{"id":87808,"date":"2019-10-22T09:07:09","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T06:07:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=87808"},"modified":"2019-10-22T09:07:09","modified_gmt":"2019-10-22T06:07:09","slug":"birinci-qadinimin-h%c9%99zzini-dusunub-yataga-gir%c9%99c%c9%99m-h%c9%99kim-psixoterapevtd%c9%99n-sok-aciqlama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=87808","title":{"rendered":"“Birinci qad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131n h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb yata\u011fa gir\u0259c\u0259m…”- H\u0259kim – psixoterapevtd\u0259n \u015eOK A\u00c7IQLAMA"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u0259kim- psixoterapevt \u018fli Na\u011f\u0131yev\u00a0Sonxeber.az<\/a>-\u0131n suallar\u0131n\u0131 cavabland\u0131r\u0131b.<\/p>\n

Psixologiya il\u0259 Psixoterapiya aras\u0131nda f\u0259rq n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n

– Psixologiya geni\u015f bir elm say\u0131l\u0131r. Biri var riyaziyyat, biri d\u0259 var t\u0259tbiqi riyaziyyat, bunun fonunda dey\u0259 bilirik ki, biri var psixologiya elmi, biri d\u0259 var bu elmin i\u00e7ind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan v\u0259 ayr\u0131ca bir sah\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259n kliniki psixologiya. Y\u0259ni pasiyentl\u0259rl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yib onlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259, f\u0259rdi qaydada v\u0259 ya qrup qaydas\u0131nda imkan ver\u0259n bir elm. Bu olur kliniki psixologiya. Kliniki psixologiya anormal psixoloji hallar\u0131 m\u00fcalic\u0259, korreksiya etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir sah\u0259dir. Psixoterapiya is\u0259 klinik psixoloqlar\u0131n v\u0259 h\u0259kim- psixiatrlar\u0131n, h\u0259kim- nevroloqlar\u0131n, h\u0259kim- psixoterapevtl\u0259rin istifad\u0259 etdiyi m\u00fcalic\u0259 metodudur. Psixoterapiya m\u00fcalic\u0259 metodudur. Bundan h\u0259m klinik psixoloqlar , h\u0259m h\u0259kiml\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259 yeri g\u0259l\u0259rs\u0259 qulaq- burun- bo\u011faz h\u0259kimi d\u0259 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r v\u0259 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

“Birinci qad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131n h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb yata\u011fa gir\u0259c\u0259m…”- H\u0259kim-psixoterapevt \u018fli Na\u011f\u0131yevd\u0259n \u015eOK A\u00e7\u0131qlamalar- B\u0259llidir ki, bu g\u00fcn psixoterapiyadan psixoloqlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti istifad\u0259 edir. Bu n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 do\u011frudur ?
\n– B\u0259li, klinik psixoloqlar psixoterapiyan\u0131 aparma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. M\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir s\u0259rh\u0259d var, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n psixi pozuntular\u0131n n\u00f6vl\u0259ri var. Klinik psixoloqlar m\u0259hz psixi pozuntularla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olurlar.
\n– B\u0259zi psixoloqlar var, iki ayl\u0131q kursdan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 sertifikatla \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 status se\u00e7ir v\u0259 klinik psixoloq kimi f\u0259liyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u00dcmimiyy\u0259tl\u0259, tibbi t\u0259hsili olmayan birinin klinik psixoloq v\u0259 ya psixoterapevt kimi i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259si n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 do\u011frudur? H\u0259tta, el aras\u0131nda indiki psixoloqlar\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 psixoloq laz\u0131md\u0131r…Yax\u015f\u0131 anan- bac\u0131n olsun bu el\u0259 psixoloqdu dey\u0259 insanlar bu savads\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259nqid edirl\u0259r.
