“Cehizlik diplom” anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na Az\u0259rbaycanda b\u0259z\u0259n istehza il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, ancaq ali t\u0259hsil alsa da, \u00f6mr\u00fcnd\u0259 bir g\u00fcn d\u0259 olsa i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlar az deyil.<\/p>\n
BBC News Az\u0259rbaycanca ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b diplomunu da “cehizinin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 qoyub” \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc-g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc ail\u0259sin\u0259 h\u0259sr el\u0259mi\u015f xan\u0131mlarla h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t olub.<\/p>\n
Kral u\u015fa\u011f\u0131: analar\u0131n rolu nec\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir?
\nSiqareti atmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc?
\n“G\u00fcn\u00fcm internetl\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b onunla da bitir”
\n\u0130lk m\u00fcsahibimizin 42 ya\u015f\u0131 var, ali m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 bank i\u015fini oxusa da evdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7ib, indi ancaq ail\u0259sinin qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r:<\/p>\n
“G\u00f6zl\u0259, u\u015faq d\u0259rs\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sir, yem\u0259yini verim, yola sal\u0131m, sonra rahat dan\u0131\u015far\u0131q, – Sevil xan\u0131m (ad \u015f\u0259rtidir) deyir.<\/p>\n
H\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259 o\u011flundan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, deyir, 11-ci sinifd\u0259dir, Tibb Universitetin\u0259 daxil olmaq ist\u0259yir. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259…<\/p>\n
“He\u00e7 vaxt ali t\u0259hsil almaq ist\u0259m\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259la\u00e7\u0131 deyildim, birt\u0259h\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc yola verirdim. Ciddi h\u0259yat planlar\u0131m da yox idi.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259m sad\u0259dir: atam m\u00fch\u0259ndis, anam – tibb i\u015f\u00e7isi. M\u0259kt\u0259bi bitir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u00f6z\u0259l universitetl\u0259rin birind\u0259 bank i\u015fi fak\u00fclt\u0259sin\u0259 daxil oldum, qiyabi b\u00f6lm\u0259d\u0259 oxuyurdum. Bitir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra atam m\u0259ni banka i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259k ist\u0259di, bir-iki d\u0259f\u0259 getdim, amma m\u00fchasibatl\u0131q he\u00e7 beynim\u0259 girmirdi.<\/p>\n
Az m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259n sonra ail\u0259 qurdum, yolda\u015f\u0131mla da m\u0259ni tan\u0131\u015f etdil\u0259r. Evd\u0259 x\u00f6r\u0259k bi\u015firm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nmi\u015fdim, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri m\u0259ni qorxutmurdu.
\nYolda\u015f\u0131mla sevm\u0259mi\u015f ail\u0259 qurmu\u015fam, amma ill\u0259r \u00f6td\u00fckc\u0259 bir-birimiz\u0259 al\u0131\u015fd\u0131q, \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fdik, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rimiz \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259yat\u0131mdan raz\u0131yam. \u018fslind\u0259 asan bir i\u015f olsa, s\u0259h\u0259r tezd\u0259n ba\u015flamasa, gedib-g\u0259l\u0259rdim. Amma ehtiyac duymuram. \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr allaha, yolda\u015f\u0131m bizi t\u0259min edir, deyir: “Bu vaxta kimi i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259mis\u0259n, neynirs\u0259n indi gedib i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259yi?”.
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm internetl\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r, onunla da bitir. S\u0259h\u0259r oyanan kimi mobil telefonumu al\u0131ram \u0259lim\u0259, Facebooka, \u0130nstaqrama bax\u0131ram. G\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 d\u0259 ev i\u015fl\u0259rini bitir\u0259nd\u0259 arabir internet\u0259 girib ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 qat\u0131ram”.
\n\u0130n\u015fallah, el\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131m bel\u0259 d\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259k, o\u011flum da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, bu g\u00fcn -sabah ail\u0259 quracaq – bu da xeyli vaxt t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259tl\u0259rdir”, Sevil xan\u0131m s\u00f6hb\u0259timizi yekunla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u0130kinci m\u00fcsahibimizin 52 ya\u015f\u0131 var, ali m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitiri\u0259n kimi “ev xan\u0131m\u0131” olub.
