“\u0130ngilis ki\u015fisi” dey\u0259nd\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259 hans\u0131 obraz yaran\u0131r? “Notting Hill” filmind\u0259ki Hugh Grant? Yoxsa “Q\u00fcrur v\u0259 q\u0259r\u0259z” fimind\u0259ki, n\u0259m k\u00f6yn\u0259k b\u0259d\u0259nin\u0259 yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u0259z\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n Colin Firth? T\u0259vaz\u00f6kar, dili y\u00fcng\u00fclc\u0259 p\u0259lt\u0259k vuran, q\u00fcsursuz davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 bir q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259qs\u0259dsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n n\u0259zak\u0259tliyil\u0259 diqq\u0259ti c\u0259lb ed\u0259n q\u0259hr\u0259man?<\/p>\n
Bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 ingilis ki\u015fil\u0259ri irad\u0259siz, daim inl\u0259y\u0259n, daima “olum, ya \u00f6l\u00fcm” kimi suallarla \u00f6zl\u0259rini bezdir\u0259n kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.
\nAmma stereotipl\u0259r aldad\u0131c\u0131 ola bil\u0259r. Odur ki, ingilis ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259 ged\u0259n qad\u0131nlar, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131d\u0131k\u0131 m\u0259lumatlar sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maraql\u0131 ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
1.\u00a0<\/b>G\u00fcll\u0259ri unut v\u0259 \u00f6z x\u0259rcini \u00f6z\u00fcn<\/b>\u00a0\u00e7\u0259k<\/b><\/p>\n
Ola bilsin ki, ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259 ki\u015fi sizin yeriniz\u0259 pul \u00f6d\u0259sin. Lakin sonrak\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 x\u0259rcl\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259li olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.
\n\u0130ngilis ki\u015fisi qad\u0131na \u0259yl\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259z, onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259, g\u00fcl v\u0259 h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 pul x\u0259rcl\u0259m\u0259z.
\n\u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn hesablar – nahardan ipoteka kreditin\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r – ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n aras\u0131nda b\u0259rab\u0259r b\u00f6l\u00fcn\u00fcr. H\u0259tta qad\u0131n ki\u015fid\u0259n az qazansa bel\u0259…
\nEl\u0259 qad\u0131nlar da var ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn x\u0259rcl\u0259ri \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131rlar. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 yox ki, onlar z\u0259ngindirl\u0259r.
\nBel\u0259 qad\u0131nlar hesab edirl\u0259r ki, ki\u015fi onlar\u0131n x\u0259rcini \u00f6d\u0259yirs\u0259, onda bel\u0259 hesab ed\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, bunun \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 ona n\u0259s\u0259 \u00e7atmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nOdur ki, ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f zaman\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u00f6z i\u015ftah\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n haqq\u0131n\u0131 \u0259m\u0259lli-ba\u015fl\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259y\u0259siniz. \u018fslind\u0259 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n ba\u015fqa \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z da yoxdur.<\/p>\n
2.\u00a0<\/b>\u00d6z corablar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc yusun<\/b><\/p>\n
Moskvadan g\u0259lmi\u015f 28 ya\u015fl\u0131 Tanya indi Londonda \u00f6z ingilis sevgilisil\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. O deyir ki, qad\u0131n ki\u015finin qulluq\u00e7usu yox, partnyoru oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r.
\n“\u0130ngilisl\u0259r qad\u0131n\u0131 ev i\u015fl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u0259n qulluq\u00e7u kimi yox, dost v\u0259 partnyor g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r”, – Tanya deyir.
\n“Rusiyada qad\u0131nlar hesab edirl\u0259r ki, ki\u015fi m\u0259tb\u0259x\u0259 yaln\u0131z yem\u0259yini yem\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u0259lm\u0259lidir. Ev i\u015fl\u0259rini \u015f\u0259rikli g\u00f6rm\u0259k bizim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcredilm\u0259z, ingilis qad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 bu, adi qaydad\u0131r , – ingilis sevgilisi olan dig\u0259r bir rusiyal\u0131 qad\u0131n, 24 ya\u015fl\u0131 Anastasiya deyir.
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\n\u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi gender stereotipl\u0259ri art\u0131q, dem\u0259k olar ki, qalmay\u0131b.
