V\u0259 o k\u0259sl\u0259r ki: \u201cEy R\u0259bbimiz, biz\u0259 z\u00f6vc\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259n v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131zdan g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 olacaq \u00f6vladlar ehsan buyur v\u0259 bizi m\u00fctt\u0259qil\u0259r\u0259 imam (r\u0259hb\u0259r) et! – dey\u0259rl\u0259r…\u201d (\u0259l-Furqan, 25\/74)<\/p>\n
M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitab\u0131m\u0131z Quran pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rl\u0259rimizin (Allah\u0131n salam\u0131 onlar\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 olsun) \u201cm\u00fcs\u0259lman\u201d (\u0259l-B\u0259q\u0259r\u0259, 2\/128), \u201cpak\u201d (Ali-\u0130mran, 3\/38), \u201cdavaml\u0131 namaz q\u0131lan\u201d (\u0130brahim, 14\/40) v\u0259 \u201csaleh bir n\u0259sil\u201d (\u0259l-\u018fhqaf, 46\/15) il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li arzular\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 dualar\u0131n\u0131 biz\u0259 n\u00fcmun\u0259, \u00f6rn\u0259k, istiqam\u0259t olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259ql edir.<\/p>\n
\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, biz, R\u0259hman\u0131n b\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 \u201cg\u00f6zayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olan h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n v\u0259 n\u0259sill\u0259rimizin\u201d olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ox arzulayar\u0131q. Bunun n\u0259tic\u0259si olaraq da h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz kimi R\u0259hman\u0131n yolunda olmas\u0131na \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t ver\u0259rik. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u201cEy iman g\u0259tir\u0259nl\u0259r! \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc v\u0259 \u0259hli-\u0259yal\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da bir oddan qoruyun ki, onun yanaca\u011f\u0131 insanlar v\u0259 da\u015flard\u0131r…\u201d (\u0259t-T\u0259hrim, 66\/6) \u0259mri il\u0259 onlardan, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259, m\u0259sul olan insanlar bizik.<\/p>\n
\u015e\u00fcbh\u0259 yoxdur ki, yaln\u0131z \u201c\u015fifahi dua\u201d etm\u0259k yolu il\u0259, y\u0259ni dilimizl\u0259 ist\u0259m\u0259kl\u0259 bunlara nail olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 sevgi v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t\u0259 istinad ed\u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xt bir ail\u0259 yuvas\u0131n\u0131n qurulmas\u0131 v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259si m\u00f6vzusunda \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n ba\u015flayaraq laz\u0131mi dini \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u0259rl\u0259, y\u0259ni \u201c\u0259m\u0259li duaya\u201d da h\u0259ssasl\u0131qla riay\u0259t etm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n
O\u011flan v\u0259 yaxud q\u0131z olmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, bir m\u00fcs\u0259lman ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259diyi zaman ata-analar\u0131n\u0131n da r\u0259hb\u0259rliyind\u0259, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259, \u0130slam t\u0259rbiy\u0259si alm\u0131\u015f, namuslu bir insanla ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7\u0259rk\u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259lliyind\u0259n, \u0259sil-n\u0259cab\u0259tind\u0259n v\u0259 z\u0259nginliyind\u0259n daha \u00e7ox dindarl\u0131\u011f\u0131na v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259xlaq sahibi olmas\u0131na fikir verm\u0259lidir. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s.\u0259.s.) bu meyarlara, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 qad\u0131nlarda diqq\u0259t yetirilm\u0259sini m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f olsa da, bu meyarlar\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 diqq\u0259t\u0259 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 bir mane\u0259 yoxdur. H\u0259disd\u0259 x\u00fcsusil\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n qeyd olunmas\u0131n\u0131n onlar\u0131n \u201cyuva v\u0259 \u00f6vladlar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259ki \u0259sas t\u0259sirini vur\u011fulamaq\u201d m\u0259qs\u0259di il\u0259 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u0259k, s\u0259hv etm\u0259rik.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015finin bir-birini g\u00f6r\u00fcb b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259si (\u018fbu Davud, \u201cNikah\u201d, 18; Tirmizi, \u201cNikah\u201d, 5) v\u0259 \u00f6z arzu v\u0259 azad irad\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa q\u0259rar verm\u0259si d\u0259 dinimizin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli m\u00f6vzulardan biridir.<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259likl\u0259, c\u00fczi irad\u0259mizi \u0130slam meyarlar\u0131na uy\u011fun bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istifad\u0259 etdikd\u0259n sonra h\u0259m xo\u015fb\u0259xt bir yuva qura bilm\u0259k, h\u0259m d\u0259 qurulan yuvan\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikl\u0259 davam etdir\u0259 bilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dua edib, Allahdan k\u00f6m\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259yimiz d\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q vacibdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda sevgi v\u0259 m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259ti var ed\u0259n Odur (\u0259r-Rum, 30\/21).<\/p>\n
Dinimiz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b oldu\u011fumuz h\u0259r bir u\u015faq ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni bir xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik v\u0259 sevinc m\u0259nb\u0259yi oldu\u011fu q\u0259d\u0259r, biz\u0259 yeni m\u0259suliyy\u0259t d\u0259 y\u00fckl\u0259yir. \u0130slam bu bar\u0259d\u0259 birinci d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 ataya m\u0259suliyy\u0259t y\u00fckl\u0259yir (\u0259t-T\u0259hrim, 66\/6). Ana da bu m\u0259suliyy\u0259t\u0259 \u015f\u0259rikdir.<\/p>\n
