\u018fg\u0259r sizin \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda daimi partnyorlar kaleydoskopu varsa v\u0259 siz he\u00e7 c\u00fcr\u0259 ikinci yar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tapa bilmirsinizs\u0259, bunda sizin anan\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcnahkar olmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.
\nAB\u015e-\u0131n Ohio Universitetinin aliml\u0259rind\u0259n ibar\u0259t qrup bu n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lib.
\nBu m\u0259lumatlar Plos One elmi sayt\u0131nda d\u0259rc olunub.<\/p>\n
24 il \u0259rzind\u0259 7 min adam aras\u0131ndak\u0131 romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri ara\u015fd\u0131ran sosioloqlar yetkin ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259yatlar\u0131 boyu sahib olduqlar\u0131 partnyorlar\u0131n, onlar\u0131n analar\u0131n\u0131n sevgi \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rinin say\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li tendensiya a\u015fkar edibl\u0259r. Ni<\/b>k<\/b>aha meyllilik<\/b> Xarakter x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri irs\u0259n ke\u00e7diyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, m\u00f6hk\u0259m m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r qurma\u011f\u0131 bacarmayan ana x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6vladlara da \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259 bil\u0259r. N\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, maliyy\u0259 aspektini n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almasaq ayr\u0131l\u0131q narahatl\u0131q g\u0259tirir? Bununla yana\u015f\u0131, statistika g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, Q\u0259rb \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n v\u0259 nigahs\u0131z ya\u015fayanlar aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n say\u0131 artmaqda davam edir. \u018fg\u0259r sizin \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda daimi partnyorlar kaleydoskopu varsa v\u0259 siz he\u00e7 c\u00fcr\u0259 ikinci yar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tapa bilmirsinizs\u0259, bunda sizin anan\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcnahkar olmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. AB\u015e-\u0131n Ohio Universitetinin aliml\u0259rind\u0259n ibar\u0259t qrup bu n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lib. Bu m\u0259lumatlar Plos One elmi sayt\u0131nda d\u0259rc olunub. 24 il \u0259rzind\u0259 7 min adam aras\u0131ndak\u0131 romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri ara\u015fd\u0131ran sosioloqlar yetkin ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259yatlar\u0131 boyu sahib olduqlar\u0131 partnyorlar\u0131n, onlar\u0131n analar\u0131n\u0131n sevgi \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rinin say\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li tendensiya a\u015fkar edibl\u0259r. Aliml\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edibl\u0259r ki, ana il\u0259 h\u0259r yeni romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259t onun \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n partnyorlar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131 orta hesabla 6% art\u0131r\u0131r. Daha \u0259vv\u0259l apar\u0131lan…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":98557,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1.jpg",598,338,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1.jpg",598,338,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1.jpg",598,338,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1-300x170.jpg",300,170,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1.jpg",598,338,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1.jpg",598,338,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1.jpg",598,338,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574230943_screenshot_1.jpg",598,338,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u018fg\u0259r sizin \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda daimi partnyorlar kaleydoskopu varsa v\u0259 siz he\u00e7 c\u00fcr\u0259 ikinci yar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tapa bilmirsinizs\u0259, bunda sizin anan\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcnahkar olmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. AB\u015e-\u0131n Ohio Universitetinin aliml\u0259rind\u0259n ibar\u0259t qrup bu n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lib. Bu m\u0259lumatlar Plos One elmi sayt\u0131nda d\u0259rc olunub. 24 il \u0259rzind\u0259 7 min adam aras\u0131ndak\u0131 romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri ara\u015fd\u0131ran sosioloqlar yetkin ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259yatlar\u0131…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98556"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=98556"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98556\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/98557"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=98556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=98556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=98556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nAliml\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edibl\u0259r ki, ana il\u0259 h\u0259r yeni romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259t onun \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n partnyorlar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131 orta hesabla 6% art\u0131r\u0131r.
\nDaha \u0259vv\u0259l apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalarda bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n tam ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck ehtimalla bo\u015fanacaqlar\u0131 qeyd olunub.
\nLakin indi m\u0259lum olub ki, b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u015faqlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na v\u0259 h\u0259yat se\u00e7imin\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin bo\u015fanmas\u0131ndan \u00e7ox, analar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir.
\n“B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 ola bil\u0259r ki, partnyorlar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 d\u0259qiq olmayan analar yax\u015f\u0131 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurma\u011f\u0131 bacarm\u0131r, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259li v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bilmir v\u0259 ya psixi pozuntularla ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259ri var. Yuxar\u0131da sadalananlardan h\u0259r biri m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri poza v\u0259 h\u0259yatda qeyri-sabitliy\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xara bil\u0259r”, – dey\u0259 ara\u015fd\u0131rman\u0131n r\u0259hb\u0259ri Claire Kamp Dush “Times”a m\u00fcsahib\u0259sind\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b.
\n“H\u0259r konkret v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 mexanizm n\u0259 olursa olsun, analar bu x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6vladlar\u0131na \u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Bu is\u0259 \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259ki romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini daha az sabit edir”, Kapm Dush bel\u0259 fikirl\u0259\u015fir.<\/p>\n
\nAil\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 ail\u0259 probleml\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olan psixoloqlar v\u0259 sosioloqlar \u00e7oxdand\u0131r ki, b\u0259zi insanlar\u0131n dig\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n “nikaha daha meylli” olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 iddia edirl\u0259r.
\nY\u0259ni, burada s\u00f6hb\u0259t h\u0259min insanlar\u0131n onlar\u0131 potensial partnyorlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha cazib\u0259dar ed\u0259n x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 sahib olmas\u0131ndan gedir.