\nAmma R\u0259hil\u0259 xan\u0131m bunun s\u0259b\u0259bini \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr: “Ciddi sovet ail\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. Valideynl\u0259rim ixtisasca m\u00fch\u0259ndis idil\u0259r, v\u0259zif\u0259 tuturdular. R\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rim sanball\u0131, t\u0259rbiy\u0259li ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n olmal\u0131 idil\u0259r.
\nAli m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitirdim. Yolda\u015f\u0131mla bizi qohumlar tan\u0131\u015f el\u0259mi\u015fdi. Tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131qdan bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra sevgisiz-filans\u0131z evl\u0259ndik. El\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00fcnsiyy\u0259timiz d\u0259 olmad\u0131 do\u011frusu… “Yax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z” he\u00e7 o\u011flanla nigahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259rmi? Bizim zamanda t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr bel\u0259 idi. Tezlikl\u0259 u\u015faqlar d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259ldi, ail\u0259 y\u00fck\u00fcm artd\u0131, i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k bar\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcrd\u00fcm d\u0259.<\/p>\n
Sonralar h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259ndi, ona baxd\u0131m, sonra u\u015faqlar m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 getdi. \u0130ll\u0259r \u00f6td\u00fckc\u0259 valideynl\u0259rim qocald\u0131, onlara da baxmal\u0131 idim. Yolda\u015f\u0131m sa\u011fald\u0131, u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fc, valideynl\u0259rim r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 getdi… M\u0259n is\u0259 qald\u0131m. H\u0259yat\u0131m boyu \u00f6z\u00fcm haqq\u0131nda he\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259dim, cavanl\u0131q da ke\u00e7di. \u0130ndi bu ya\u015f\u0131mda kim m\u0259n\u0259 i\u015f ver\u0259r?
\nBilirsiz, evdarl\u0131q pis deyil, ancaq g\u0259r\u0259k yan\u0131nda sevdiyin insan ola. M\u0259n \u00e7ox qapal\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcm, s\u0259rt qaydalar vard\u0131. Kimis\u0259 sevm\u0259k… Buna kim icaz\u0259 ver\u0259rdi? \u0130ki bir-birin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t ed\u0259n, d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri, s\u0259viyy\u0259l\u0259ri yax\u0131n olan \u015f\u0259xs d\u00f6vr ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 h\u0259tta bir-birini sevm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, aralar\u0131nda mehribanl\u0131q, h\u00f6rm\u0259t yarana bil\u0259r.
\nAmma m\u0259nd\u0259 bu ba\u015f verm\u0259di… U\u015faqlar\u0131m t\u0259hsillidir, i\u015fl\u0259yirl\u0259r, xaricd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. M\u0259n is\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, yad bir insanla bir dam\u0131n alt\u0131ndayam. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tim olsayd\u0131, \u00f6z maraqlar\u0131m\u0131, m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259timi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259rdim… Cavanlara da daima m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verir\u0259m ki, ayaq \u00fcst\u0259 b\u0259rk dayan\u0131n.
\nG\u00fcnl\u0259rim adi, bir-birind\u0259n he\u00e7 bir f\u0259rqi olmadan ke\u00e7ir: ev i\u015fl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fc\u0259m, yem\u0259k bi\u015firir\u0259m. Televizorda d\u00fcnya x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rini izl\u0259yir\u0259m, xaricd\u0259ki q\u0131z\u0131mla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131ram. Tibb x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rini oxuma\u011f\u0131 sevir\u0259m, bir az da \u0259l i\u015fl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful oluram”.<\/p>\n
Mila F\u0259t\u0259liyeva il\u0259 ticar\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259rinin birind\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fck. G\u0259nc g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fl\u00fc qad\u0131na 47 ya\u015f\u0131 verm\u0259k olmaz, amma m\u00fchasibimiz \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn 50-ci ilinin astanas\u0131ndad\u0131r.
\n“\u0130xtisasca riyaziyyat m\u00fc\u0259llimiy\u0259m. Amma bu sah\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc do\u011frulda bilm\u0259dim, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, ail\u0259 qurdum – h\u0259r \u015fey baya\u011f\u0131d\u0131r”, – Mila g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k deyir.