\n– \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, m\u0259n neqativ fikirl\u0259ri t\u0259hlil etm\u0259yin \u00e7ox da t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 deyil\u0259m. Amma h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259, klinik psixologiya il\u0259 m\u0259\u015fgul olma\u011fa ixtiyar\u0131 olan insanlar klinik psixoloq t\u0259hsili v\u0259 h\u0259kim-psixoterapiya t\u0259hsili olan insanlard\u0131r. Tibbi t\u0259hsilin olmas\u0131 psixoterapiyan\u0131 aparmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131, amma m\u00fctl\u0259q dem\u0259k olmaz. Niy\u0259? \u00c7\u00fcnki, psixi pozuntular tibb sah\u0259sidir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, psixoloqlar\u0131n say\u0131 ya\u011f\u0131\u015fdan sonra g\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259k kimi artsa da, maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 axsay\u0131r\u0131q. \u0130nsanlar\u0131m\u0131z m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015fla yana\u015fa bilmir.<\/p>\n

“Birinci qad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131n h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb yata\u011fa gir\u0259c\u0259m…”- H\u0259kim-psixoterapevt \u018fli Na\u011f\u0131yevd\u0259n \u015eOK A\u00e7\u0131qlamalar-\u018fslind\u0259 dey\u0259rdim c\u0259miyy\u0259ti, insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rini el\u0259 psixoloqlar \u00e7a\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r.
\n– A\u011f\u0131r psixi pozuntusu olanlar\u0131 psixoloqlar pasiyent kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. H\u0259tta, nevrozlarla klinik psixoloq yox, h\u0259kiml\u0259r m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olsa daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar. Niy\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r, ayd\u0131n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. Burada iqtisadi maraqlar ola bil\u0259r. A\u011f\u0131r psixi pozuntular ki, var m\u0259n onlarla m\u0259\u015fgul olmuram. Qeyd edim ki, m\u0259nim iki t\u0259hsilim var. H\u0259m klinik-psixoloq , h\u0259m h\u0259kim- psixoterapevt\u0259m. Bu m\u0259n\u0259 imkan verir ki, geni\u015f spektrd\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 kofliktd\u0259n, seksologiyadan tutmu\u015f, psixi pozuntular\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r n\u00f6vl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olum. A\u011f\u0131r psixi pozuntular var ki, bunlara el aras\u0131nda d\u0259lilik deyirl\u0259r, y\u0259ni psixozlar, \u015fizofreniya, bipolyar pozuntulardan s\u00f6hb\u0259t gedir. Bu tipli x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq ancaq psixiatr\u0131n sah\u0259sidir. Hans\u0131 ki, d\u0259rmanla m\u00fcalic\u0259 edir. Bel\u0259 pasiyentl\u0259rl\u0259 klinik psixoloqlar v\u0259 h\u0259km- psixoterapevtl\u0259r birba\u015fa m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmur. Onlar onlara k\u00f6m\u0259k\u00e7i kimi k\u00f6m\u0259k edirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u015fizofreniya x\u0259st\u0259sinin tutmas\u0131ndan sonra, y\u0259ni x\u0259st\u0259nin bir az beyni ayd\u0131nla\u015fan zaman klinik psixoloq v\u0259 h\u0259kim- psixoterapevt i\u015f\u0259 qo\u015fulur.
\n– Fikrimc\u0259, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 h\u0259min ixtisas h\u0259kiml\u0259ri il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n psixoloqlar azd\u0131r.
\n– M\u0259ni tan\u0131yan \u00e7ox oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn q\u0259buluma \u00e7ox adam g\u0259lir. Amma, x\u0259st\u0259 yan\u0131ma \u015fizofreniya il\u0259 g\u0259lirs\u0259, h\u0259kim bazas\u0131 v\u0259 Bexterev ad\u0131na Psixologiya v\u0259 Nevrologiya \u0130nstitutunu bitirm\u0259yim m\u0259n\u0259 ixtiyar v\u0259 imkan verir ki, d\u00fczg\u00fcn diaqnoz qoyum. \u018fg\u0259r x\u0259st\u0259 \u015fizofrendirs\u0259, bununla m\u0259n m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmuram, g\u00f6nd\u0259rir\u0259m psixiatr kolleqama. H\u0259min h\u0259kim ona bax\u0131r, t\u0259yinat\u0131n\u0131, d\u0259rmanlar\u0131n\u0131 verir. X\u0259st\u0259 i\u015f\u0131qlanma d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n bir ay sonra is\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259n m\u00fcalic\u0259y\u0259 qo\u015fuluram. \u00c7\u00fcnki, x\u0259st\u0259nin bu zaman c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k z\u0259ruridir.<\/p>\n

“Birinci qad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131n h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb yata\u011fa gir\u0259c\u0259m…”- H\u0259kim-psixoterapevt \u018fli Na\u011f\u0131yevd\u0259n \u015eOK A\u00e7\u0131qlamalar- \u018fsas hans\u0131 psixoterapiya metodundan istifad\u0259 edirsiz ?