\nKe\u00e7irilmi\u015f sor\u011fular g\u00f6st\u0259rib ki, r\u0259yi soru\u015fulanlar\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7d\u0259 d\u00f6rd\u00fc qad\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131z ev i\u015fl\u0259ril\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmas\u0131 il\u0259 raz\u0131 deyil. 10 il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131 \u00fcmumi say\u0131n t\u0259xmin\u0259n yar\u0131s\u0131 q\u0259d\u0259r idi.
\nRusiyada is\u0259 ke\u00e7iril\u0259n sor\u011fu g\u00f6st\u0259rib ki, qad\u0131nlar \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 gender b\u0259rab\u0259rliyinin m\u00f6vcud olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 q\u0259na\u0259tind\u0259dirl\u0259r, “feminizm” terminini is\u0259 n\u0259 qad\u0131nlar, n\u0259 d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r q\u0259bul etmirl\u0259r.<\/b>
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\n3.\u00a0\u0130dman \u015falvar\u0131 geym\u0259kd\u0259n utanmay\u0131n
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\nRusiyada qad\u0131nlar b\u0259z\u0259n h\u0259tta ma\u011fazaya g\u00fcnd\u0259lik \u0259rzaq almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ged\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 makiyajda v\u0259 h\u00fcnd\u00fcrdabanda gedirl\u0259r.
\n\u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 is\u0259 s\u0259h\u0259r oyan\u0131b el\u0259 h\u0259min g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fd\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259rzaq almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ma\u011fazaya yollanmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.
\n\u018fg\u0259r supermarketd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za dar paltarl\u0131, h\u00fcnd\u00fcrdaban geymi\u015f, makiyajl\u0131 qad\u0131n \u00e7\u0131xarsa, dem\u0259li bu, c\u00fcm\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn ax\u015fam\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 h\u0259min o qad\u0131n spirtli i\u00e7kil\u0259r olan \u015f\u00f6b\u0259y\u0259 yolan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Tanya hesab edir ki, Rusiyada qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259ri f\u0259th etm\u0259k u\u011frunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apard\u0131qlar\u0131ndan \u00f6z xarici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 daha art\u0131q diqq\u0259t yetirirl\u0259r. O, bunu \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 m\u00f6vcud olan gender balanss\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirir.<\/p>\n
4.\u00a0<\/b>He\u00e7 olmasa, ilk \u0259vv\u0259l n\u0259zak\u0259tli olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n<\/b><\/p>\n
Ruslar sizin \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 n\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckl\u0259rini birba\u015fa bildirm\u0259kd\u0259n utanm\u0131rlar.
\n“Bu yaxnlarda m\u0259nim day\u0131mq\u0131z\u0131 ucadan \u0259rin\u0259 dedi: g\u00f6r, nec\u0259 k\u00f6k\u0259lmis\u0259n!” – Anastasiya deyir.
\nRuslar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckl\u0259rini d\u0259rhal \u00fcz\u0259 deyirl\u0259r.
\nGenetik s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259zak\u0259tli olma\u011fa proqramla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ingilisl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bel\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f a\u011flas\u0131\u011fmazd\u0131r. S\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131 s\u00fckut yarand\u0131qda, ingilisl\u0259r bo\u015flu\u011fu dolurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 g\u0259ldi dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar.
\n5.\u00a0Onlar h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 n\u0259yl\u0259s\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011fuldurlar!
\n<\/b><\/p>\n
H\u0259m Anastasiya, h\u0259m d\u0259 Tanya hesab edirl\u0259r ki, ingilis ki\u015fil\u0259ri \u00e7ox f\u0259ald\u0131rlar v\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 harasa t\u0259l\u0259sirl\u0259r. Onlar s\u0259yah\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rlar, konsertl\u0259r\u0259 gedirl\u0259r. Rus ki\u015fil\u0259ri is\u0259 evd\u0259 oturub piv\u0259 i\u00e7ir.
\nOnlar\u0131 he\u00e7 n\u0259 maraqland\u0131rm\u0131r. G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, bunun s\u0259b\u0259bi onlar\u0131n n\u0259 siyas\u0259td\u0259, n\u0259 d\u0259 iqtisadiyyatda he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259l\u0259ril\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259tta z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015f adam da yax\u015f\u0131 i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 \u0259min deyil, onda \u0259lav\u0259 \u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 qat\u0131lma\u011fa n\u0259 ehtiyac?” – Tanya deyir.<\/b>
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\n6.\u00a0M\u00fcst\u0259qillik x\u0259rc t\u0259l\u0259b edir<\/b><\/p>\n
Tanya etiraf edir ki, \u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar daha m\u00fcst\u0259qildir v\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131na n\u0259zar\u0259t \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259dir. Lakin bu \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fcn \u0259ks c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u0259 var.