\n“Ail\u0259m natamam olsa da (m\u0259ni v\u0259 bac\u0131m\u0131 anam b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcb) ziyal\u0131 idi: atam bank i\u015f\u00e7isi, anam h\u0259kim. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 \u0259la\u00e7\u0131 idim, deyil\u0259nl\u0259ri g\u00f6yd\u0259 tuturdum. H\u0259m d\u0259 idmanla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful idim – \u0259vv\u0259l at\u0131c\u0131l\u0131q, sonradan q\u0131l\u0131ncoynatma il\u0259. Milli r\u0259qsl\u0259ri d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nirdim.Kitab oxuma\u011f\u0131 da \u00e7ox sevirdim.
\nH\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas olmaq ist\u0259yirdim, amma anam m\u0259ni fikrimd\u0259n yay\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131, dedi ki, v\u0259killik qad\u0131n i\u015fi deyil, q\u0131za daha \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u0259llimlik yara\u015far.
\nM\u0259n\u0259 \u00e7ox ciddi t\u0259rbiy\u0259 veribl\u0259r. Rusiyada do\u011fulsam da, biz h\u0259l\u0259 yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmam\u0131\u015f, anam bizi v\u0259t\u0259n\u0259, Az\u0259rbaycana g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar verib, \u00e7\u00fcnki onun fikrinc\u0259, Rusiya Az\u0259rbaycan mentaliteti ayaqla\u015fm\u0131r. N\u0259 makiyaj etm\u0259k, n\u0259 q\u0131sa \u0259t\u0259k geyinm\u0259k olard\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259m t\u0259hsilin \u0259leyhin\u0259 olmay\u0131b, \u0259ksin\u0259, anam h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ist\u0259yib ki, ali t\u0259hsilim olsun. Deyirdi: “Ac\u0131ndan \u00f6lm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ki\u015fi gedib f\u0259hl\u0259lik d\u0259 ed\u0259r, amma qad\u0131na bu yara\u015fmaz. H\u0259yatda \u00f6z yerini tapmal\u0131san!”
\nYolda\u015f\u0131mla, dem\u0259k olar ki, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olduq. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ay \u0259rzind\u0259 m\u0259ni g\u00fcd\u00fcrd\u00fc, gizlinc\u0259 arxamca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fc, sonradan tan\u0131\u015f olma\u011fa yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131. \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fclayim g\u00f6st\u0259rirdi, deyirdi: “\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n, s\u0259nin q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 diplomun batmamal\u0131d\u0131r”. Amma toydan sonra q\u0259f\u0259simin qap\u0131s\u0131 ba\u011fland\u0131. Evl\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259n sonra d\u0259rhal hamil\u0259 qald\u0131m. U\u015faq do\u011fulanda is\u0259 yolda\u015f\u0131m deyirdi: “U\u015fa\u011fa ana laz\u0131md\u0131r, g\u0259r\u0259k q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131za baxasan, evd\u0259 oturasan”.
\nDoxsanlar\u0131n \u0259vv\u0259li idi, \u00e7\u0259tin zaman idi. \u0130xtisasca h\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas olan yolda\u015f\u0131m i\u015fsiz qald\u0131, ya\u015famaq u\u00e7un v\u0259saitimiz yox idi. \u018fli-qolu ba\u011fl\u0131 otura bilm\u0259zdim. \u00d6z cehizl\u0259rimi satd\u0131m, biznes qurduq. G\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki, bazarda bo\u015fluq var – Dubaydan avtomobil aksessuarlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259tirib satma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131q. \u018fvv\u0259l azdan ba\u015flad\u0131q, sonra bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ma\u011faza sahibi olduq.
\nAmma yolda\u015f\u0131m pulun yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131naqdan ke\u00e7m\u0259di: m\u0259n\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131, q\u0259ddarla\u015fd\u0131, evd\u0259 biziml\u0259 pis davrand\u0131, h\u0259tta \u0259l qald\u0131rd\u0131. Amma t\u0259rbiy\u0259m\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u00f6z\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Anam h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 ki\u015finin s\u00f6z sahibi oldu\u011funu v\u0259 onun fikrin\u0259 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmaq vacibliyini beynim\u0259 yeritmi\u015fdi.