\n– B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 yegan\u0259 adamam ki, inteqrativ psixoterapevt\u0259m. 240 saat psixoanalizd\u0259n kurslar ke\u00e7mi\u015f\u0259m. \u018flav\u0259 olaraq, koqnitiv-bihevioral metod \u00fczr\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259hsilim var. Qeyd edim ki, dinamik, h\u00fcmanistik, biherioval metodlar var. Dinamik metodlara psixoanaliz, sxemoterapiya aiddir. Dinamik metod pasiyenti ke\u00e7mi\u015f\u0259 qaytar\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259n t\u0259mizl\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k g\u0259lirs\u0259n. Humanistik metodda x\u0259st\u0259 il\u0259 empati qurursan, onun bir h\u0259md\u0259rdin\u0259 \u00e7evrilirs\u0259n, ona g\u00fczg\u00fc olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan. Biri d\u0259 var bihevioral metodlar. “Bihevior”- davran\u0131\u015f dem\u0259kdir. Y\u0259ni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259 patternl\u0259ri- oturu\u015fmu\u015f fikirl\u0259ri d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k, sonra h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015f\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259kl\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k. \u0130kinci variantda bunu duy\u011fular\u0131 d\u0259rkolunmaz v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n d\u0259rkolunan v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 qald\u0131rmaqla, bununla davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k kimi izah ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Biri d\u0259 var transpersonal psixologiya , hans\u0131 ki, bunu ali m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tmirl\u0259r. Bunu g\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6z\u00fcn dini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259nin i\u00e7ind\u0259n ke\u00e7ib \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259s\u0259n. M\u0259n h\u0259m d\u0259 transpersonal psixologiya m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisi\u0259m. Bu \u00f6z\u0259l metoddur v\u0259 ham\u0131ya t\u0259tbiq olunan metod deyil. Y\u0259ni, insana \u00f6yr\u0259dirik ki, s\u0259n ruhi varl\u0131qsan, \u0259b\u0259di varl\u0131qsan. M\u0259n h\u0259m d\u0259 bhakti yoqa v\u0259 mantra yoqa m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisiy\u0259m, psixi yoqan\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259dir\u0259m. Bu \u00f6z\u00fc transpersonal psixologiyaya aiddir.
\n– Hipnoz nec\u0259 t\u0259tbiq edirsiniz ?
\n– Hipnoz t\u0259tbiq etmir\u0259m. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 hipnozu m\u00fcalic\u0259 metodu kimi q\u0259bul etmir\u0259m.
\n– S\u0259b\u0259b n\u0259dir?
\n– \u00c7\u00fcnki, insan kodla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 onun irad\u0259si \u0259leyhin\u0259 olan bir \u015feydir. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, onun irad\u0259sinin burda rolu var. \u0130rad\u0131 il\u0259 tabe olur t\u0259lqin\u0259, amma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, \u00e7ox ciddi v\u0259 \u0259sasl\u0131 metod deyil.
\n– \u018fn \u00e7ox b\u0259y\u0259ndiyiniz v\u0259 t\u0259tbiq etdiyiniz metod hans\u0131d\u0131r?
\n– \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n do\u011fmas\u0131 psixi yoqad\u0131r. “Psixi yoqa” s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u015f\u0259rti olaraq, i\u015fl\u0259dir\u0259m. Qeyd edim ki, yoqan\u0131n iki aspekti var: fiziki v\u0259 psixi. Yoqan\u0131n m\u0259qs\u0259di kamilliy\u0259, Tanr\u0131ya ged\u0259n yol dem\u0259kdir. Yoqan\u0131n psixi aspekti daha d\u0259rin v\u0259 vacibdir. Bu m\u0259nada yoqlar d\u0259rin psixi f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011fuldurlar.
