{"id":87938,"date":"2019-10-22T11:37:03","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T08:37:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=87938"},"modified":"2019-10-22T11:37:03","modified_gmt":"2019-10-22T08:37:03","slug":"usaqlar-niy%c9%99-aqressiv-olur-psixoloq-vacib-m%c9%99qamlari-aciqladi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=87938","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faqlar niy\u0259 aqressiv olur? \u2013 Psixoloq vacib m\u0259qamlar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131qlad\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>Aqressiv davran\u0131\u015flar ist\u0259nil\u0259n ya\u015f qrupuna m\u0259nsub u\u015faqlarda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131qlanma, q\u0259z\u0259b kimi m\u0259nfi emosiyalar\u0131n ifad\u0259sin\u0259 xidm\u0259t edir. Bel\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259n u\u015faq onu laz\u0131ml\u0131 hesab edir.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ad\u0259t\u0259n 7-8 ya\u015fad\u0259k olan u\u015faqlarda aqressiya hallar\u0131 daha \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><b>Medicina.az\u00a0<\/b>sayt\u0131na a\u00e7\u0131qlama verib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, u\u015faqlarda xarakterin t\u0259m\u0259li v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin formala\u015fmas\u0131 prosesi 7-8 ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r formala\u015f\u0131b bitir:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1571733081_aqressiv-usaqlara-nece-davranmaq.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&#8220;Ondan sonrak\u0131 d\u00f6vr is\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin korreksiyas\u0131 adlan\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tinin formala\u015fmas\u0131nda \u0259traf\u0131n u\u015fa\u011fa m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti v\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rin\u0259 olan m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mli faktordur. \u00c7\u00fcnki, h\u0259r bir u\u015faq g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u018ftraf\u0131n ona m\u00fcnasib\u0259til\u0259 onun xarakterini\u00a0 bir k\u0259rpic kimi formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Bu sonra g\u00fczg\u00fc kimi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri\u00a0 v\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015faqda h\u0259r hans\u0131 aqressiya varsa, dem\u0259li, burada hans\u0131sa \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qdan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tinin formala\u015fmas\u0131nda h\u0259r hans\u0131 n\u00f6qsanlara yol verilib. Ad\u0259t\u0259n u\u015faqlarda aqressiya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inams\u0131zl\u0131qdan v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259sdiq ed\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n yaran\u0131r. Y\u0259ni valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131r v\u0259 bu da onda\u00a0 aqressiya yarad\u0131r\u201d.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Psixoloqun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, u\u015faqlarda aqressiyan\u0131 yaradan \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri fiziki v\u0259 psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalmalar\u0131d\u0131r:<\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&#8220;Bildiyimiz kimi, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 fiziki \u015fidd\u0259t var. H\u0259m d\u0259, h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259t var.\u00a0 Bu \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda t\u0259bii ki, u\u015faq aqressiya il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131q ver\u0259c\u0259k. Bel\u0259 des\u0259k valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011fa n\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrs\u0259, oda onu geri qaytar\u0131r. Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 q\u0259ddarl\u0131q, zorak\u0131l\u0131q, h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik, ail\u0259d\u0259 tez-tez konfliktl\u0259rin olmas\u0131, valideynl\u0259rin bir-birin\u0259 laqeydliyi aqresiyan\u0131n formala\u015fmas\u0131na t\u0259kan verir. Dem\u0259k olar ki, u\u015faq ail\u0259d\u0259ki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 t\u0259krarlay\u0131r, m\u00fcbahis\u0259 etm\u0259k, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri provokasiya etm\u0259k, q\u0259z\u0259bini a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkar g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k, diqq\u0259t c\u0259lb etm\u0259k m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 ita\u0259tsizlik v\u0259 s. Valideynl\u0259rinin bir-biri il\u0259 bel\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, art\u0131q u\u015faqda bel\u0259 fikir formala\u015f\u0131r ki, n\u0259 is\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259yin yolu budur.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1571733028_1538809508_1510901090_23718392_375276119596881_12461276_n.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 sevgiy\u0259 ac saxlay\u0131r, onlarla oynam\u0131r, vaxt ke\u00e7irmir. Bunu bir \u00e7ox b\u0259han\u0259 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirirl\u0259r. \u0130\u015fd\u0259n sonrak\u0131 yor\u011funluq, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7irm\u0259k v\u0259 s. kimi b\u0259han\u0259l\u0259r. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n do\u011fan aqressiyalar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 da u\u015faqlar\u0131na g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlarda adekvat ataka il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131q verirl\u0259r.