\u0131 21.384 olub. Bunlardan 7768-i 10-19 illik evlilikd\u0259n, 5715-i 5 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r, 5347-si 5-9 ild\u0259n v\u0259 2554-\u00fc 20 v\u0259 daha \u00e7ox illik evlilikd\u0259n sonra ba\u015f verib. 2023-c\u00fc ild\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda 21688 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b ki, bunlardan 7735-i 10-19 il, 5814-\u00fc 5 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r, 5805-i 5-9 ild\u0259n v\u0259 2334-\u00fc 20 illik evlilikd\u0259n sonra olub.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 niy\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox 10-19 illik evlilikl\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u015f verir?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Klinik psixoloq, psixoterapevt R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n N\u0259c\u0259fov m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Musavat.com-a deyib ki, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n meyar\u0131 psixoloji uy\u011funsuzluqdur<\/strong>: \u201cLatent bioloji v\u0259 fizioloji faktorlar var ki, a\u015fkarlana bilmir. Az\u0259rbaycanda evlilik \u00e7ox zaman ail\u0259 institutuna xidm\u0259t etmir. Ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131n v\u0259 ya ki\u015fi x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259ri art\u0131b. Sevgi v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t bitdiyi halda yolda\u015flar\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t edib evliliyi davam etdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Evlilikd\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t s\u0259hv deyil, xarakterdir. Uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t davam ed\u0259n evlilikl\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin davaml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaln\u0131z nikah\u0131n m\u00fcdd\u0259ti il\u0259 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fcr. \u0130nsanlar ill\u0259rl\u0259 eyni dam alt\u0131nda ya\u015fasalar da, aralar\u0131nda emosional ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 etimad z\u0259ifl\u0259dikd\u0259 ail\u0259 formal bir birlik hal\u0131na \u00e7evrilir. Bir \u00e7ox hallarda t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r ail\u0259ni qorumaq namin\u0259 probleml\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u0259zlikd\u0259n g\u0259lir, lakin zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 h\u0259ll olunmayan naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar daha d\u0259rin b\u00f6hran yarad\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><img src=\"https:\/\/metbuat.az\/images\/metbuat\/images_p\/1492631.jpg?r=2592\" alt=\"Cemiyyetde qorxu var, psixoloq \u201cdeli doktoru\u201d deyil\u201d - Psixoterapevt R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n  N\u0259c\u0259fov\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 sevgi v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t t\u00fck\u0259ndiyi zaman x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259min formala\u015f\u0131r: &#8220;X\u0259yan\u0259t is\u0259 ad\u0259t\u0259n ani q\u0259rardan \u00e7ox, insan\u0131n xarakteri, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri v\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. Sadiqliyi h\u0259yat prinsipi kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evliliyin h\u00fcquqi v\u0259 ya sosial \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259si m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti qoruma\u011fa kifay\u0259t etmir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 b\u0259zi insanlar h\u0259m ail\u0259ni saxlamaq, h\u0259m d\u0259 paralel m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r ki, bu da etimad\u0131n tamamil\u0259 m\u0259hv olmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.\u00a0Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin sa\u011flam qalmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-birin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmas\u0131, hiss v\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rini a\u00e7\u0131q ifad\u0259 etm\u0259si vacibdir. \u018fks halda, ill\u0259rl\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131lan inciklikl\u0259r, gizli naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar v\u0259 etimads\u0131zl\u0131q m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri i\u00e7\u0259rid\u0259n z\u0259ifl\u0259dir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t davam ed\u0259n evlilikl\u0259r bel\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259sin\u0259 baxmayaraq da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 bo\u015fanma t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya \u00fczr\u0259 ail\u0259 t\u0259dqiqat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 v\u0259 psixoloqlar\u0131n ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131 da g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bo\u015fanma riski evliliyin ilk ill\u0259rind\u0259n sonra azalmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 yenid\u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259l\u0259 bilir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 10-20 illik evlilikl\u0259r bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 &#8220;kritik d\u00f6vr&#8221; hesab olunur. Amerikal\u0131 ail\u0259 terapevti Con Qotman uzunm\u00fcdd\u0259tli ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131nda bildirir ki, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi bir hadis\u0259 deyil, ill\u0259rl\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131lan naraz\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t probleml\u0259ridir. Onun