\n– Psixologiya Az\u0259rbaycanda lap g\u0259nc elm say\u0131lm\u0131r. M\u0259n\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, milli \u0259d\u0259biyyatlar\u0131 \u0259ksikliyi, t\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259 \u0259d\u0259biyyatlar\u0131n\u0131n az olmas\u0131 v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r bu sah\u0259d\u0259 “qar\u0131\u015f\u0131ql\u0131q” yarad\u0131r. Bayaq da qeyd etdiyim kimi, c\u0259miyy\u0259t bu g\u00fcn bu sah\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda f\u0259rqli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259dir.
\n– H\u0259r sah\u0259d\u0259 bel\u0259 adamlar var. Bu bir d\u00f6vrd\u00fcr.
\n– Ke\u00e7id adland\u0131rmaq olarm\u0131 bunu?
\n– B\u0259li, ke\u00e7id d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnki, dialektik materializmin qanunlar\u0131n\u0131 he\u00e7 kimi inkar ed\u0259 bilm\u0259z ax\u0131. B\u0259li m\u0259n ruhi sferaya aid olan adamam, amma m\u0259n materian\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 qanunlar\u0131n\u0131 inkar etmir\u0259m. \u018fvv\u0259l- ax\u0131r k\u0259miyy\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259ri keyfiyy\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259rin\u0259 ke\u00e7ir. Qoy saylar\u0131 \u00e7ox olsun, n\u0259d\u0259n qorxuruq ki? \u0130nsanlar sonda h\u0259r \u015feyi anlama\u011fa ba\u015flayacaq ki, h\u0259qiq\u0259td\u0259 kim kimdir.
\n– \u018fd\u0259biyyatlardan s\u00f6z d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015fk\u0259n, ill\u0259rdir bu sah\u0259d\u0259siniz, kitab yazmaq ist\u0259mirsiniz?
\n– M\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rc\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, niy\u0259 kitab yazm\u0131rsan? Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m. M\u0259nim \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn konseptim var, ona uy\u011fun olaraq yazaca\u011fam. \u018fslind\u0259 m\u0259n t\u0259tbiq etdiyim metod bir c\u0131\u011f\u0131rd\u0131r. Bu Bexterev m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rinin d\u0259 t\u0259sdiq etdiyi bir c\u0131\u011f\u0131rd\u0131r. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 fikirl\u0259ri payla\u015fm\u0131\u015fam onlar da t\u0259sdiq edibl\u0259r, lakin bunlar\u0131 elmi \u0259saslara salmam\u0131\u015fam. Dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki, bu praktik olaraq n\u0259tic\u0259 ver\u0259n metoddur v\u0259 klinik psixologiyan\u0131n v\u0259 psixoterapiyan\u0131n metodlar\u0131na zidd deyil. Y\u0259ni ki, s\u00f6hb\u0259t bir az \u0259vv\u0259l dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m Psixi yoqadan gedir. Hans\u0131 ki, ruhun \u0259b\u0259diyy\u0259tin\u0259 \u0259minlik, rahatl\u0131q yaratmaq v\u0259 \u00f6n\u0259mlisi insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir \u0259sas meyar.
\n– B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, siz d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259n o siqnallar\u0131 alm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z ki, bu metoda \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirsiniz. Y\u0259ni insanlar, dediyiniz ke\u00e7id d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r v\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox buna, ruhi tamamlanmaya ehtiyac\u0131 var.
\n– \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131ma\u011fa h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 var. Bu, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin hal\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 deyil. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc sad\u0259c\u0259 maddi b\u0259d\u0259n g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259ns\u0259, bu yaln\u0131\u015fd\u0131r ax\u0131…
\n– Hans\u0131 aspektd\u0259n baxsaq g\u00f6r\u0259rik ki, insanlar sosial qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 v\u0259 dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n depressiyadad\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

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– Mahiyy\u0259tc\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131da oturan sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq, v\u00fccuddur. \u0130nsanlara virtual ger\u00e7\u0259kliyin virtual oldu\u011funu \u00e7atd\u0131rmasaq, bu h\u0259yata onlar daha \u00e7ox ciddi baxacaq. Bu da onlar\u0131 daha \u00e7ox m\u0259yuslu\u011fa v\u0259 u\u011fursuzlu\u011fa d\u00fc\u00e7ar ed\u0259c\u0259k. Onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u00e7ox t\u0259nqidi olacaq.