\n… \u0130ndi d\u0259, yolda\u015f\u0131mla bir ne\u00e7\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7ib ayr\u0131ld\u0131qdan ill\u0259r sonra yen\u0259 d\u0259 hesab edir\u0259m ki, ki\u015fil\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 s\u00f6z sahibidir. Sad\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcm \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc v\u0259 ail\u0259mi t\u0259min etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fmi\u015f\u0259m”.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259d\u0259 ev \u0259m\u0259yinin gender b\u00f6lg\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259dqiq etmi\u015f sosioloq Humay Axundzad\u0259 deyir ki, ali t\u0259hsilli evdar xan\u0131m d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r bir \u00f6lk\u0259sind\u0259 ola bil\u0259r v\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin t\u0259hlilind\u0259 h\u0259m institusional, h\u0259m \u015f\u0259xsi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r:
\n“Sovet ittifaq\u0131 da\u011f\u0131landan sonra bel\u0259 bir tendensiya yaranm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Ali t\u0259hsilli qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bir qismi pe\u015f\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259tini dayand\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, evdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7mi\u015fdi. Bunun s\u0259b\u0259bi \u0259m\u0259k bazar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259si, s\u0259rtl\u0259\u015fm\u0259si idi”.
\nHumay Axundzad\u0259nin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6t\u0259n \u0259srin 90-c\u0131 ill\u0259rind\u0259 b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar bir \u00e7ox g\u0259lirli sah\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, yeni yaranan biznes sah\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 r\u0259qab\u0259t\u0259 tab g\u0259tir\u0259 bilm\u0259dil\u0259r: “\u00dcst\u0259lik m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n sosial xidm\u0259tl\u0259rin f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti d\u0259 m\u0259hdudla\u015fm\u0131\u015fd\u0131: m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, pulsuz, d\u00f6vl\u0259t hesab\u0131na i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n k\u00f6rp\u0259l\u0259r evi, u\u015faq ba\u011f\u00e7alar\u0131 ya azald\u0131, daha keyfiyy\u0259tsiz oldu”.
\nSosiloq deyir ki, haz\u0131rda c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ali t\u0259hsilin d\u0259y\u0259ri d\u0259 birm\u0259nal\u0131 deyil.<\/p>\n
Humay Axundzad\u0259 cinsi m\u0259nsubiyy\u0259tind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, diplomun insan\u0131n i\u015f tapmas\u0131na, karyera qurmas\u0131na z\u0259man\u0259t verm\u0259diyini vur\u011fulay\u0131r:
\n“T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259k ki, ali t\u0259hsilli qad\u0131n ail\u0259 qurur, \u00f6vlad\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lir v\u0259 qad\u0131n anlay\u0131r ki, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 200-300 manat maa\u015fla u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na he\u00e7 day\u0259 d\u0259 tuta bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. \u00d6z se\u00e7imini m\u0259cburiyy\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda edir, sonra is\u0259 se\u00e7imin\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u0259n ideologiya \u0259sas\u0131nda b\u0259ra\u0259t qazand\u0131r\u0131r.
\n\u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 bel\u0259 etiraf etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kinir ki, bu se\u00e7imi m\u0259cburiyy\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda edib, “bu, m\u0259nim h\u0259yatda \u0259sas missiyamd\u0131r”, “qad\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ana olmaq daha \u00f6n\u0259mlidir” dey\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc inand\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r”.
\nSosioloq d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, ad\u0259t\u0259n, \u0259trafdak\u0131lar da qad\u0131n\u0131n bu kimi h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yir v\u0259 bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259 ali t\u0259hsilli evdar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131na problem kimi yana\u015f\u0131lm\u0131r:
\n“M\u00fcqayis\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyim ki, 40-50 il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131n ictimai q\u0131na\u011fa m\u0259ruz qala bil\u0259rdi, \u00e7\u00fcnki ideoloji s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 “i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n ana” obraz\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011f olunurdu. Y\u0259ni ideal qad\u0131n obraz\u0131 h\u0259m evdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259tinin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259yi n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tuturdu.