\nV\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r sonuncu rolu oynam\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnki onlar biz\u0259 \u00f6z genl\u0259rini \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r v\u0259 bizim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n h\u0259yat \u015f\u0259raiti yarad\u0131rlar, c\u00fctl\u00fck m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin qurulmas\u0131nda da ilk n\u00fcmun\u0259 onlard\u0131r.
\nAra\u015fd\u0131rma zaman\u0131 Ohio Universitetinin aliml\u0259ri m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edibl\u0259r ki, depressiyadan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n analar\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u00f6z emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n pis g\u0259lirl\u0259r, dig\u0259r insanlarla m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri b\u0259rbadd\u0131r, onlarda empatiya (\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n v\u0259 ya canl\u0131n\u0131n yerind\u0259 hiss etm\u0259 bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131) a\u015fa\u011f\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 onlarda m\u0259nfi m\u00fcnasib\u0259t (guya “b\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259r \u0259clafd\u0131r” v\u0259 ya “b\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131nlar axmaqd\u0131r”) \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck t\u0259\u015fkil edir.
\nB\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 depressiya \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259rinin yaranmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xara bil\u0259r.
\nBu c\u00fcr \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 sahib olan insanlar\u0131n is\u0259 daha az sabit m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri olur.<\/p>\n
\nBununla yana\u015f\u0131, \u00fcz\u00fcyum\u015faq, s\u0259mimi, mehriban, vicdanl\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259s\u0259bi olmayan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r arzuolunan partnyor olurlar v\u0259 daha tez-tez sabit c\u00fctl\u00fck formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rlar.
\nSosioloqlar\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etdiyi kimi, bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131 yetkinlik \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131nda evl\u0259nm\u0259k \u0259leyhin\u0259 olmay\u0131blar.
\nEvl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r is\u0259 \u00f6z partnyorlar\u0131 il\u0259 k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131lar.
\nH\u0259m\u00e7inin qeyd olunub ki, k\u0259nardan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri yax\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n \u0259r-arvad n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 bo\u015fan\u0131bsa, onlar\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131 da b\u00f6y\u00fck ehtimalla onlar\u0131n yolunu davam etdirm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131rlar.
\nLakin valideynl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda “\u00e7\u0259tin, amma sabit m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r” \u015f\u0259raitind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 bo\u015fanmaya daha az meylli olurlar.<\/p>\nAyr\u0131l\u0131q a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 \u00fct\u00fc yan\u0131\u011f\u0131na b\u0259rab\u0259rdir?<\/h2>\n
\n\u018fg\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r pozulubsa v\u0259 ya bitibs\u0259, m\u0259g\u0259r ayr\u0131l\u0131q y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u00fck g\u0259tirm\u0259m\u0259lidir?
\nM\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ondad\u0131r ki, Kolumbiya Universitetinin nevrobioloqlar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n apar\u0131lan dig\u0259r ara\u015fd\u0131rmada m\u0259lum olub ki, beynimiz m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin pozulmas\u0131n\u0131 fiziki a\u011fr\u0131 kimi q\u0259bul edir.
\nM\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, yan\u0131q zaman\u0131 yaranan a\u011fr\u0131 kimi. Lakin bu o dem\u0259k deyil ki, sevgilisind\u0259n ayr\u0131lmaq insana \u00fct\u00fc yan\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi a\u011fr\u0131 verir. Bu o dem\u0259kdir ki, beynimiz bunun da m\u00fch\u00fcm olmas\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 informasiya \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Aliml\u0259r hesab edir ki, bunun arxas\u0131nda t\u0259kam\u00fcl s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri dayana bil\u0259r: a\u011fr\u0131 fiziki t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 bar\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q edir v\u0259 bizi m\u00fcdafi\u0259 t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edir.
\nPsixoloq Melanie Greenberg-in qeyd etdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, heyvanlar d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda, t\u0259k olmaqdansa \u00f6z\u00fc kimil\u0259rl\u0259 bir qrupda olaraq m\u00fcdafi\u0259 olunmaq daha asand\u0131r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 uzaq \u0259cdadlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 sosial t\u0259crid f\u0259rdin fiziki ya\u015famas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259m\u00e7inin t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 yarada bil\u0259rdi v\u0259 biz bu g\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r bunu \u00f6z rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 kimi q\u0259bul edirik.<\/p>\n
\nHal-haz\u0131rda birg\u0259 ya\u015famaqdan imtina etm\u0259yin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri hans\u0131lard\u0131r?
\n2010-2012-ci ild\u0259 Britaniyada ke\u00e7iril\u0259n cinsi \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259r v\u0259 h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi bar\u0259d\u0259 ara\u015fd\u0131man\u0131n t\u0259hlilin\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n, \u0259n geni\u015f yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r siyah\u0131s\u0131nda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131lar yer al\u0131b: m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin eroziyas\u0131, yadla\u015fmaq, qalmaqal v\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259, x\u0259yan\u0259t, h\u00f6rm\u0259t v\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n olmamas\u0131.
\nB\u00fct\u00fcn bu s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin n\u00f6v\u00fcnd\u0259n, y\u0259ni qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f nigah v\u0259 ya sad\u0259c\u0259 birg\u0259 ya\u015famaqdan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. Daha sonra s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u00fcmimi maraqlar\u0131n olmamas\u0131, cinsi h\u0259yatda \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n olmamas\u0131, spirtli i\u00e7ki problemi v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q yer al\u0131b.
\nAil\u0259daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131q m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin pozulmas\u0131nda qad\u0131nlar t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259b kimi 4 d\u0259f\u0259 art\u0131q s\u0259sl\u0259nib. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 15,9 faizi, ki\u015fil\u0259rin is\u0259 3,7 faizi bunu s\u0259b\u0259b kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rib.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"