\n– Bu n\u0259d\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r sizc\u0259?
\n– \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc yaln\u0131z maddi b\u0259d\u0259n hesab etm\u0259kd\u0259n. Z\u0259lz\u0259l\u0259d\u0259n v\u0259 yaxud da v\u0259lv\u0259l\u0259d\u0259n, tarix boyu psixososial t\u0259sir, emosional narahatl\u0131qlar olub, g\u0259rginlik h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 var. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, deyim bizd\u0259 niy\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi depressiyaya meyllilik var? \u00c7\u00fcnki, bizim Qaraba\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yoxdur. Qaraba\u011f bizim t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fck anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n bir hiss\u0259sidir. Psixologiyam\u0131zda yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131ql\u0131q var kimi. Lakin, b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fckd\u0259, bu narahatl\u0131q \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sad\u0259c\u0259, maddi bir varl\u0131q kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259nin n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. Bu, zahiri t\u0259sirl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. Daxili, f\u0259rdi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r daha vacibdir.
\n– Az\u0259rbaycan xalq\u0131n\u0131n, mill\u0259timizin haz\u0131rda psixoloji durumu nec\u0259dir?
\n– D\u00fcnyadan bix\u0259b\u0259r olmayan insan kimi dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki, bizim toplumun t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr\u00fc maddi d\u00fcnyaya uy\u011funla\u015fm\u0131\u015f t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcrd\u00fcr. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, bizd\u0259 s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 yeni ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri formala\u015f\u0131r. Bax\u0131n, toplum ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 itirm\u0259k ist\u0259mir, amma yeni ail\u0259 format\u0131na ke\u00e7ir. Qad\u0131nlara i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 verilir, u\u015faqlara t\u0259hsil verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verilir, amma ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 buraxm\u0131r\u0131q. Ba\u015fqa toplum olsayd\u0131, ail\u0259 \u00e7oxdan da\u011f\u0131l\u0131b ged\u0259rdi. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ail\u0259nin laz\u0131m olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia ed\u0259rdi. Bizim toplum deyir ki, ail\u0259, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r olmal\u0131d\u0131r, u\u015faqlara xatir birlikl\u0259r, onlar\u0131n xatirin\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa d\u0259y\u0259r.
\n– Bu hal m\u00fcsb\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259 verirmi? Cox a\u00e7\u0131q da olsa qeyd edim ki, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r siz dediyiniz ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin qoruyurlar, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n toy- bayrama bir gedirl\u0259r, kimins\u0259 x\u0259tirin\u0259… Amma \u0259r v\u0259 arvad ba\u015fqa h\u0259yat ya\u015fay\u0131r. Sizc\u0259 bu normald\u0131r?
\n– D\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r yerind\u0259 bel\u0259dir. M\u0259n demi\u015f\u0259m ki, idealda 50 ild\u0259n sonra ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259ri olmayacaq. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, buna t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik, amma bel\u0259 olacaq. Bizim \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n da ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri f\u0259rqli olacaq. Ail\u0259 \u0130nstitutu s\u0131rf m\u00fcqavil\u0259 \u0259sasl\u0131 sosial bir birlik olacaq.
\n– Sizc\u0259 bel\u0259 do\u011frudur?
\n– M\u0259nc\u0259, normald\u0131r. M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s kitab\u0131m\u0131zda da ail\u0259, \u0259sas\u0259n, m\u00fcqavil\u0259 \u0259sasl\u0131 sosial- iqtisadi birlik kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rilir. Amma emosional ba\u011flar da, y\u0259ni sevgi v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t d\u0259 vacibdir.
\n– Sizc\u0259, psixi probleml\u0259ri, buradan meydana \u00e7\u0131xan q\u0259tl v\u0259 intiharlar\u0131 nec\u0259 azaltmaq olard\u0131?