\nHal-haz\u0131rda is\u0259 ali t\u0259hsilli qad\u0131nlar\u0131n evdar qad\u0131n olmas\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ala bil\u0259c\u0259k ciddi bir mane\u0259 yoxdur. Bel\u0259 mane\u0259 yaln\u0131z konkret insan\u0131n \u00f6z motivl\u0259ri, inadkarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ola bil\u0259r”.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq Ellada Qorina is\u0259, \u0259ksin\u0259, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, diplom h\u0259l\u0259 he\u00e7 k\u0259s\u0259 mane olmay\u0131b:
\n“Ali t\u0259hsil alm\u0131\u015f h\u0259r bir k\u0259s, \u0259n az\u0131, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 yeni bilikl\u0259r \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259yi bacar\u0131r, daha geni\u015f d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fc var. H\u0259tta qad\u0131n universiteti bitir\u0259n kimi ail\u0259 qursa da, ali t\u0259hsilin h\u0259yatda ona yaln\u0131z k\u00f6m\u0259yi d\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. H\u0259yat\u0131nda d\u0259yi\u015fikl\u0259r olsa, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ali t\u0259hsill\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tapmaq daha asan olacaq.
\nOnun fikrinc\u0259, b\u0259z\u0259n diplom “cehiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259lav\u0259 b\u00f4nus” hesab olunur.<\/p>\n
“Q\u0131z \u0259r\u0259 gedir v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Amma el\u0259 d\u0259 ola bil\u0259r ki, g\u0259nc g\u0259lin evd\u0259 oturur, amma \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc xo\u015fb\u0259xt duymur. O, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259k ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131nda, ana v\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 kimi yox, ictimai h\u0259yatda da do\u011frultmaq ist\u0259yir.
\nV\u0259 buna \u00e7atmayanda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u0259db\u0259xt hiss edir. Lakin bel\u0259 hissl\u0259ri “\u00f6z yerind\u0259 olmayan” h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bil\u0259r. V\u0259 bu, onun ali t\u0259hsilli olub-olmamas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 deyil”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“Cehizlik diplom” anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na Az\u0259rbaycanda b\u0259z\u0259n istehza il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, ancaq ali t\u0259hsil alsa da, \u00f6mr\u00fcnd\u0259 bir g\u00fcn d\u0259 olsa i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlar az deyil. BBC News Az\u0259rbaycanca ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b diplomunu da “cehizinin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 qoyub” \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc-g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc ail\u0259sin\u0259 h\u0259sr el\u0259mi\u015f xan\u0131mlarla h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t olub. Kral u\u015fa\u011f\u0131: analar\u0131n rolu nec\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir? Siqareti atmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc? “G\u00fcn\u00fcm internetl\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b onunla da bitir” \u0130lk m\u00fcsahibimizin 42 ya\u015f\u0131 var, ali m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 bank i\u015fini oxusa da evdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7ib, indi ancaq ail\u0259sinin qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r: “G\u00f6zl\u0259, u\u015faq d\u0259rs\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sir, yem\u0259yini verim, yola sal\u0131m, sonra rahat dan\u0131\u015far\u0131q, – Sevil xan\u0131m…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":97451,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643.jpg",588,362,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643.jpg",588,362,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643.jpg",588,362,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643-300x185.jpg",300,185,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643.jpg",588,362,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643.jpg",588,362,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643.jpg",588,362,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1544211226_47680632_330052847586958_834855787234643.jpg",588,362,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"“Cehizlik diplom” anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na Az\u0259rbaycanda b\u0259z\u0259n istehza il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, ancaq ali t\u0259hsil alsa da, \u00f6mr\u00fcnd\u0259 bir g\u00fcn d\u0259 olsa i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlar az deyil. BBC News Az\u0259rbaycanca ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b diplomunu da “cehizinin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 qoyub” \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc-g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc ail\u0259sin\u0259 h\u0259sr el\u0259mi\u015f xan\u0131mlarla h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t olub. Kral u\u015fa\u011f\u0131: analar\u0131n rolu nec\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir? Siqareti atmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc? “G\u00fcn\u00fcm internetl\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b onunla…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97450"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=97450"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97450\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/97451"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=97450"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=97450"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=97450"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}