\n“D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr\u0259m ki, burada qad\u0131nlar partnyorlar\u0131na arxalana bilsin, ondan emosinal d\u0259st\u0259k g\u00f6zl\u0259sinl\u0259r. M\u0259n k\u0259d\u0259rli olanda o hesab edir ki, bu m\u0259nim \u015f\u0259xsi i\u015fimdir, \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259m”, – Tanya deyir.<\/b>
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\n7.\u00a0G\u0259linlik paltar\u0131 alma\u011fa t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259yin<\/b><\/p>\n
V\u0259 sonda \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131: ingilisl\u0259r h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259smirl\u0259r, onlar g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259, sad\u0259c\u0259, \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259 kimi g\u0259lirl\u0259r.
\n“G\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259yin ki, o, siz\u0259 el\u0259 ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259n sonra vurulacaq”, – Tanya x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q edir.
\nRusiya il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 \u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259k bar\u0259d\u0259 daha yuxar\u0131 ya\u015flarda ciddi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. \u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259, sor\u011fulara g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131nlar orta hesabla 31 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 gedirl\u0259r, ki\u015fil\u0259r is\u0259 33 ya\u015f\u0131nda evl\u0259nirl\u0259r. Rusiyada is\u0259 bu g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259r, m\u00fcvafiq olaraq qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 24 ya\u015f, ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 27 ya\u015fd\u0131r.
\n“M\u0259n ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm ki, ciddi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r axtarmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 v\u0259 buna m\u0259cbur etm\u0259y\u0259 yol verm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yimi d\u0259rhal anlatmal\u0131yam, – Harry adl\u0131 g\u0259nc ki\u015fi deyib. – \u018fn \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n el\u0259 edin ki, he\u00e7 bir anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131\u011fa yer qalmas\u0131n”.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“\u0130ngilis ki\u015fisi” dey\u0259nd\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259 hans\u0131 obraz yaran\u0131r? “Notting Hill” filmind\u0259ki Hugh Grant? Yoxsa “Q\u00fcrur v\u0259 q\u0259r\u0259z” fimind\u0259ki, n\u0259m k\u00f6yn\u0259k b\u0259d\u0259nin\u0259 yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u0259z\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n Colin Firth? T\u0259vaz\u00f6kar, dili y\u00fcng\u00fclc\u0259 p\u0259lt\u0259k vuran, q\u00fcsursuz davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 bir q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259qs\u0259dsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n n\u0259zak\u0259tliyil\u0259 diqq\u0259ti c\u0259lb ed\u0259n q\u0259hr\u0259man? Bir \u00e7ox \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 ingilis ki\u015fil\u0259ri irad\u0259siz, daim inl\u0259y\u0259n, daima “olum, ya \u00f6l\u00fcm” kimi suallarla \u00f6zl\u0259rini bezdir\u0259n kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Amma stereotipl\u0259r aldad\u0131c\u0131 ola bil\u0259r. Odur ki, ingilis ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259 ged\u0259n qad\u0131nlar, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131d\u0131k\u0131 m\u0259lumatlar sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maraql\u0131 ola bil\u0259r. 1.\u00a0G\u00fcll\u0259ri unut v\u0259 \u00f6z x\u0259rcini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00a0\u00e7\u0259k Ola bilsin…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":98561,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1.jpg",603,318,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1.jpg",603,318,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1.jpg",603,318,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1-300x158.jpg",300,158,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1.jpg",603,318,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1.jpg",603,318,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1.jpg",603,318,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/1574231199_screenshot_1.jpg",603,318,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"“\u0130ngilis ki\u015fisi” dey\u0259nd\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259 hans\u0131 obraz yaran\u0131r? “Notting Hill” filmind\u0259ki Hugh Grant? Yoxsa “Q\u00fcrur v\u0259 q\u0259r\u0259z” fimind\u0259ki, n\u0259m k\u00f6yn\u0259k b\u0259d\u0259nin\u0259 yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u0259z\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n Colin Firth? T\u0259vaz\u00f6kar, dili y\u00fcng\u00fclc\u0259 p\u0259lt\u0259k vuran, q\u00fcsursuz davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 bir q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259qs\u0259dsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n n\u0259zak\u0259tliyil\u0259 diqq\u0259ti c\u0259lb ed\u0259n q\u0259hr\u0259man? 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