\n– M\u0259n deyir\u0259m ruhi d\u0259y\u0259ri t\u0259bli\u011f etm\u0259liyik. B\u0259li bu t\u0259bli\u011fat \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu fikirl\u0259r c\u0259miyy\u0259tin ideoloji \u0259saslar\u0131na daxil olandan sonra d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, bu hallar\u0131n say\u0131 azalacaq. Des\u0259m ki, d\u00f6vl\u0259t bunu zorla etm\u0259lidir, bu d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmaz. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m bunu x\u00fcsusi haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 bu \u0259qid\u0259ni bil\u0259n insanlar\u0131n vasit\u0259si il\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259k olar. H\u0259min insanlar u\u015faql\u0131qdan haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131, t\u0259bli\u011fat\u00e7\u0131lar olmad\u0131lar.
\nM\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, deyirs\u0259n \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259, deyir m\u0259nim arvad\u0131md\u0131, m\u00fclkiyy\u0259timdi \u00f6z\u00fcm bil\u0259r\u0259m. Halbuki, he\u00e7 s\u0259nin b\u0259d\u0259nin s\u0259nin deyil! Ham\u0131s\u0131 Allah\u0131nd\u0131! Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rin x\u00fcsusi m\u00fclkiyy\u0259ti deyil. Ayr\u0131ca, c\u0259miyy\u0259t doludu yalan\u00e7\u0131 sevgil\u0259rl\u0259. Bil\u0259siniz ki, “Getm\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259n, ged\u0259r\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259n” dey\u0259n insanlar psixi as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259dir. Onlara psixoloji korrekt\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca, ilk bax\u0131\u015fda anlamasa da, amma, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, q\u0131sqanc adama m\u00fcalic\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r.
\n-Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q normal deyil?
\n-Xeyr, m\u0259nfi psixoemosional v\u0259ziyy\u0259tdir v\u0259 h\u0259tta b\u0259d\u0259n x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.
\n-Onda sevgiy\u0259 d\u0259 inanm\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? \u0130nsan\u0131n itirm\u0259k qorxusu olur ax\u0131.<\/p>\n

-Sevgi as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q yox, b\u00fct\u00f6v m\u0259n\u0259viyyatl\u0131 v\u0259 psixi yetkin, sa\u011flam insanlar\u0131n h\u0259zzver\u0259n duy\u011fular\u0131 payla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 prosesidir. Ruh, \u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259, s\u0259rb\u0259stdir v\u0259 sevgid\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir. G\u0259l s\u0259nl\u0259 payla\u015faq, bacarm\u0131rsan, ayr\u0131laq. M\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259 inanm\u0131ramsa niy\u0259 s\u0259ninl\u0259 bir evin i\u00e7ind\u0259 oturmal\u0131yam? Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flaya bilmir\u0259ms\u0259, niy\u0259 sevgid\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131ram?
\n– M\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloji xidm\u0259td\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fmaq ist\u0259rdim. Bilirik ki, m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 il\u0259 nisb\u0259td\u0259 bir v\u0259 ya iki psixoloq azl\u0131q t\u0259\u015fkil edir. M\u0259lum intihar hadis\u0259sini buna misal g\u0259tirm\u0259k olar.
\n– H\u0259r k\u0259s yaln\u0131z \u00f6z evini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr v\u0259 h\u0259min d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259 olan m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 gedib m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 d\u0259rs dey\u0259nd\u0259 “\u0259\u015fi, m\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 d\u0259xli var?” deyib orada ba\u015f ver\u0259n bu hala reaksiya verm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. T\u0259kc\u0259 psixoloqlar g\u00f6r\u0259 bilm\u0259z bu i\u015fi. H\u0259r k\u0259s m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk etm\u0259lidir.