fikrinc\u0259, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r probleml\u0259ri vaxt\u0131nda h\u0259ll etm\u0259dikd\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 emosional uzaqla\u015fma yaran\u0131r v\u0259 bu proses ill\u0259r sonra bo\u015fanma il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. Son ill\u0259rd\u0259 Q\u0259rb \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 &#8220;grey divorce&#8221; (&#8220;boz bo\u015fanma&#8221;) termini geni\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131b. Bu anlay\u0131\u015f 50 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin bo\u015fanmas\u0131n\u0131 ifad\u0259 edir. Amerikal\u0131 sosioloqlar Susan Braun v\u0259 I-Fen Lin qeyd edirl\u0259r ki, son onillikl\u0259rd\u0259 uzunm\u00fcdd\u0259tli evlilikl\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 hallar\u0131 art\u0131b. Bunun s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda insanlar\u0131n daha uzun \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcrm\u0259si, f\u0259rdi xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 daha \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259m verm\u0259si v\u0259 iqtisadi m\u00fcst\u0259qilliyin artmas\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rilir. Ail\u0259 psixoloqlar\u0131 &#8220;empty nest syndrome&#8221; (bo\u015f yuva sindromu) adland\u0131r\u0131lan v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. U\u015faqlar universitet\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259 ya ail\u0259d\u0259n ayr\u0131ld\u0131qda b\u0259zi c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r anlay\u0131rlar ki, onlar\u0131 birl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n \u0259sas faktor m\u0259hz u\u015faqlar olub. Bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r yenid\u0259n qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kanadal\u0131 psixoloq Eli Finkel is\u0259 hesab edir ki, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 insanlar evlilikd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lki n\u0259sill\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 daha \u00e7ox \u015fey g\u00f6zl\u0259yirl\u0259r. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r evlilik daha \u00e7ox iqtisadi v\u0259 sosial institut kimi q\u0259bul edilirdis\u0259, indi insanlar h\u0259m d\u0259 emosional d\u0259st\u0259k, \u015f\u0259xsi inki\u015faf v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcrealla\u015fd\u0131rma g\u00f6zl\u0259yirl\u0259r. Bu g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131qda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259yusluq art\u0131r. Az\u0259rbaycan statistikas\u0131nda da bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u0259n \u00e7ox 10-19 illik nikahlarda qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nmas\u0131 beyn\u0259lxalq tendensiyalara uy\u011fundur.\u00a0<\/strong>M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259, bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259: u\u015faqlar art\u0131q b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r;t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r orta ya\u015f m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sin\u0259 daxil olur; maddi v\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fcn t\u0259sirl\u0259ri y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131r; m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259ki h\u0259ll olunmam\u0131\u015f probleml\u0259r daha qabar\u0131q g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. D\u00fcnya t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259si g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, evliliyin 10-20-ci ill\u0259ri m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n h\u0259ssas d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r hesab edirl\u0259r ki, bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r ilk d\u0259f\u0259 olaraq g\u00fcnd\u0259lik qay\u011f\u0131lardan k\u0259narda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin real v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r. M\u0259hz buna g\u00f6r\u0259 bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi, Az\u0259rbaycanda da bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli hiss\u0259si bu d\u00f6vr\u0259 t\u0259sad\u00fcf edir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Afaq Mirayiq,<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Musavat.com<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"inner-social-box\">\n<div class=\"subs-in-social subs-whatsapp\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2025-ci ild\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda 20 v\u0259 daha \u00e7ox il evli olan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r aras\u0131nda 2681 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sind\u0259n bildirilib. Qurumun m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, son \u00fc\u00e7 ild\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox bo\u015fanma 10 ild\u0259n 19 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r davam ed\u0259n nikahlarda qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. 2025-ci ild\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 20.675 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b.\u00a0Bunlardan 7.354-\u00fc 10 ild\u0259n 19 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r, 5.795-i 5 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r, 4.845-i 5 ild\u0259n 9 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r v\u0259 2.681-i 20 ild\u0259n \u00e7ox davam ed\u0259n nikahlarda qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. 2024-c\u00fc ild\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u00fcmumi say\u0131 21.384 olub. 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