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Valideynl\u0259rin daha bir s\u0259hvi u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259m\u0259k problemidir. \u00c7ox vaxt u\u015fa\u011fa hirsl\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k &#8220;s\u0259sini k\u0259s\u201d v\u0259 ya &#8220;u\u015faqd\u0131 bilmir\u201d kimi reaksiyalar veririk. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 dinl\u0259s\u0259k, onda daxil\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f aqressiya ba\u015f verm\u0259z. Daxili aqressiya y\u0131\u011f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman u\u015faq\u00a0 bunu m\u00fcxt\u0259lif reaksiyalarla b\u00fcruza verir. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 divara vurur, davaml\u0131 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r, s\u00f6z e\u015fitmir v\u0259 s. Valideynl\u0259r deyirik ki, u\u015faq s\u00f6z e\u015fitmir. B\u0259s bu u\u015faq s\u00f6z e\u015fitm\u0259m\u0259yi nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nir? Bunlar ham\u0131s\u0131 valideynin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rdir.\u00a0 Valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 e\u015fitm\u0259dikc\u0259, h\u0259min reaksiya u\u015faqda da yaran\u0131r\u201d.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<img src=\"https:\/\/www.medicina.az\/file\/pic\/xeber\/2019-10\/1571733049_1406464168.jpg\" \/><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b>Psixoloq bildirib ki, u\u015faqlarda aqressiv davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259yin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif diaqnostik yollar\u0131 var:<\/b><\/div>\n<div><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n<div>&#8220;Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r bir psixoloqun \u00f6z metodlar\u0131 var. Bu metodlar m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n praktikalar \u0259sas\u0131nda qurulur. U\u015faqlar q\u0259bul zaman\u0131 analiz edilir. Diaqnostikan\u0131n \u0259sas\u0131nda s\u00f6hb\u0259t is\u0259 dayan\u0131r. H\u0259kim \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 qulaq as\u0131r, v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti\u00a0 ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r, u\u015faq ba\u011f\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131n, m\u0259kt\u0259bin x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nir. Daha sonra ona hans\u0131 metodla diaqnoz qoyulaca\u011f\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fir\u201d.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aqressiv davran\u0131\u015flar ist\u0259nil\u0259n ya\u015f qrupuna m\u0259nsub u\u015faqlarda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131qlanma, q\u0259z\u0259b kimi m\u0259nfi emosiyalar\u0131n ifad\u0259sin\u0259 xidm\u0259t edir. Bel\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259n u\u015faq onu laz\u0131ml\u0131 hesab edir. Ad\u0259t\u0259n 7-8 ya\u015fad\u0259k olan u\u015faqlarda aqressiya hallar\u0131 daha \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131\u00a0Medicina.az\u00a0sayt\u0131na a\u00e7\u0131qlama verib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, u\u015faqlarda xarakterin t\u0259m\u0259li v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin formala\u015fmas\u0131 prosesi 7-8 ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r formala\u015f\u0131b bitir: &#8220;Ondan sonrak\u0131 d\u00f6vr is\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin korreksiyas\u0131 adlan\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tinin formala\u015fmas\u0131nda \u0259traf\u0131n u\u015fa\u011fa m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti v\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rin\u0259 olan m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mli faktordur. \u00c7\u00fcnki, h\u0259r bir u\u015faq&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":87939,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo.jpg",800,500,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo.jpg",800,500,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo.jpg",800,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo-300x188.jpg",300,188,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo.jpg",640,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo.jpg",800,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo.jpg",800,500,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/1571732957_nene-agresivo.jpg",800,500,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Aqressiv davran\u0131\u015flar ist\u0259nil\u0259n ya\u015f qrupuna m\u0259nsub u\u015faqlarda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131qlanma, q\u0259z\u0259b kimi m\u0259nfi emosiyalar\u0131n ifad\u0259sin\u0259 xidm\u0259t edir. Bel\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259n u\u015faq onu laz\u0131ml\u0131 hesab edir. Ad\u0259t\u0259n 7-8 ya\u015fad\u0259k olan u\u015faqlarda aqressiya hallar\u0131 daha \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131\u00a0Medicina.az\u00a0sayt\u0131na a\u00e7\u0131qlama verib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, u\u015faqlarda&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87938"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=87938"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87938\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/87939"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=87938"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=87938"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=87938"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}