\n– Say s\u00f6hb\u0259ti var, psixoloq ist\u0259s\u0259 bel\u0259, o q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faqla i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 vaxt bax\u0131m\u0131ndan \u00e7atd\u0131ra bilm\u0259z ax\u0131…<\/p>\n

– Laz\u0131md\u0131rsa, polis\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259r verm\u0259li, valideynini \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmal\u0131, hay- k\u00fcy qald\u0131rmal\u0131, bir bayraq sancmal\u0131 idi. M\u0259nim pasiyentl\u0259rimd\u0259n biri m\u0259n\u0259 intiharla ba\u011fl\u0131 yaz\u0131lar yaz\u0131r. M\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259b m\u00fc\u0259llimind\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t oyatma\u011fa m\u0259cburam ki, intihar ets\u0259, s\u0259nin yaxandan tutacaqlar. Ruhi biliyi olsa o, u\u015faqlar\u0131 y\u0131\u011f\u0131b ba\u015fa salar, \u0259g\u0259r laz\u0131m g\u0259ls\u0259, sinfi d\u0259yi\u015fdir\u0259r, c\u0259za metodu tapar. O u\u015faqlar var ki, sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bu hallara m\u0259ruz qoyurlar onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rinin pisxoloji probleml\u0259ri var. Onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri evd\u0259 onlar\u0131 d\u00f6yur, s\u00f6yur ki, onlar da g\u0259lib dig\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131 d\u00f6yub-s\u00f6yur. Onlar\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Hara gets\u0259k, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 ruhi biliksizlikdi. Ba\u015fqa yolu yoxdur. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 ya g\u0259r\u0259k pul il\u0259 \u015firnikl\u0259ndir\u0259s\u0259n, ya g\u0259r\u0259k c\u0259za verib t\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259 salasan, ancaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc yol da ruhi bilik verm\u0259kdir. Onda \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn c\u0259zas\u0131n\u0131 da, m\u00fckafat\u0131n\u0131 da bil\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

– X\u0259st\u0259l\u0259r n\u0259 kimi probleml\u0259rl\u0259 siz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r?
\n– M\u0259nim q\u0259buluma bac\u0131 il\u0259 yatan qarda\u015fdan tutmu\u015f, homoseksual c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r, x\u0259yan\u0259ti udub ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259cbur olan qad\u0131nlara q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259r c\u00fcr insan g\u0259lir. M\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n insanlarda \u0259n \u00e7ox depressiya, t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t pozuntular\u0131 olur. X\u0259st\u0259 var ki, on ildir t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f nevroz il\u0259 m\u00fcallic\u0259 olunur. On il t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f nevrozu olmaz! Nevroz olar alt\u0131 aydan iki il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r. Bu art\u0131q \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t pozuntusu hal\u0131d\u0131r. V\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r ay\u0131rd etm\u0259lidir bunlar\u0131.
\n– C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r \u0259sas\u0259n hans\u0131 probleml\u0259rl\u0259 g\u0259lir?
\n– C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin 70 faizi cins\u0259l probleml\u0259rl\u0259 g\u0259lir. Buradan ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259tim olacaq. \u018fg\u0259r ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z \u0259lliy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259rdir v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r formada \u015f\u0259k\u0259riniz, belinizd\u0259 y\u0131rt\u0131q yoxdursa, cinsi z\u0259ifliyiniz varsa, bu psixolojidir. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131 zorlama\u011fa meylli olan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259n ba\u015fqa, ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 cinsi h\u0259v\u0259sin v\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fcn yaranma\u011f\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b qad\u0131nlar\u0131n onlara sevgisidir. Qad\u0131n\u0131n cinsi h\u0259yata aktiv m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015fi qad\u0131nda sevgini yaratmal\u0131d\u0131 ki, qad\u0131n da ki\u015fid\u0259 cins\u0259llik yarats\u0131n. Bu ideal m\u00fcnasib\u0259tdir. Sevgini oyadandan sonra qad\u0131n ona duy\u011funu v\u0259 h\u0259zzi ver\u0259c\u0259k.