\u00d6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qidalanma, m\u0259sk\u0259nl\u0259 t\u0259min olunma, geyim v\u0259 sa\u011flaml\u0131q kimi maddi v\u0259 bioloji ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 halal yollarla v\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00e7atan q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259min etm\u0259k valideyn olaraq bizim \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcm v\u0259zif\u0259mizdir, \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za sevgi v\u0259 \u015f\u0259fq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yimiz, t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 t\u0259hsili verm\u0259yimiz d\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u201cG\u00f6zl\u0259rimizi nurland\u0131ran bir n\u0259sil\u201d olmalar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcmd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Bunlar\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259n zaman \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yaln\u0131z maddi ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259min etm\u0259kl\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259yib, m\u0259n\u0259vi ehtiyaclar\u0131 olan dini t\u0259lim v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0259tiyy\u0259n laqeyd yana\u015fmamal\u0131y\u0131q. Ki\u00e7ik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n ba\u015fladaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z iman, ibad\u0259t, \u0259xlaq v\u0259 sosial t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, haram-halal, g\u00fcnah-savab \u015f\u00fcurunu da inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n
\u00d6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sevgiy\u0259, bizd\u0259n g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259yi yax\u015f\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 izahedici do\u011fru bilikl\u0259r\u0259 ehtiyaclar\u0131 var. X\u00fcsusil\u0259, dini t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259hsill\u0259rind\u0259 12-15 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u0259vv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrd\u0259 onlar\u0131n ruh\/b\u0259d\u0259n inki\u015faflar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 dini m\u00fck\u0259ll\u0259flik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 olmad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 da n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaraq, q\u00fcsur v\u0259 x\u0259talar\u0131n\u0131 qorxuducu, \u00fcrk\u00fcd\u00fcc\u00fc, \u0259mredici v\u0259 dinimizd\u0259n soyudan \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 deyil, t\u0259\u015fviqedici yolla ortadan qald\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n
U\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n dini etiqad v\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259si, ehtiyac\u0131 olan b\u00fct\u00fcn \u0259xlaqi f\u0259zil\u0259tl\u0259ri, ictimai davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259si, ruh v\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259n c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n sa\u011flam, \u00fcst\u0259lik, s\u0259n\u0259t v\u0259 h\u00fcn\u0259r sahibi insan olmalar\u0131 v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rimizi \u201cvaxt\u0131nda v\u0259 do\u011fru \u015f\u0259kild\u0259\u201d yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259yimizl\u0259 \u00e7ox ciddi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259lidir. Unutmamal\u0131y\u0131q ki, bu t\u0259rbiy\u0259 erk\u0259n ya\u015fda veril\u0259nd\u0259 daha effektiv v\u0259 s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259li olur.<\/p>\n
Bu v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rimizi yerind\u0259 v\u0259 vaxt\u0131nda yerin\u0259 yetirdiyimiz zaman can\u0131m\u0131z-ciy\u0259rimiz olan \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259t qazana bil\u0259r v\u0259 bizd\u0259n sonra biz\u0259 g\u00f6z nuru, v\u0259t\u0259nimiz\u0259 v\u0259 mill\u0259timiz\u0259 d\u0259 faydal\u0131 bir n\u0259sil qoyub ged\u0259 bil\u0259rik.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V\u0259 o k\u0259sl\u0259r ki: \u201cEy R\u0259bbimiz, biz\u0259 z\u00f6vc\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259n v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131zdan g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 olacaq \u00f6vladlar ehsan buyur v\u0259 bizi m\u00fctt\u0259qil\u0259r\u0259 imam (r\u0259hb\u0259r) et! – dey\u0259rl\u0259r…\u201d (\u0259l-Furqan, 25\/74) M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitab\u0131m\u0131z Quran pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rl\u0259rimizin (Allah\u0131n salam\u0131 onlar\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 olsun) \u201cm\u00fcs\u0259lman\u201d (\u0259l-B\u0259q\u0259r\u0259, 2\/128), \u201cpak\u201d (Ali-\u0130mran, 3\/38), \u201cdavaml\u0131 namaz q\u0131lan\u201d (\u0130brahim, 14\/40) v\u0259 \u201csaleh bir n\u0259sil\u201d (\u0259l-\u018fhqaf, 46\/15) il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li arzular\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 dualar\u0131n\u0131 biz\u0259 n\u00fcmun\u0259, \u00f6rn\u0259k, istiqam\u0259t olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259ql edir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, biz, R\u0259hman\u0131n b\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 \u201cg\u00f6zayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olan h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n v\u0259 n\u0259sill\u0259rimizin\u201d olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ox arzulayar\u0131q. Bunun n\u0259tic\u0259si olaraq da h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":90792,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq.jpg",440,308,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq.jpg",440,308,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq.jpg",440,308,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq.jpg",440,308,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq.jpg",440,308,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq.jpg",440,308,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/aileusaq.jpg",440,308,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"V\u0259 o k\u0259sl\u0259r ki: \u201cEy R\u0259bbimiz, biz\u0259 z\u00f6vc\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259n v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131zdan g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 olacaq \u00f6vladlar ehsan buyur v\u0259 bizi m\u00fctt\u0259qil\u0259r\u0259 imam (r\u0259hb\u0259r) et! – dey\u0259rl\u0259r…\u201d (\u0259l-Furqan, 25\/74) M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Kitab\u0131m\u0131z Quran pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rl\u0259rimizin (Allah\u0131n salam\u0131 onlar\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 olsun) \u201cm\u00fcs\u0259lman\u201d (\u0259l-B\u0259q\u0259r\u0259, 2\/128), \u201cpak\u201d (Ali-\u0130mran, 3\/38), \u201cdavaml\u0131 namaz q\u0131lan\u201d (\u0130brahim, 14\/40) v\u0259 \u201csaleh bir n\u0259sil\u201d (\u0259l-\u018fhqaf, 46\/15) il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li arzular\u0131n\u0131…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90791"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=90791"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90791\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/90792"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=90791"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=90791"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=90791"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}