\n– B\u0259s, maraql\u0131d\u0131r n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259r sevgi ver\u0259 bilmir? S\u00f6z d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r h\u0259tta s\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259 qad\u0131nl\u0131q etmirs\u0259n dey\u0259r\u0259k qad\u0131nlar\u0131 ittiham edirl\u0259r. Qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, niy\u0259 \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259ni etmirl\u0259r?<\/p>\n

– M\u0259nim ruhi bilyim olsa, birinci qad\u0131n\u0131m\u0131n h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb yata\u011fa gir\u0259c\u0259m, el\u0259 deyilmi? Ruhi biliyi olan \u015f\u0259xs \u00f6z h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr ax\u0131, qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. O, h\u0259zz verdikc\u0259, h\u0259zz alacaq. Qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131na, qad\u0131n\u0131na h\u0259zz verdikc\u0259 ruh\u0259n yetkin olacaq. Buna “tantra yoqa” deyirl\u0259r. Ruhi biliyi olsa, qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi bir-birin\u0259 h\u0259zz ver\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259, konflikt olmayacaq. \u018fg\u0259r ki\u015fi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yaln\u0131z maddi b\u0259d\u0259n, d\u0131rnaq aras\u0131 “ki\u015fi” say\u0131rsa, ancaq be\u015f d\u0259qiq\u0259lik h\u0259zzini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, evd\u0259 bunu birt\u0259h\u0259r yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q icra edib, sonra gedib bay\u0131rda fahi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6d\u0259ni\u015f etm\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u015fqa arzu v\u0259 x\u0259yallar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaq.
\n– Q\u0259bulunuza g\u0259l\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259 probleml\u0259r d\u00fcz\u0259lir?<\/p>\n

– Ail\u0259 gedib ail\u0259ni g\u0259tirir. Ail\u0259 var, m\u0259nim yan\u0131ma g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra da\u011f\u0131l\u0131b, anlatm\u0131\u015fam ki, sizin bir yerd\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z laz\u0131m deyil, ail\u0259 var ki, da\u011f\u0131lmaq \u0259r\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259lib. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ki\u015fid\u0259 t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f pozuntusu var, qad\u0131n ondan ayr\u0131lmaq h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131b, qad\u0131n onu anlam\u0131r ki, ki\u015fisind\u0259 nevroz, x\u0259st\u0259lik var. X\u0259st\u0259liyi d\u00fcz\u0259ldikc\u0259 ail\u0259 b\u0259rpa olunur\u2026<\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahib\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr edirik!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u0259kim- psixoterapevt \u018fli Na\u011f\u0131yev\u00a0Sonxeber.az-\u0131n suallar\u0131n\u0131 cavabland\u0131r\u0131b. Psixologiya il\u0259 Psixoterapiya aras\u0131nda f\u0259rq n\u0259dir? – Psixologiya geni\u015f bir elm say\u0131l\u0131r. Biri var riyaziyyat, biri d\u0259 var t\u0259tbiqi riyaziyyat, bunun fonunda dey\u0259 bilirik ki, biri var psixologiya elmi, biri d\u0259 var bu elmin i\u00e7ind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan v\u0259 ayr\u0131ca bir sah\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259n kliniki psixologiya. Y\u0259ni pasiyentl\u0259rl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yib onlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259, f\u0259rdi qaydada v\u0259 ya qrup qaydas\u0131nda imkan ver\u0259n bir elm. Bu olur kliniki psixologiya. Kliniki psixologiya anormal psixoloji hallar\u0131 m\u00fcalic\u0259, korreksiya etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir sah\u0259dir. Psixoterapiya is\u0259 klinik psixoloqlar\u0131n v\u0259 h\u0259kim- psixiatrlar\u0131n, h\u0259kim- nevroloqlar\u0131n, h\u0259kim-…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":87809,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157.jpg",549,366,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157.jpg",549,366,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157.jpg",549,366,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157-300x200.jpg",300,200,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157.jpg",549,366,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157.jpg",549,366,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157.jpg",549,366,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/77_11571662157.jpg",549,366,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"H\u0259kim- psixoterapevt \u018fli Na\u011f\u0131yev\u00a0Sonxeber.az-\u0131n suallar\u0131n\u0131 cavabland\u0131r\u0131b. Psixologiya il\u0259 Psixoterapiya aras\u0131nda f\u0259rq n\u0259dir? – Psixologiya geni\u015f bir elm say\u0131l\u0131r. Biri var riyaziyyat, biri d\u0259 var t\u0259tbiqi riyaziyyat, bunun fonunda dey\u0259 bilirik ki, biri var psixologiya elmi, biri d\u0259 var bu elmin i\u00e7ind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan v\u0259 ayr\u0131ca bir sah\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259n kliniki psixologiya. Y\u0259ni pasiyentl\u0259rl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yib onlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259,…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87808"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=87808"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87808\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/87809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=87808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=87808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=87808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}